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Who here is a exhibitionist and how do you think you got started. My second confession?

After my previous confession post, I learned I liked to show off my body. I started being careless, intentionally about skirts and dresses. I would sit on my desk in classes and let boys look up to see my underwear.

I started to make more friends. I got really popular in school, was no longer as shy came out of my shell.

This is when I started to get really curious about what sex would feel like, I was playing around more with myself in secret. Been raised we weren't suppose to do that ever.

Started flirting with the boys and making friends with many of them. I had some really good friends that I would sit on their lap, or we'd go to dances and rub bodies but that is as far as it went.

Near the edge of the family property. There was some trees by the canal, it was a little forest. There was also some really tall grass on the other side of the trees. I could literally walk through the grass and only have my head showing.

Neighborhood teens would come here to have sex all the time. Someone even had a old bug filled mattress in the middle of it, with tree branches over to make a roof and a bug filled sleeping bag.

I would get really horny and go up there and strip. I would would walk around kind of hoping to run into a boy my age that would want to play around. Sometimes I would go into the tall grass and walk through it, with nothing on.

There were houses on the other side. Sometimes I would lay down in the tall grass and rub until I went.

Other times I would just walk around being ultra turned on, I would go and take care of things myself. This is when I also started to learn that the thrill of getting caught made things more intense and I started trying to find everyway possible to orgasm.

I have often wondered how many other people did stuff like this, similar or different, boys or girls.

If your not a exhibitionist, likely would not have done anything like this. If you lived in a big city, probably unable to due to no where to go.
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Thanks everyone, I often wondered how unique or odd I am. This puts things in perspective a bit more.
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All of this happened when I was 13-14 years old. I just realized I forgot to put that in and it could be confusing to some.
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  • Oh boy. How much time you got?

    I'm not sure. But my dad's a bit of an exhibitionist, so I feel it might be genetic. But I remember from a very young age, I would come home from the pool and I would dry off with the bathroom door open, sometimes with a shirt on but no pants, fully erect, and let my friends walk by and see me. And I would get extremely aroused.

    I think it might be because I was exposed to nudity at a very young age, as I would often see other neighborhood kids running around naked, or girls getting pantsed at the pool, and it made me want to do it too. I heard all kids copy behaviors they see, but I don't know. Then I remember in elementary school, I saw a girl's ass crack in class, and then I started deliberately showing mine too. And this continued into my pre-teens, when I would deliberately pull my trunks down at a busy pull to where part of my ass was showing. I didn't start letting people see me, until elementary school. And I didn't care WHO saw, except the class gay for whatever reason. I think because he was being creepy about it. Anyways...

    I remember I started getting erections at a very young age though and they were unusually hard for my age, from what my parents said. The first fantasy I remember was when I was about 5, and I would sit under the covers with my stuffed animals and pretend we were in the bathroom looking at eachother, and I would get turned on. Even though I was only 5 and had no concept of any of that stuff yet.

    I also remember that at this time I never felt comfortable going to a male doctor, though I would always get erections when they looked down there.

    Then one time I saw an episode of Ripley's where they showed bare asses, and I started drawing bare asses on my action figures, and than I started stripping them and doing sexual/exhibitionist role play.

    Then when I was 12 and my friends got me into porn, that's when it really picked up.
    I would film myself stripping or masturbating, but I would only look at it myself, and jerk off to it. But this is when I really started having strong urges. And it was shortly after this time that I started going skinny dipping and all that, and I would get turned on just from being naked outdoors and I even had fantasies of getting caught and a lady yelling at me, "There's people here and you're walking around naked with your dick sticking up."

    Now I might be Rewinding a bit, because it was so long ago I don't remember the exact time frame, but when I was in 7th grade, I was home sick and I was in bed naked, and my mom was out of the house, so I stepped out into my yard with a raging boner. Honestly, I don't know if I even went down the steps, but the next day my mom told me that my neighbor had seen me naked.

    And I remember one time we stopped at a rest area in Oregon, and the stalls didn't have doors, and I was deliberately waiting for someone to come in and catch a glimpse of me. (During this phase, I didn't care who saw me)

    Then when I was about 14, I got caught naked by a family on a Puerto Rican beach as I was changing into my swim trunks. When my parents sheltered under the same awning as them, I was so embarrassed. But there was also a cute girl around my age, and part of me was hoping she had seen something and gotten excited.

