How can I talk to him about my needs for sex?
I always get very wet In about one minute. And because I get so wet so fast, men think I’m ready to fuck after kissing me for 1 minute but mentally I’m not ready yet.
I have had a few men comment on how quickly I get wet, like it’s a very good thing that they didn’t have to waste time with foreplay, and I wish I didn’t actually. I wish it took more time to get wet so they took more time on me.
I always just feel like I’m to “get fucked”
Rather than to be made love to. If that makes any sense. I want a guy to feel my whole body and stare at it, and let me know in what ways he likes about my body even it it makes me uncomfortable because I’m so self conscious. I want that to keep happening every time we have sex so that maybe the reassurance would help me feel less self conscious? Is that just dumb?
I was sexually abused a lot and I never really learned how to have sex for me, only learned how to please. I only know how to make a man feel good, not myself. Never have.
I feel like just a body to be fucked.
I am married now and am just realizing this is why I’m not happy with my sex life. I can’t orgasm unless I’m alone. I can’t help but wonder if my husband doesn’t bother foreplay because he’s used to me, and he knows I can’t orgasm? Does anyone know how I can talk about this with him?
I don’t want to make him feel like he’s bad at sex. I’m just now figuring out, at 25 years old that I should be getting as much pleasure from sex as the guy is. It seems impossible 😞
I would appreciate no sexual comments directed at me in this post. Thanks.
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