Why do women not fancy harem of men? Or is it something they secretly do but are too afraid to admit?

Usually it's shown in ads how men attract tons of ladies using perfume or such, meaning it is somewhat a common male fantasy. Moreover, it's usually guys who desire threesomes in a relationship. I know all that seed spreading evolutionary crap but come on you guys, we have advanced... We no longer should fear pregnancy, we have made that far haven't we? So being a swinger or having multiple boyfriends or something similar, is it something women fantasize too?
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  • I think there is a fair amount of women that have or would like to have a harem of men. The basic instinct is to strengthen the blood line, so the birth control wouldn't be needed. But in this day and age, their not so much into the strengthening the blood line. It's more for the power and control of their own pleasures. In my opinion if that's how they wanna play, it's their game. Would I want to be part of that? No. Would I like to try a threesome, sure but only for the experience, I wouldn't want to live that way for life. There are some things in life I wouldn't even want the experience. But I'm in no position to tell anyone what they can and can not do or would I try. We are all grownups, if you want that type of life than you should go and be happy. I will be happier knowing you're happy with the choices you make than the choices I make and force you to live by. You can change your mind whenever you would like, either way I just want everyone to be happy, there are to many things that jeopardize our happiness already.

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  • I'm not sure how far we can divorce ourselves from our instincts. Birth control mostly renders sex devoid of consequences. But that doesn't mean the sudden presence of birth control can erase the entirety of human evolution. I have no problem though with some queen of a woman who wants her boy harem. I'm just thinking less likely than a man in the same position just in terms of probabilities and very likely for biological rather than sociological reasons.

    • I understand.

    • I think we're still inevitably bound to our instinctive programming, like hunger, thirst, survival temperature, shelter, reproduction, etc. And human beings can abstract so far away from that. Some people can abstract so effectively that they can commit suicide as the epitome of abstracting away from survival programming, and I think suicide is an epitome of the greatness (as well the worst aspects) of human beings compared to other species. But most people can generally only abstract so much.

    • Which is why I said I understand where you are coming from.

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  • Wasn't MFM a popular female fantasy?
    Lol, in any case, I've known more women who fancy a harem than those who don't.

    I've only known one lady who was strictly against other people in the bedroom, but even she did not mind people watching.

  • why do we fancy perfumes at all... would be my question

    • Huh? O:

    • lolol

  • Some do

    • haha... yes some do ;)

  • Maybe because they think it's stupid to pay for sex.
    All they need to say yes and there will be 10 guys waiting outside their house in 1 hour😂

  • Ok yeah go have your harem and change all ads I’m the world to female dominated stuff. I’m not against it I even think it would be refreshing and fun. Yeah let’s have at it I don’t care whatever

    • Oh you’re Indian that explains it

    • And you're from the US! But wait those people are lovely. Whatever happened to you?😲

    • Well I'm Chinese-American but yeah I like America it's a good country. Sorry just stereotype of Indians that they are sex-obsessed don't mean to offend though

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  • Lots of women would like to do that, I'm sure.

  • I bet some women do, you just don't hear about it.

  • I think a threesome is a very common fantasy among girls

    • Nope it's frowned upon

    • It may be frowned upon in society but its still a common fantasy lol

  • Hmm as a guy this is my fantasy to have FMF or FFMFF.
    But I don't know what you think as a girl about that?

    • Kinda hawt.

    • It is ;)

  • They do, and are afraid to admit it

  • Aren't there already a bunch of virtual harems of guys? Heck a bet someone like Belle Delphine could charge an admission fee for guys to be a part of her harem and still get plenty of applicants.

    • You know what I meant 😑

    • I am just pointing out that this reality isn't that far off from happening. Maybe you just need to be the first to get the ball rolling. If that is what you are after.

    • Thanks, sweetie.

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  • Yeah in some hunter gatherer societies families didn't exist and girls would be banged out by anyone and everyone in orgies, they didn't care who the kid came from

  • You tell me.

    • Do tell please

    • If you don't mind

    • Thanks for like!

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  • Do you dream of it?

  • I have a fantasy of having a three-way. Some have problems with cause of Society.