    My favorite one was when I was about 15 I think. 15 or 16. I was in a campground restroom in Canada, and I was facing the door stroking myself, and I didn't even realize the door wasn't properly locked. I saw it opening, but didn't bother to stop it. It happened to be a girl, maybe a couple years younger than me. She just gasped and said "Sorry", and I don't even know how much she saw. But afterwards, I couldn't stop imagining her talking to her sisters/friends super excited that she had just seen a naked guy in the bathroom.

    • FF a little, I was 18 and had my first nude beach experience. I only took my trunks off in the water though because I had a boner. I was deliberately standing next to young attractive girls in the hopes that they would take a peak at me, but to my disappointment, they had no interest me. That same summer I went to another nude beach in Greece. This time I actually stripped on the beach, but once again I had a boner, so I quickly ran into the water and stayed there for some time. I even started stroking myself and was actually trying to cum, both from the arousal, but also wanting it to go away. And I think this old couple in their 60s might have noticed because they kept giving me a weird look. My tour boat was leaving soon, so eventually I had no choice but to get out of the water with a hard dick. Just my luck there was a gay dude right next to me, and I got nervous and uncomfortable and started stumbling as I struggled to get my trunks back on, as I noticed him just sitting there staring at me. By this time, I was already uncomfortable with men seeing me, especially gays. Anyways, FF again. I once again don't remember the exact date, but I was already in college. I discovered that you could just set up and account post nude pics in the commons section of Wikipedia, and they didn't need to be screened or anything. So I started posted pics there, and this was my first time posting pictures online. And deep down I was hoping someone I knew would see them, even though they didn't know it was me.

    • Then eventually I was introduced to sexting, on THIS website of all places, and it opened a whole new door. And before I knew it I started sending and soliciting pics. And although I felt sleazy and guilty at times, and at one point even wanted to save it for a girl in real life, I also wanted more. It was the best I was getting at the time. I wouldn't say it became addicting, but it was something new I'd never experienced before and I wanted to see how far I could take it, and wanted as many girls as possible to see me. I eventually posted pics on an amateur porn site, but that didn't last too long, which is probably good, because this was around the time when I started getting uncomfortable with the thought of gay men looking at me. I sent my most recent nudes a few weeks ago, and here we are now. Part of me still wants to send them, part of me doesn't. And I still often think about cam sessions, which is something I never got to do. Anyways, I always thought those people who send nudes, especially unsolicited dick pics are stupid and perverted. And I never thought it was THAT common. But after indulging in it myself (though all mine were solicited), and meeting other exhibitionists, I realize that this is much more common than I originally thought. And it was actually nice to meet so many other people who are like this and understand why me. I know that's a really long post, but I thought it would be more helpful and even better for me to be as detailed as possible, and get it all out there. But now I'm wondering if I'm not forgetting anything. LOL But I think you got the jist, plus I told you some of this stuff already.

    • Yeah some of that sounded familiar, thanks for the details. I often wondered if I was odd or if others do this. I did once run into a girl trying to use a branch for sex in these woods, when I was just walking through. She saw me and took off, and all I could think was OUCH, just freaking ouch. I knew at least one other girl was there one time. Never saw her though again.

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  • Very cool and hot :) Will have to read this again when I am having some pleasure time. I have an exhibitionist streak too. First started in my mid teens - would roam the woods near our house nude and masturbate. Always found it thrilling never knowing if someone might see me.

    I dated a girl eons ago who loved having sex in outdoor locations... was so fun and exciting as we did it in all sorts of spots - sometimes with people in earshot. She was so fun :)

    My wife is not as adventurous but there have been some hot times - like a few times she would be standing facing the window in a hotel room in a city... me doing her from behind... and on a balcony of a hotel room and on a cruise ship...

    For solo fun, I sometimes will go onto Cam4 and let strangers watch me masturbate...

    Like you said, it's very exciting to me - but I totally get many people are not into it at all - which is something I really enjoy with how every has different sexual likes, kinks, desires, fantasies, experiences, etc.

    • Very cool to see your update and that was about how old I was when I roamed the woods as I described. Was so exciting being at an age of exploration.

