How do you propose anal sex to a girl?

For all the guys out there who think girls like anal like it's the next best thing since TV dinners. Then you are wrong and most don't enjoy it.

Most girls don't even consider it yet the rare some do.

So in all honesty before you propose something to a girl like anal sex perhaps you should be willing to try it on your self. Next time you go to the sex shop buy a nice strap on dildo for your girl to use on you and figure if you like it or not? Now if you did not like it how do you propose something like that on a girl? Is she any different maybe she can't say "No" because she is a weak woman?
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Superb Opinion

  • It's true that most women don't love anal sex, but a pretty significant minority certainly enjoy it. The ones who don't almost invariably either have never tried it and never will due to a mental aversion to it, or they tried it once with a jerk who ha no clue how to do it right, so the women had a very uncomfortable experience that turned them off to anal sex.

    I've been lucky to have been with several women who enjoyed anal sex, and one who truly loved it and asked for it regularly. They do exist and there are more of them than you might think. Definitely not rare.

    No woman I've ever been with would have had any desire to peg a man, which is fine by me.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Hmmm tough one! We tested the waters with a little ass play, vibrators, and rimming. However we somehow mutually agreed it was not our thing and had no interest doing anal.
    I do like some touching there , and she does too, but can’t imagine something inserted in me there, so i don’t want to insert my penis in her ass as well.
    I’d recommend testing things out with mild ass play first as we did!

Most Helpful Girls

  • You don’t. Let her propose it to her because tbh it takes a lot of prep and time. Plus be prepared to take anal stimulation too.

  • Interesting perspective. Men should try it before they ask of it. We’ll see where this leads you.. 🙃

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You don’t if you have any respect or love for her

  • With a ring

  • Ask her.
    Easiest and best way.
    Then you know.
    You need to talk to each other about sex as well as other things.

  • I DON'T!! I'm not at all into turd stabbing, packing fudge or having my dick stink like a pile of shit.

  • My one time wasn't proposed- I just overshot the runway.

    • Ouch

    • @dustybiker Nice soft landing though. ;- )

    • I butt.. I mean bet.

  • Ayyo nah just by that name you on some type of time.. you just ask if she says no then okay, it's not like dudes are itching they are just as curious as when a girl is curious.

  • If my girlfriend is into pegging or wants to try it, she can. I am open to trying it, she doesn't want to

  • get lubed up and start poking around there... you can always massage it with your thumb doing her doggy.

  • Quid pro quo. Remember it’s as uncomfortable as fck for her. So go down on her hard.

  • TV dinners suck.

  • Just ask her straight up

  • Watch porn with your girl that includes anal sex and ask her if it turns her on or if she's ever thought about trying it.

  • I've been with around a dozen partners (of the female persuasion) and there was only two of them I thought MIGHT be into it. The only reason I thought that is because they were very indulging in bed. I would do a little butt play and they didn't seem to mind and even asked if I liked it. I would just test the waters with them. I never came right out and asked them because while I always wanted to try anal it wasn't that important to me. I could kinda tell just by their reactions to certain things I did.