How would you feel if a girl wanted you to do the opposite of what she says during sex?

I want to tell my boyfriend I want him to do the opposite of what I say like when I say "please stop" he keeps going when I say "you're hurting me please be gentle" he starts pounding the hell out of me and he cums in me while I'm begging him not to. I'm into rape play but I know guys are weirded out by it because they don't get turned on hurting us so I'm scared of bringing it up.
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  • I like to be dominated and love rape role play. Truthfully, I find most guys get into it pretty fast, even if they are a bit uncomfortable at first. Guys are taught from a young age that no means no and to respect women, so this idea that a woman would enjoy a rape fantasy is foreign to them and feels wrong. I’m just honest about what I like to them. Sometimes we have to start slow and build up to more aggressive play but once they realize that I like what they’re doing, they usually get into it. Force me unless you hear the safe word. That all being said, there have been a couple of guys who just flat out didn’t want any part of that and that’s ok too. We all have our sexual needs and if we aren’t compatible with someone, then so be it.

    • Yeah I was watching a porn and the girl said stop and the guy said "are you supposed to say stop?" And I realized they were using safewords I let a guy fuck me hard with a safe word once and I'm proud of myself for not having to use it but I didn't like when he made me lick his butthole he never gave me oral and towards the end my butthole was on fire from him tearing it up and he could tell I couldn't go on much longer and made me suck him to finish him which was disgusting so that was unfair and degrading which is exactly how I like it lol

    • If you do this with a regular partner, you can discuss and set boundaries as you go so that nothing happens you aren’t completely down with. Trust and communication is key. With me, for instance, I like to be smacked around a little bit. Not super hard but enough to sting a little and play into the fantasy. It takes some trial and error to get that right.

    • Yeah I had a boyfriend who would slap me when I pissed him off and I liked when it wasn't too hard but there was times he slapped me so hard I would fall down and see stars I wouldn't want a man to hit me like that during sex especially if he's already hurting my butt and unless I'm sure to bring lube with lidocaine they just spit on my butt and start ramming it and it feels like I'm being stabbed I think guys like seeing us react to the pain of anal I feel so submissive hearing him enjoy himself and talk about how good he feels while I'm holding back tears and begging him to hurry and cum since guys don't take it out when I ask them too I wish I could show guys how much it hurts but when I told my first boyfriend I wanted to show a cucumber in his butt to show him how much pain I endure for him he said he would beat me up if I ever put anything in his butt

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Long as I know what they want, and we have a safe word, ill humor him or her.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I would play.. I've done it before

    I would first have to soundproof the place and remove all phones from the area first 'just in case'. But I'm not opposed to this as long as there's been proper communication about the act ahead of time. And I'm a damn ugly and imposing looking bastard too which adds to it.

  • You need to find a sadistic Dom. I'm one and love that sort of play.

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  • Have discussions beforehand and use safe words.

  • I would be very confused. How would I know when she really means it.

    • Safe word

  • Lol you want to play quize while all he want to get nut.
    This will end bad 😂
    Just say f me daddy don't stop if u want him keep going

  • That could be interesting if you talk it all through and have a safe word

  • The keys to rape play are trust, boundaries, and a safe word

  • It's an unusual fetish but I think if you find the right guy, you two can have fun with it.

  • Not my thing but safe words save our asses.

  • Some guys do like it. Honestly i don't know. I really have fantasy

  • So consensual nonconsent. That's not that uncommon. You do need a safe word though. It is important that he knows when you are serious

  • That's my favorite type of sex. Just tell him. It's easy to get into

  • Well it's alright if I know that she wants exact opposite

  • id be confused as hell as to what i am actually supposed to be doing lol

  • I’ll be your boyfriend

  • Well I have done the cum inside when she expected me to pull out thing. Lol

    • I lost my virginity to a guy who promised he was going to wear a condom and didn't. It was sad how he lied to me and shot his cum in me when he promised he wouldn't. Guys should be sweet to us.

    • There was no condom discussed. And I was a virgin she wasn’t. I literally just lost control my first time.

  • Im sure there are guys that do and definitely don't. It all depends on how comfortable I am with her and know its going to get her off. It may take practice but I would try my best.

  • I would enjoy it.

  • Wait, aren't you the one who has written dozens of questions here about how you were raped and how terrible it was? Hw can you be into rape play?

    • It helps me cope with those experiences actually

    • Kinda like jumping off a cliff helps you cope with having been in a car wreck?