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  • I don't think I'm an exhibitionist as such (I may be wrong!), but I've always felt that a big part of being female was the freedom to wear revealing clothes. For me it's as much about comfort as anything else, but I absolutely live in very short denim skirts and bare legs, tight tops and cute shoes. I wouldn't say it turned me on, and I wouldn't say I'm trying to flash my underwear (or sometimes lack of) at men, but I don't think I could be without feeling the breeze around my bare thighs, and having pretty much nothing between my ass and the floor in any situation I like, from dancing to buying groceries. And of course, it goes without saying that a lot of men have a thing for short skirts and tight tops, so it's a massive ego boost to be almost constantly "checked out". But ironically I don't think I have a particularly high sex-drive, and again none of this is a sexual turn on really, just a sort of feminine/liberating/confidence thing I guess. Difficult to explain. My boyfriend (who I live with) has mixed feelings about it. He has a much higher sex-drive than me, and of course loves my dress sense, but often ends up turned on when I'm not, which I kind of feel guilty about. Thinking about it, this is also maybe a strange thing because I couldn't care less if other men get turned on by me. So I don't know if I'm an exhibitionist or not, but am open to views on it!!

    • Your not what I would consider one, cause it doesn't turn you on. We all like the attention though of turning heads. You might be if you had a high sex drive though, if you did it could be that stuff might turn you on more. Maybe not though, you have to have a lot of confidence to. From what I seen so far, it seems to start for us when younger. Guys seem way more likely to be into though. As it is more than just being a nudist, a nudist is just no caring and it does nothing for you.

  • I’m too shy for that, but the way you describe it sounds really hot (though I could live without the bugs)

    • Agreed on the bugs lol and how that sounds very hot :)

    • The mattress, I never touched that... don't know who put it there. As for regular bugs in other places, not really any in the tall grass or in other places. Sure there was bugs, it is nature after all. The most annoying bug of course was flies, mosquitoes weren't usually an issue as the canal water flowed fast.

    • That’s cool. I’ve fucked in the woods before, I know there are bugs around. I just don’t wanna do it on a whole mattress full of them.

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  • My first foray into exhibitionism was actually a MORE embarrassing (to me now) event than the actual exhibitionism that (inadvertently) resulted from it. I had had a lifelong fear of wasps and other stinging insects. So one night, when I was 13, almost 14, I was taking a bath one night, when after getting out of the tub, I noticed that that there was a wasp in the ceiling vent directly over my head! Everyone else had already gone to bed, so I bolted out of the bathroom, and ran to the other end of the house! (Keep in mind that for the entirety of this post, I was completely butt naked!) So I went into the storage room of our house, which had a door to/from the rest of the house. This storage room also had a door that led directly outside. So while I was in there in the storage room, I thought, "wouldn't it be fun to go outside completely naked?" So I did! I was only out there for a few seconds that night, and it was pitch black dark at the time, since not very many folks in the neighborhood had gotten street lights yet. (Although that later changed.) I got such a rush out of going outside naked, that at about the same time the next night, I did it again! I probably stayed out there a little longer that second time. So I did this again and again over the next three weeks or so, gradually getting more daring each time. (I would run and hide if I heard a car coming.) So as I got more daring, I would go outside for longer periods of time, stay out there longer, and even leave the carport light on as I went out there! I would also venture further and further out from the house! Well, one night, after about three weeks of doing that, I was out there in the driveway, probably almost to the street, when I looked up, and noticed that the girl next door was watching me! I was so embarrassed! I bolted back to the house, but I know that she had already seen me! Keep in mind that I was butt naked, and I hadn't taken anything (like a towel or anything) to cover myself with. I had just thrown caution to the wind! Now I expected this girl (named Kim) to go around telling everyone that she had seen me outside without a stitch of clothes on! But she apparently never said anything to anyone about it, not even me! I realized then that Kim was a very sweet girl!

  • Partially. I enjoy having sex in public but dont need to be naked to do so. I also dont need to be seen but dont care if we are seen by others. Like i like us to be so focused on eachother that we dont even give a second thought as to if anyone else could be watcing.

    • And it started because my ex forced me to do a lot of PDA in public places when i wqs 15

    • What kind of PDA? Just kissing is considered PDA.

