Guys what do women expect in a man when she is dating him?
If they wanna shave because of their own reasons it’s good. What’s bad is that they have to shave to feel accepted by strangers and to please many people whom they don’t know. We women shouldn’t do stuff to please others but to please ourselves. I think we shave is because of patriarchy. Meaning we don’t really have a choice. I don’t hate my body hair or feel ashamed of it. But most women seemed to hate it. The only place I shaved are my underarms the rest of my body remains hairy. I shaved not because to please society or random people. I shaved because I expected my partner to have a clean shaved face it’s not very fair to expect someone to shave yet you refused to shave, that’s the main reason why I did it to impress someone who’s important to me.
I don’t care if other people are disgusted by my presence or pay attention to me like I give a shit what they think. Plus in my country most men have no beard so it kinda makes me think I have to put in effort to look good. In supermarkets here you will see the razors on the men’s area and women’s area have a gap in the place where they hang stuff. That means people are buying those, both genders. I would be happy if my boyfriend shaves only one area just like I put in effort to shave my underarms. I think the reason why I’m turned off by beards is because I grew up in a country where beards were very rare.
I felt like I’m the only one who don’t have high expectations when it comes to finding a mate. But I’m not really sure what most women expect their men to have.
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