How do I make my boyfriend cum from a bj?

Not sure what to do so thought I would ask to see if I can learn. I want to make him cum.
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  • Just the warm feeling of it in your mouth should make him close to cumming anyway. But you can start by licking just the very tip of his penis (the little hole where he pees out of) because that is very sensitive and then the bit underneath that looks like a piece of string that connects the foreskin to the head of his penis, again that is very sensitive too.
    Then you can start sucking just the head of it and then over a few minutes work down lower and then a bit lower still until you've got down right to the base of it.
    After that keep going up and down on it starting slowly and then speed up, and after doing that for a few minutes he will cum.
    But the most important thing is the closer he gets to cumming keep doing it exactly the same tempo and rhythm, don't stop for a second or anything.
    Before doing it you may want to tell him where you want him to cum, if you're not happy for him to cum in your mouth let him know before.
    I can't talk for everybody but this works for me.

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  • Bring another girl in. But in all seriousness one of the girls who gave me really good blowjobs once I asked why do they call it a blowjob and now they suck job? Make sure you are sucking hard on it. If he has a really big dick go ahead and use your hands as well, one on the shaft and one on the balls. If he is a little extra can keep playing with his asshole a little bit. Take a few breaks but when you do take his dick and slap it on your face a few times. When he's close to finishing either commit to swallowing it fully or tell him you want to take it all over your face.

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  • BJ doesn’t do it very well for some guys. I’m one of them. It took me over 45 min to cum from a bj because I don’t like the idea of cumming in a woman’s mouth. So it’s subconscious. Now in comparison, I can cum 100 ways to 1 at any time being in a woman’s vagina. Vagina drives me absolutely crazy and I can cum multiple times too. Bj, hardly at all.

  • Just take it slow and focus on the last 1-3 inches. You do not have to deep throat him like they do in porn movies. Also I love it when a girl also strokes my shaft while playing with the tip. Also consider starting him off with a handjob to get him close to an orgasm... guys still love a great handjob!

    Does/will he return the favor every time?

  • I love it when my lady starts by sucking my balls then onto my dick , but to make me cum she tongues and sucks just my head for 10 minutes and I just explode , I hope this was helpful because for me and my lady are more in love because of our incredible love life together (6 years and hoping to b together forever)

  • The head wants to be sucked. The shaft wants to be stroked. "Nurse" at the head, even tonguing the little hole a bit. At the same time, vigorously stroke the shaft. That should bring about a harmonious outcome.

  • The main thing is... and this may sound weird... don't try to make him cum. Just try to give him pleasure with your mouth, tongue, lips and hands. He'll enjoy that and, if the conditions are right, he'll cum.

    Note that we guys don't always cum. nor do we want to always cum. Sometimes the journey is what pleasures us the most.

    Check out the Girl's comment (s). They know best.

  • This may sound weird, but go to Google, bing what ever, type in blowjob and click on videos.
    Using your hand in conjunction with your mouth will help ensure you get the job done.
    Then you need to figure out before hand are you going to have him cum in your mouth, spit or swallow.
    It's good to have a plan.

  • Put it in your mouth and suck on it like it's a popcicle or a lollipop. Humming helps. Use your tongue on the head a bit. Slide your mouth on it kinda fast from time to time. You'll get bonus points and possibly make him cum faster if you have him wear a t-shirt and then drag your finger nails across his nipples over the shirt. Try it on your own nipples to see what I mean. Just kinda slow, almost like you're trying to scratch an itch.
    Otherwise, watch some blow job videos to get some ideas.
    Happy sucking!

    • I just now thought of another area that just might do the trick for you! If you're looking at a guy's dick up close you'll obviously see the "helmet' on top, the part with the hole in the tip. Lick the area just under the edge of that helmet directly below where the hole is but above the area where that skin collar is. Maybe if you can manage to focus on that spot and still lick the tip of the helmet, too, (or at least lightly rub it slowly with the tip of your finger) your face will be sticky in no time!

  • It's easy...
    Remember when you drank soda from a straw...
    Or a bubble tea..
    How you pull the liquid out of straw...

    Imagine his dick like a thick straw and you need to pull the CUM by sucking..
    Apart from the whole blowing thing.. Sucking will make him blow his load..

  • For me it's slow and steady and look into my eyes! And she has to be into it and want to do it, not feel like it's a chore or just doing me this favor. I can't come as easy from hard and fast as I would if she goes slow and steady. And to be honest I love the slow powerful build up all the way through to the end. So things like kissing, licking, and sucking the head, to later licking and teasing the shaft, and taking me in slow and easy and letting me really feel the wet warm mouth in a nice slow motion, is mind blowing. Extra credit for paying attention to the balls (I'm always shaved and clean), sucking and massaging them in her mouth, to even using her hands and nails too. There is nothing better than to be sucked slow and deep while she uses a hand to stroke me and the other hand to massage my balls or scratch them with her nails. It triggers and amazing O!

  • Ask him what really turns him and how he would like you to dress when you give him head.

  • Go topless try on some tennis skirts in front of him , model them for him tease him, sit on his lap and let him suck your boobs. And spank your butt cheeks

  • put it in your mouth and don't stop until he cums... shouldn't take too much effort or time

  • You don't, he makes himself cum.
    The best advice is enjoy yourself.

  • Try a simultaneous prostate massage

  • Look him in the eyes, play with the balls, lick and suck the tip, deep throat, jerk him while sucking and whatever else he likes. Ask him

  • Just keep sucking also use your hand pull his dick out just lick and suck on the tip a bit

  • Sorry to burst your bubble some guys can't

  • Jerk it while you suck get it nice n wet

  • Pretty easy, just keep the sucking going and stroking the shaft at the same time