    • @Red_Arrow straight up fcking. Dont u know me by now lmao

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  • I'm a bit of an exhibitionist. I started when I was little, youngest child with older brothers. Mom died when I was still young, so it was just the guys and me, small house, one bathroom. Life just didn't leave much room for privacy.
    I never got excited by being seen by any of them, it was just common and not a concern for us. But what I did notice, was the attention I got from their friends. I was never scared to show off, my brothers were protective, so I got my little thrills here and there and their friends got to see a naked girl occasionally.

    • Your a partial exhibitionist, you like the attention from it but don't necessarily get excited from it. That seems to me to be pretty common. I'm sure their friends were super happy about it, I know how that goes.

  • I''m not an exhibitionist, Hubby is kind of (but I don't call him that). We vacation at clothing optional places so he can be legally nude. I will participate sometimes, sometimes just partially and sometimes just go along. But I can tell he likes to be naked in front of strangers.

    • Have you noticed other exhibitionists/strangers who seemed to like what they saw when they look at your hubby? How did it make you feel?

    • @Satyromaniac Have you noticed other exhibitionists/strangers who seemed to like what they saw when they look at your hubby? Yes, I have. How did it make you feel? Range between don't care or proud that I have him.

  • I'm kind of curious how come you make me want to confess you would have been a fun person to grow up with and Beyond

    • I hear that a lot from guys around your age or older. Must be something about the pre-internet becoming popular or something. I really didn't have any guy friends my own age, never had the opportunity to be that fun person with a fun guy until I was an adult.

  • iam an exhibitionist but no idea really how it started

  • Closest thing to this I think was after the incidents occurred. I couldnt stop so I started going in class sometimes. A girl started helping me out at one point with her hand under the desk. We sat together in class. Looking back we were both very young still and she knew this stuff. I suspect she was actually a victim too. Her father gave off very bad vibes tbh.

    • That is how many people get started, someone starts the trend and it continues. Then that person continues it to someone else. The cycle is hard to break.

  • I did something almost exactly like this, only it was sand dunes and desert and desert type trees, not a lot of cover but no one around.

    I would of loved to have ran into someone like you at that age. I just think guys are way more likely to be exhibitionists. Most girls I've known have trouble walking around their house naked.

    • Not me, but I have known a couple of guys that won't strip in public.

  • Two little boys walked up to a little girl wearing a short dress and they had mirrors on the tops of their shoes so they could look up her dress. She caught them trying and asked what they were doing. They said they were trying to get a look up her dress to see her underwear. She said, "HA! I fooled YOU!! I'm not WEARING any underwear!!" The boys felt disappointed and left.

    • Oh, I've gone streaking a couple times but just one block and back home. I've also gone skinny dipping in the pool a few times, sometimes with friends of both sexes. I've sat on the back porch naked a few times and the front porch. I've even taken a number of showers in the back yard when the bathroom was being re-done. When I was living with my future ex-fiance, there was a huge park 2 or 3 blocks away and we'd go to the hiking trail in the park and strip naked and walk about a mile to this huge bathtub sized rock, sit on it and make out for a while and then walk a mile back before getting dressed again. And, there was the time when I was 2 and decided to walk a block & a half down to the ball field completely naked, except for the lipstick I covered myself in.

  • When I was growing up as an 11-year-old no one was in the class
    and I played with my cock on the side of my shorts and I went
    into the bathroom to finish myself off but at that age, I wasn't
    making cum but the orgasm was amazing I always palpitated
    my cock to play with myself and I often put up a tent in the yard
    in summer months and use this small fan that vibrated and I
    would end up cumming, I always checked girl who sat with
    their legs spread and see their camel toe and they did have
    a hairy pussy but it was amazing, always in my teens I
    did enjoy handjobs

  • I happened to notice curtains move in next door neighbors house and then saw MILF who lives there watching me. I actually saw her watching with a friend. I have a deck which I thought was private but some landscaping changed that. I've had a few girls who asked for videos- that's not truly exhibitionism. It was a bit of a thrill- so much so that masturbating in private is not as big of a turn on as it once was. An audience held more appeal thpough it likelly had asomething to do with neighbor being hot and - a noticed her joining me a few times and I get really turned on watching attractive women masturbating

    • My first apartment, had radiant heat. That first semester at college sucked, in the winter it was so hot all we could do is open the windows to let cold air in and hot air out. Really old brick building. My roommates thought it was funny that I would just walk around in under wear letting people in the next building over see me. Some of them did too, once they realized being fully dressed at 90 degrees in the winter sucks. I had no issues with this, but at the time what I didn't like was guy knocking on the door saying hey you wanna fuck, cause they thought I was standing there intentionally or walking around to give them the idea I wanted some. When it really was just damn hot. I know what you mean though, the thrill of recordings and pics are nice but in person is so much better, as long as they aren't going to call the police.

