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What to do if I hate my boyfriend?

I HATE the way he thinks sexually. He thinks sex is just sex while I think its very important and intimate. He can't even count how many women he's slept with, I've only been with one guy. He would let me sleep with a woman while he's at work but not with a man. Im bisexual so this is wrong to me because I see men and women the same (I can catch feelings for the women his dumb ass would let me have sex with). He thinks a girl getting a train ran on her is hot, but just not on his girlfriend. I think now that he's dating me, he shouldn't find that attractive anymore. he's done every sexual thing he could think of which makes me unspecial and nothing new while I've done almost nothing and hed be special to me because im learning new things with him. I can't take it anymore. I hate him so much. I wish he would be less of a "I just want to cum" freak and be more of a "sex is intimate and special" . On our first night he just wants head and only talks about head, doesn't bring up what he'll do for me. I asked to get fingered and he's just like "okay" while im describing how im going to give him head. I just can't with this i think im going insane. I want to breakup with him SO badly because of this alone, but Its too hard because without sex being in the topic our relationship is literally perfect. We are so much a like, and have great love for eachother. I just dont know what to do. I wanted to make love on our first night, but clearly he just wants head. The next night we'll have sex, but I doubt he'll even want to make love... He said one of the only things he's never done is make love. Another thing is, Im experienced in the relationship area. I have a great personality and can make my S/O feel loved and I won't cheat. I know thats what he wants, but why give him that if i won't get my special intimate sex... Maybe ill leave him for a girl he lets me sleep with to open his stupid mind. (jk) god what the hell do I do
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  • The question you have to ask yourself is how long can you go on for like this knowing that it will never change?
    He is a sexual narcissist, and is only likely to get worse, the longer it goes on the worse it will be for you once the relationship finally ends. You are young and have plenty of time to find someone who is a better match for you, don't stay with him because you think it's too hard to break up.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It’s time to call it quits and leave.

    you will not change his mind, yeah you can have a talk but he won’t change how he is.

    call it a day and explain its because he needs to grown up and mature.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • ... why are you with this man?

  • Just have a honest talk with him. You know him better than any of us here

  • Yeah I would suggest moving on. Its clear he doesn't respect or appreciate you and both of those are needed for a healthy relationship.

    "Be careful what you tolerate, you're teaching people how to treat you"- unknown.

  • Have you two got a mutual friend hat could help both of you see each others problems and ways to solve them?


    If friends aren't there, could he agree for a session with a relationship specialist?

  • You will have to break up and move on to find someone that really loves you, not just for sex.

  • Break up and move on.

  • Hmmmm. What to do? You could always dump him? There’s an idea.

  • how old is he?

    • he's 20 im 17

    • Im not a slut shamer, I've hooked up before. But something about his sexual pasts just makes me want to shoot him and myself UGH

    • I think you should take some break from him

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  • Oof that sounds hard he sounds Soo selfish and mean you deserve sooo much better. I don't understand how he can treat you like this and not notice and make an effort not to change things

  • Dear there are two things you can do in this situation,
    One you can talk to him about it
    And second if talking doesn't work it's better to take a break from that relationship.

  • Leave the asshole

  • tell him you'll only have sex after you're married

  • Why the hell are you with him then? Break up with him and find a guy you don't hate and let him find a girl who appreciates him and isn't so insecure bout everything.

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