How did you feel the very first time someone other than just yourself witnessed you cum?

How did you feel the very first time someone other than just yourself witnessed you cum?
At some point as a teenager we all discovered masturbation and developed a semi-routine of cumming when we needed release, but it was all in private. What was the first time like cumming in front of someone you like of the opposite sex? We’re you embarrassed or somewhat shy about having someone see your body function like that the first time, whether it was in person or over a video chat? Was it still erotic?
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  • He broke his bed while jerking off to my reaction when i came

    • That’s funny but amazing sounding too :)

    • Lol he finally got his bed fixed just to break it again at another freaky time haha

    • I understand how he must have felt though 😂

Most Helpful Guys

  • Not a big deal. I don't know how to describe it. Once the first girl I slept it removed her clothes and underwear (I was too lame and flabbergasted to remove her clothes back then), everything else felt natural including my own expressions of sexuality.

    I was even a little bit shy that first time but I didn't feel shy at all when she removed her panties. I could show her the way I expressed myself sexually and she could show me. I saw it like there are no more secrets left to hide.

    • It's like what I expressed communicated to her that I knew more than her body and just the general anatomy of women, and what she did also expressed to me the same that she knew more than the general anatomy of men. So whatever shame/shyness disappeared quite quickly for me.

    • I had a very nice first girl though. I couldn't bust a nut with the condom on. I was the opposite of a premature ejaculator and not sure it was in a good way. It's like I tried many physical positions and motions and I wasn't able to finish. So after a while, the girl said she was hurting and I took the condom off and kind of jerked off on her, and she was a good sport about it since I think I got her happy. And I wasn't shy or embarrassed at all about it because she was supportive.

  • Um yeah... I came all over her before I even opened a condom and before we were ready to have sex. Still exciting. She was a virgin too so nothing was embarrassing, neither of us knew better. We then had sex the next day

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  • He was fingering me. It was very enjoyable. Obvs we were both glad I came.

    • That sounds very erotic and nice. Glad you were able to cum especially the first time.

    • It was a very sexually charged encounter.

    • Nothing better than unleashing all that built up energy with the partner for the first time. Especially when you need to cum so bad. Like a pressure cooker 😂

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  • I was embarrassed after, but while it was all happening everything was electric. His fingers and hands rubbing me and exploring my body...

  • Wonderful. It made it so much more intense sharing our pleasure with each other.

  • We were probably a bit too young to be at it, but we found the privacy anyways. No actual sex, just about everything but. I remember feeling a bit self conscious, mostly excited.

  • he was fingering me and rubbing his dick so i don't think he even noticed

  • It was embarrassing and I felt insecure about my body. But still went with it just to try something once.

  • He didn't see much as he was busy eating me out, but he loved my reaction.

  • I was incredibly aroused and felt so sexy and desired afterwards

  • I first person to watch me orgasm was my best friend. We watched each other masturbate a lot growing up.

  • All of those things

  • She was my first. I felt wanted for the first time. Like someone was actually interested in me.

  • happy... she was smiling so i think she liked watching

  • happy proud

    excited

  • Dont really remember lol prob embarassed. I was like 15

  • I felt comfortable, vulnerable, and close with them. They were right there with me through the whole thing and it was really nice to share the experience. I hope they enjoyed seeing me come as much as I enjoyed seeing them come.

    • That sounds amazing :) I’m sure as long as you enjoyed it, he did too. That’s nice to know that you got both physical as well as visual pleasure out of it and that even though you were vulnerable, you felt safe and relaxed enough to let your body go

  • I had a girlfriend who loved watching my penis ejaculate.

    • That’s the best! That right there makes it fun ongoing. It’s fun to play doctor having a girl who’s visual like that. I’ve had a few girls love to see my ejaculation and they loved watching every little detail, like memorized by it, seeing the tip turn a deeper color, the pulsating, etc. And of course, I love watching female orgasm and pleasure so the fit has has been well with mutual interest that way.

    • The visceral parts of sex are the best.

  • It was over cam and it felt amazing

  • Even more turned on than usual. I discovered I like being watched.

    • That’s awesome. That’s a healthy mindset to be confident in your body’s abilities to go over the edge that you like to be watched. I like to watch and be watched too as long as both are respectful and we have a positive experience witnessing each other cum.