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What makes sex with a girl bad?

What can a girl do or not do that makes sex bad or what can a girl do to make sex really good?
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  • As long as you're fucking her pussy, it's never "bad". But it's not inspiring if she just lies there like a starfish and shows no reactions.

    Good sex is when she is eager. Her pussy wants to swallow cock. She's ravenous. She fucks back urgently and enthusiastically, and moves her body to maximize her own experience. She lets go, loses herself, and wants more. She can tell him what she wants or what feels good, and may even say things like "Oh my God!", "Your cock feels so good inside me!", "I'm so full!", "Stretch me!", "Faster!", "Fuck me harder!", "Yes! That's it! Just like that!", "It feels like you're fucking my guts!", "You're going to make me cum!" You get the idea.
    Simply breathing hard and making sounds gives the guy a clue that he's doing it right.

    It's all about her enjoying it, not just allowing the guy to fuck her. Her pleasure inspires him and intensifies his pleasure.

    It's the ultimate if she orgasms. Some girl's orgasms are intense and obvious, but not always. So it's good to gasp "I'm going to cum! I going to cum! Ohhh don't stop!" And when you bust loose, you can even cry "Oh my God! I'm CUMMMING!"

    But all of it has to be genuine. It will suck if he thinks you are putting on an act. So you need to first learn to fuck back and move your body while he is fucking you. Genuinely seek your own pleasure. And it's okay if you don't orgasm as long as you enjoy the sex.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Bad?
    When she's quiet... too quiet.
    If I can't make her cum.
    If I try every trick I was taught and none work, I feel failure and I wonder if she's not into me enough to be relaxed.
    If she won't tell me what she likes. I don't know that and if I'm fumbling around doing things that other women like and she doesn't, the outcome will be sub-optimal for both of us.
    If she just gets off and then just leaves.

    Good?
    When she tells me what I'm doing right and she shows and screams it.
    When she's playfull to the point she needs to explode.
    When she's funny through the heat.
    When she let's me go down on her for as long as I want.
    When she excites my to the brink and then eases off and extends things.
    When she goes completely crazy on top of me and collapses, quaking in her orgasm.
    When I start to cum, she just continues to go with it no matter where, and how she's caused it.
    When we stay connected after we've cum.
    When she's not embarrassed to let me clean up her/our creampie.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think that it's bad if you are cold and not willing to do the basic or fun things. like oral sex for example.

    good things can be willing to learn new things that please your partner

    but only go where you want to, you have your personal tastes and your partner must respect you

    • some good advice here

    • @swettannie thank you

  • Lack of stimulation.
    Lack of expressions.
    Too much expressions can also be bad.
    Dirty talk can also be a turn off.
    Being too rough can hurt.
    Distracted.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Not to insult anyone but girls really do not need to perform all that much during sex to reach an okay/good level - going to amazing takes a lot sure, but good does not. Basically enjoy yourself, shie that, and do not intentionally ruin the whole thing and you're up at good.

    As for the common things that make girls bad? It'd be the starfish bit. Her basically just laying there all unresponsive.

    • What takes it to amazing? I’ve been guilty of just lying there but I get so nervous what can I do instead? What do you want a girl to do

    • Think I said it really but her having a good time really is half of everything. If you are feeling great and showing that, you're already going to appear extra appealing to whoever likes you. Amazing is more about the fine details. Chemistry and all. The ability to read your partner and push their right buttons to the right extent. It'd take practice or luck.

  • Great question! Not that I have a ton of experience but I've got some.
    Guys (I at least) like it when I girl moves her body into sexy positions. This seems straightforward but when you're in the moment sometimes you forget and just lie there like a dead fish. Don't get me wrong I understand sometimes you're tired even but if your trying to be sexy arch your back, move your hips, shake your ass. It goes a long way trust me.

  • If I don't cum, it was not good.

    • Has that ever happened if so how?

    • Yes. Both of us were low on energy and we just gave up.

  • One man at work said his wife told him that he could have sex anytime he wanted with her, but pull down her nightgown down when he is finished. That is my definition of bad sex.

  • If she's got barbered wire or razor blades in her pussy, that can bb possibly be a bad thing, if you're not careful with your dick!

  • Sex is bad when it is not wanted and you are not an active participant.

  • Bad sex is pretty much just a lack of enthusiasm and participation.

  • Her not giving consent or her not enjoying it.. Makes it bad...
    If she gives consent and enjoys it. And is enthusiastic about it..
    Than it's good..

  • Make sure you wash down there thoroughly with warm soapy water, nothing worse than eating her pussy and and finding bits of toilet paper.

  • Sex should be equal for both. Both need to put same effort. But the experiences I had I was the one doing most of things.

  • sex is bad if she smells like perfume

  • Don’t be a dead fish, if your not going to work at all, at least moan or use your hands

  • Its bad if a girl just lays their like a dead fish and makes no effort.

  • Just laying there makes us bad. Lol

    • Yep. If a guy knows what’s he doing , you’ll never just lay there.

    • This is true the guy I’m sleeping with now has me in many positions and doing things I really appreciate that makes me then do it off my own back

    • Great 😊

  • Bad:
    -her making a bored/annoyed face
    -"don't do this" "don't do that" "I don't like this etc."
    -no intimacy, too cold, as less body to body contact as possible
    -being rude and pressuring/stressing around
    -being passive like a corpse and doing absolutely nothing

  • Bad sex would be if she looks bored or acts like a dead fish. By dead fish I mean she literally doesn't move at all. A girl who is at least expressive with her eyes or face is better. Good sex is where she claws your back or moans naturally or at least well enough that it doesn't seem fake

  • If she doesn't follow the mans lead. Or if she tries to lead herself. Or if she has lots of hangups (ie dont touch me like that, dont do this position, dont eat me out, dont cum near my face) so annoying to have to deal with a bunch of crap like that.

  • She just lays their. Or bites down hard. I don’t mine some teeth but not chunk of skin.

  • lack of open mindedness and enthusiasm

  • Limits and unliving/cold makes a girl with sex

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