Guys, take time to get to know us better?

[sage2021]

Most guys just want to use ladies for sex. BAM, then they're gone. If she says no to the sex (because she does have morals), then you don't call her again. If you two have sex right away, then you think she's a slut and just use her for sex. So why don't you take time to not have sex right away, and get to know her better? You may be very surprised that there are a lot of ladies that would be a good wife to you, and a good mother to your children. Try to with hold having sex, just have a nice time and call her again. Guys turn the nice girls into sex objects, then wonder why he can't find a good one. Get to know who she is, not turn her into something she's not.

[MrOracle]

Keep in mind that it's women who control access to sex, not men. Women could fix this tomorrow by not ever having sex until the 5th date, or the 8th date, or the 20th date. Women insist upon owning this choice, so they need to own the responsibility for the outcome of the choices they make.

Men control access to relationships. We decide whether we will commit to a woman or not. That's the decision you can criticize men for, because it's the one we have responsibility for.

in my opinion, you should have addressed this post to women, and not men, because that's where you have the potential to make real change. But we both know that women aren't going to change, and most of them aren't going to take responsibility for their choices, so you're trying to shift the responsibility to men here. And, nope, not interested in that. We have plenty of responsibility already.

[Freespirit777]

Well said. This is rational, realistic and fair.

[varan69]

I do. I like to knw a girl a bit more before going deeper. It makes it more interesting and well its better for further stuff and fun

[varan69]

Thank you @sage

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Well said! And so true.

[exitseven]

That is pretty much what I used to do. I never expect sex on the first date.

[Browneye57]

Uh, no. You choose poorly. And you don't have to really know someone to bang them, so there's that.
If you don't like or want sex then why are you dating in the first place? It's a giant red flag you know.

[Ironic_Method]

There's a lot of assumptions in this.

[Rudon00]

Amen sage2021 . Preach it girl!!

[EaterPeter]

If we do we are at loss. We do want sex too. Every time I take time outcome is pretty much nothing. They just go and bang some other guy coz he asked he wanted to sleep he was good looking and what not.

[Anonymous]

That's not exactly true. There are not a lot of ladies that would be good wife, they want sex with a bunch of guys and they do the ghosting, always looking for more or something better.

[alleon]

I want a lot of good sex with one man

[Opinion Owner]

@alleon That's nice but that's not typical.

[Anonymous]

No I want sex