How to get over it, it torments me?

[Anonymous]

I’m a virgin but when I was younger I had a blowjob from a girl. The problem is my penis has grown a lot since then. I’m around 7 inches now but back then I could’ve been like 5.

So I feel bad she doesn’t know how big I am now. I also feel worthless because of it, she must think I’m a loser or something.

I just want to be clear this is not a troll question. It’s the source of all my anxiety over this topic. We all know we place huge value in a man on those things.
I should be happy I’ve grown but this girl knows me as something different and will never know

[docster]

Hardly a day goes by that I don't think of something cringe-worthy that I did, or said, years ago. I roll my eyes back and say "Sheeeez!" I remind myself that it was (X) number of years ago and I'm not going to worry about something that happened so long ago.
Warning! TMI ahead!
Please be thankful that you have the 7". All my adult life I was 7" until the last six years or so when it shrunk to 5". I blame my anti-anxiety meds. Also, I've never so much as gotten a BJ so no woman ever got to see it when it was 7".

[Anonymous]

here's what every guy needs to understand. At the end of the day no one chooses their penis size. No one has control over it. I can compromise on a lot of things with women. Some things she could actually change. If she can't compromise on being a goddamn size queen she's not even relationship material. Throw her in a trash bin and move on.

[PrettyPriya]

Stop obsessing over size. It is inconsequential to procreation, which is what many, many girls want.

That is not to say ALL, but we want a partner that is caring, loving and provides a stable relationship.

[kqueen]

If she gave you a blowjob she was presumably still attracted to you, regardless of the 5 inch penis.

[Asker]

So you admit it’s a bad size? I mean i know I’m 7 inches now but back the I don’t know what I was just much less 😢 I need her to know I’m big and have value as a man now. But it’s impossible I have no contact with the girl

[kqueen]

no, 5 inches isn't particularly small for a grown man, let alone a teenager. That's about average. I can promise you she didn't think less of you for that

[Asker]

I mean I’m grown big now. I wish she knew. So I could feel confident in who I am. Might sound weird

[kqueen]

yeah, why does it matter to you what a random girl you don't even have contact with thinks now? she was probably grateful you weren't huge, cause that hurts your mouth

[Asker]

Because society puts value on men being big/huge. Or is it just an online thing? If you watch YouTube videos girls are just like the bigger the better.

[kqueen]

yeah and society also puts value on men being rich and women being unhealthily skinny, sometimes the things society puts value on are bullshit. Plus if how this woman feels about you will never affect your life in any way, why does it matter? She probably barely remembers you, let alone the exact size of your dick.

[Asker]

Because she’s very beautiful. She’s got a boyfriend now and I’m probably bigger than him but smaller than him back then. Girls remember sizes and probably discuss with friends. I just want her to know I’m big now.

[kqueen]

Because you still like her and you think if she knows you're bigger than her boyfriend she'll want you instead?

[Iron_Man]

Find a girlfriend

[Asker]

How will this help

[In_Trance]

Ya ok

[Anonymous]

Do you still know the girl?

[Asker]

No I don’t she was from my school. Is my value lower because she thinks I’m smaller than what I really have?

[Opinion Owner]

If you never see her again why do you care?