How can I make her first time special?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2yrs and she wasn’t ready to have sex (or do anything) but yesterday she told me she was ready and wanted our first time to be on my birthday (which is roughly in 2 weeks). I’m not a virgin (she knows this) but I want her first time to be special. Should I book a mini vacation? I was looking at some cabins. I’ve never taken anyone’s virginity before so I’m pretty nervous.
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  • The cabins sound perfect. A nice relaxed atmosphere where she will feel comfortable. My advise is to take it slow. Don't rush her, even if it doesn't happen until the second night. Keep in mind that she'll remember you forever. That's a powerful obligation.

    • I plan on taking it slow and if she changes her mind I don’t have a problem waiting.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You’re way too nice or have to be really into her to not have sex with her for two years. One of my exes was like that, but all it takes is getting her comfortable. I mean, like I spent 7 hours with her till she got comfortable enough. It takes dedication with those type of women. Get her horny enough till she can’t resist. Like subtly touch her on her thighs, but don’t keep doing it till she freaks out. It’s like a game honestly.

    • Honestly I didn’t want to pressure especially knowing that she wasn’t ready. I really love this girl so I was okay with waiting.

    • Like I said, you have to really love her to be like that. But just so you know, you could’ve gotten over with it once. Then you could’ve had sex with her all this time once you broke the awkwardness.

    • Yeah that would mean I pressured her into having sex. I respected her boundaries that she set in place in the beginning of our relationship.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You see, I am a virgin myself, so I can only tell you how I would like it.
    I would like the guy to take us on a mini-vacation to a beach. We would have lots of fun. And by the night, we would having sex.

    • I’m not a big fan of the beach lol

    • Sorry, to not be helpful.

    • Your fine lol

  • I think a vacation is perfect!!!


    Comment on my most recent question on my profile by the way? 😇

    • I’m liking the cabin idea and it’ll be cold so it’ll be nice and cozy

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • ya I'd do the mini vacation.

    and when it comes to the sex I wouldn't be too aggressive. I'd give her lots of oral maybe let her go on top... good news is after her first time she's probably gonna want lots and your gonna be the recipient!

  • Hire a mariachi band

    • 😂 You can’t go wrong with a mariachi band.

  • Sounds like it's been easy for you to get a girlfriend most of your life

    • Lol what makes you say that?

    • I assume that for guys who experience having a girlfriend this young