Is it normal for a girl to ask a guy to look into products to help with premature ejaculation?

[JasonB03]

so I attempted sex with the girl I started seeing and I was just too excited and popped when she started to roll a condom on me. it was super embarrassing and now she's been texting me telling me that Im a premature ejaculator and should go to a sex store and ask if there are products that can help with that sort of thing cause "i'm super sensitive and couldn't handle her". Also to look for toys to work on getting used to sensation. Now I feel kinda like a loser who talked up some game and blew it right away. pun intended. do you think she'll take me seriously and give me another shot in the future and should I really look into stuff for that? not sure I'm premature, or maybe I just dont want to admit I am.

[SueShe]

If you think that any sex toys or creams and lotions will help you with your problem, then you are 1) wasting your time and 2) wasting money.

You have an issue that has to be addressed by a specialist and not by the porn industry. It would be wrong to think that a toy or cream could cure your premature ejaculation. That simply does not exist or is not efficient on the long run.

There are several causes to your problem and you have to find the root of the problem and only a person that knows what he/she is talking about can efficiently help you. Good luck.

[PrettyPriya]

She needs to understand that it is natural to be overly excited first time with a new partner. That should fade over time.

If it does not, I'm not aware of products that would help with that. Perhaps some guys will answer with some better info.

[JasonB03]

really? you think thats pretty normal then? I was devastated cuz she barely touched me, I do take responsibility for talking up a bigger game tho, I definitely wouldn't do that in the future as it backfired big time.

[PrettyPriya]

To be honest, I'm not sure how normal. What I can say is that it is normal to be more excitable first time with a new partner. That is true of both genders. Anything new is likely to heighten arousal. Perhaps you are just more sensitive than others.

[JasonB03]

oh okay, but do you like think im a premature ejaculator? cuz she is saying I am basically and should look for sex products to help with that. cuz she said she barely touched me with the condom and I started ejaculating.

[PrettyPriya]

I'm unaware if there are products. Perhaps there are. I just never have looked. Maybe a google search would sort that question.

[JasonB03]

yes I googled, there are like desensitizing sprays and stuff as well as toys to simulate sex which she mentioned could help me. but do you think im premature? cuz she says I am and ur saying i'm more than most. I dont want to be. ;/

[PrettyPriya]

I don't really know what qualifies or how common it is. Guy users will certainly be able to provide more of an answer than I can. Good luck!

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for MHG

[In_Trance]

Normal? Or common...

[JasonB03]

common I guess... ;/

[Anonymous]

Well she's willing to have sex with you again. Next time pop some viagra and if you do cum prematurely give it 20 mins and go down on her.

[Anonymous]

Normal