  • I used to be very exhibitionistic until like 14, when it got heavily suppressed by my parents, never to become one again (still hidden somewhere inside though). I just walk around wondering who else is like me and would like to live in an exhibitionist friendly world.

    • Ironically I think if everyone walked around showing it off, nobody would care.

    • Yes. People lose power when divided. If everyone did that, nobody would care. If one person did that, big scandal.

  • more of the vouyer. looking for those moments you describe without ever making someone feel invaded. only when the other person wants to be viewed. there are many who do it is just widely talked about in most situations. but be surprised how many swingers, vouyers , exhibitionists there are that you know and just don't know it about them, this is why those groups of people use things to indicate it so people of the same interest can let each other know without alerting anyone else. swingers she wears a anklet, they hang pineapple on the front door the house. etc.

    • interesting, didn't know that... I'm not into swinging, but I totally understand the whole vouyer thing, even if someone wants to watch, they may not know it is okay and won't want to intrude.

  • I wanted to but my dick is 4 inches and I don't want people to see that, maybe if I wear huge strap on and sweat pants on it, it will look like I have a big one.

    • Girls are really self conscience too, which is probably why there a lot that admit they are exhibitionists.

  • You naughty girl, the world needs more girls like you in it. 😜

    • PREACH!!!

    • One of the most common phrases I hear is, thank you for sharing with the world. You are so beautiful and artistic at the same time, I'm glad you don't hide this from the world. Yet every time I expose myself I'm always so nervous, if I didn't like it so much I wouldn't be able to push myself to do it. Always have that nagging fear, what if this guy is a cop.

    • I’m following you can you reply on DM?

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  • Well im not an exhibitionist but i do love watching so this story was pretty hot. ;)

    • That is the nice thing about it, exhibitionists don't mind people watching.

  • it's thenkas to someone who made me do that

    • I'd like to thank that someone for making you do that

    • Someone made you do it and then you started doing it? or was this just a forced thing so you only did it one time.

  • As a teenager I used to go to some woods near where I lived, there was this big old dead tree and I used to strip and hide my clothes there and then walk around enjoying the feeling of being naked outside. There used to be dog walkers around but it was easy to avoid them but a few occasions I know I was seen and that excited me more. I would of course be sporting a hard on during these walks and would end up masturbating. Later my outside pursuits grew to me flashing women in parks which was exciting and scary at the same time. The reaction of women varied from shock, amusement or indifference.

    • I've had guys flash me, I just laugh... first time it startled me but whatever. You never know though how people will take it. He had a robe like thing on and just swung it open. I think it is a bit easier for me to flash, as I can just not wear underwear, have a skirt on and accidently let someone see it.

    • I would wear loose shorts so it was easy to get to my tackle. Only once did a woman stop and converse with me (from a distance). I was on a park bench, can't remember the conversation, it was decades ago but I do remember asking her if was OK to cum, she said OK, so I did. She said, 'feel better?' I nodded and with that she walked away. I was a naive teenager at the time looking for kicks but I stopped doing it and would never dream of doing it now.

    • Yeah being a sex offender would suck.

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  • Depends i have only fingered a girl at college nothing else.

  • Well I'm not really I walk naked around my house when the curtains are closed and no one is in it. But I do go in to public whole not wearing underwear and my male parts just going every we're it feels great yes yes because me great nice perfect boy yess yess😂

    • I go into public while I'm just wearing a t shirt and gym shorts

    • I almost never wear anything at home, I do open up my curtains though so cars driving by could see me... but people driving are always looking straight ahead, never sideways.

    • Oo nice I would probably crash because of looking at you 😮😮

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