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Fiance might be a pedophile?

I think my fiance might be a pedophile. Whoch I hope is not the case because we have a son together now. Today we were having "sex" (Im still healing from the child birth) and we were having a lot of talk and foreplay. He asked me what my sexual desire/fantasy is and I told him so I asked him his. He asked me if I would hate him before he told me. He said he wants to have a threescore with me and my little sister. She is 8yrs old right now. I didn't know how to respond to him. He also has a past kind of. He got kicked out of his parents at 15yrs because he had intercourse with his sister who was 10yrs at the time. I think I already know the answer to my question but just don't want it to be true. We've been together 2 years and always talked about how he hates pedos but today revealed a different side of him. Should I talk to him about what he said or leave it be? He was very drunk at the time.
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  • He has said he hates pedos, but he has shown you that he is one. Actions speak louder than words! He has had sex with his10 year old sister. And now he wants to include sex with your 8 year old sister With the warnings in front of you, you have become engaged to him and had a chld with him. Why did you ignore all the red flags that he must have shown you over the years?

Most Helpful Guy

  • At first, there might be some
    hope to guide him back from that kind of thinking coz maybe that his wildest imagination. He also might be talk about when your sister grew older BUT when I read the part he had sex with his sister. Shit. That really some f*** up thing.

    • Yeah. When he first told me the reasons he got kicked out he said it was because his sister accused him of rape to be petty. They got into an argument over money and she did that in return. His story sounded like it was missing details so I did some digging through his old technologies and figured the truth from there.

    • Old technologies? What is that? 😅 So the truth is that he really did have sex with his sister?

    • Honestly, im not too sure. I went through his old phone and tablet. He still had conversations and stuff that wasn't deleted. He often lies to impress people but this was more of a confession to his ex. He told her that it was consensual. Sometimes I want to find his ex to talk to her about it but everytime I search her up its like she never existed.

Most Helpful Girls

  • So you found out about his sister, and remained with him?
    He’s slept with a minor who was also a sibling. So that’s rape, incest and paedophillia. What’s not to understand?

    • I did, its been a decade since and he was going to therapy or a psychiatrist. I had hoped it was because he was a stupid horny teen not a sexual desire.

    • Oh you are getting quite huffy puffy now?

    • Stupid horny teenagers don’t rape their siblings. They watch porn or flick through a magazine.

  • Wait so you knew he had sex with his sister before even getting with him?

    • No, I only knew he got kicked out at 15. I didn't know the reason, I did some digging and found out that way.

    • Oh ok well that’s a little better I guess But the fact you know now and the fact he wants to have sex with an 8 year regardless of whether it’s your sister or not is completely wrong and disgusting and you should leave him. I know that’s not someone I’d want to be with.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Alcohol lowers people's inhibitions and the things that they say when they are drunk are their thoughts and feelings. You know what you need to do.

  • Holy FUCK!!! This can't be real.

  • Yeah, he’s a pedo, he’s proven it.

  • Uh Yeah he is a pedo, dump his ass and get him out of your life, your comment about him and his sister means he will do it again.

  • You'd be surprised at the number of guys that are attracted to underage girls. It is usually okay unless they act on it.

  • Has he mentioned it since that night? Have you? Are you tempted to set up the threesome with your sister?

  • Birds of a feather do flock together.

  • Yikes, that is seriously twisted.

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