If a guy says you have a pretty pu*** does he mean it?

I have what some people would call an “outie” vagina, I’ve always hated it but the guys I have been with say they like it. It doesn’t hang down or anything like that you can just see the folds. Well I was having ft sex with a friend w benefit and he kept telling me to spread it open and show closeups, and then he said I have a pretty pu***. I’m wondering, does a guy mean it when he says this or is it just something you say? Or are some guys just into “outie” vaginas? I never really thought my vagina was pretty.
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  • He probably does. Heterosexuality is kind of unfortunate, in that we don't know what the opposite sex actually finds appealing- we may be told, sure, but even if we KNOW it, we don't *feel* it, and we make stupid judgements based on that. This is why women, when they want to be sexy to appeal to men (that's not the only reason they want to be sexy, but it's ultimately the reason for most of it), seek out the advice of men who have no sexual attraction to women. I'm sure men also do equally stupid things, but if I knew what they were, I'd be out encouraging men to stop doing them.

    I'm not going to say "men don't care what your genitals look like", because that isn't really true, but it's a LOT less important than most women think. It's kind of like how penis size matters to women, but not nearly so much as it does to men, you know? A big part of the fun of sex is stimulating your partner and watching their reactions, and the more you've got, the more there is to play with. If you take a finger, or a fingernail, or an ice cube, and gently run it around your partner's genital area, you can see them twitch and gasp and giggle, and react in a whole bunch of other small and large ways. The stereotypical "pink slit" you see so much in porn is more limited in that regard (not that it's going to be a dealbreaker or anything with any but the most truly finicky of guys). If you haven't tried the "exploring" part of "exploring one another's bodies", I highly recommend you give it a go. Not only is it fun in its own right, it make other sexual things a LOT more powerful.

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  • If a guy says you have a pretty pussy, then he usually means it. And yes, some look better than others.
    You are waaay over thinking what you think your vagina should look like. I hear that most women think it should look like a peach with the inner lips tucked neatly inside. However, probably half the female population has innies and the other half has outies, just the way nature is.
    Myself, I like an outie... I want to see the lips, and generally, it is a very pretty sight to see. So take a second look and feel good about your kitty, she is wonderful.

    • Thanks for the MHO :)

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  • He means it. The "little pink slit"; while the favorite in porn vids, is actually the least common in real life. What you call "outie" predominates.

  • All pussies are pretty

    • 99.9%

  • It's not an outie vagina as the vagina is an internal organ with an opening to the outside. You're most likely referring to your labia or lips. Usually an outie is when the iner labia protrudes from the outer labia. The inner labia is directly connected to the clit hood and when it protrudes it can help slide the clit hood on the clit thus stimulating you. Outies are much nicer to give oral too as the guy can lick and suck on your inner labia and stimulate your clit without direct tongue to clit contact. I much prefer an outie and I think they look much sexier then an innie. The clit/clit hood is more prominant and much easier to access. Be thankful you were blessed with an outie.

  • Yes for sure! I say that sometimes too and I def mean it. I don't mind an outie at all and really do like them. I love giving oral to them and being able to lick and suck the lips and they honestly feel good gliding over my shaft during penetration! It's like an extra massage! Don't sweat an outie at all!

  • Yes he does

  • Most likely, lol.

  • Basically all pussy is beautiful

  • Yup.

  • he loves some meat for his sausage.

  • Yeah he means it

  • Yes. Being up close to it is very arousing and makes it a thing of beauty.

  • I don't know your boyfriend to know if he's telling the truth but I prefer outties as well. It's totally a thing!