Out of curiosity guys what do you think of virgins or girls that only had just one sex partner in their life?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

It's fine. No problem at all.
I've never been with a virgin, but my first two girlfriends had only been with one previous partner. Of course I was 16 and they were 15 at the time.

My biggest problem with virgins is, it seems like a lot of responsibility. I'd want to make their first time very special. I'd want their experience to be pleasurable and I'd be a little bit afraid of hurting them. But if they were really horny and eager to lose their virginity, I'd be happy to be their first.
The other problem might be that they would get immediately attached. Just because I have sex with someone doesn't necessarily mean that I want to marry them. And I'm afraid of girls who think sex means exactly that. I don't like the idea of saving oneself for marriage.

Deep infatuation is the greatest experience. And that means two people giving themselves to each other in a relationship without reservation. That kind of sex is the best. But it doesn't necessarily mean that they are required to spend the rest of their lives together. Sex is just sex. It's an amazingly enjoyable recreation that two people can engage in. But a lifetime together is based on much more.

I prefer women who have experience, love sex and know how to enjoy it. But that doesn't mean that I would reject someone just because they didn't have experience.

humpbackjack · Accepted Answer

The only thing that’s a legitimate possibility is them falling in deep love since you’re their first. But if you have those same types of feelings then you’re cool and most guy think it’s extra good because they’re tight but I don’t enjoy when a woman is in real unwanted pain so I guess that could be an issue I guess maybe the lack of knowledge and experience but I think that would be an even swap for it being special plus you can teach her. Ultimately none of any of this will matter with the right guy

Avcfhcic · Answer

For me also being a virgin I see it as a win for me.
It's my dream actually. I want to go on a journey with that person and see what we both like and there's no pressure since we'd have nothing to compare with.
I have respect for girls with low body counts because it shows they don't just have sex with anyone and it means more

MTC29 · Answer

Not an issue.

Bobsyoruncle · Answer

Well, I think it’s self-evident that such a woman might very well have a lower sex drive, which would *not* be a plus (for me, anyway).

And since monogamous behavior from a wife is actually a ‘deal killer’ for me I have no need to fear being ‘run ragged’ by a woman with a strong sexual drive.

That’s what her lovers are for.

So I would gently and respectfully take a hard pass on forming a sexual relationship with such a woman.

summiter · Answer

I completely respect her choice on the # of sexual partners. We all have different values and libidos.

Lionman95 · Answer

I think they are great because it shows they don't put much emphasis on sex

Berethor · Answer

That girl have good personality because she is not a hoe. :)

AndyOh · Answer

I am okay with it. Make sure to find guys that will take the time with you to learn. Being with a guy like me that has a lot of experience will put you in the fast lane of learning about sex.

Miristheiss · Answer

Classy

HighValue · Answer

It's okay. As long as she hasn't done hook ups/ONS/friends with benefits then she should be good.

Dargil · Answer

I admire them.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'd rather have a virgin that someone that's even fucked just once if for no other reason than to know what it'd be like to fuck a virgin.

Wester1967 · Answer

Give her my number

Manchild2018 · Answer

They are clean and that is a good thing.

DaveToo · Answer

It's no different than if I only had one sex partner in my lifetime. There is a multitude of reasons why people are virgins. If I'm walking down the street would I be able to tell if someone was a virgin? Better yet, why in the flying fuck should I speculate or even care?