I’m confused by this guy?

[Anonymous]

So I met this guy on a dating app. We talked for over a month. We met up tonight. Omg I had the most fun I’ve ever had with a guy. We ended up talking over five hours and we went to the park. We are both 18. I know he’s not the one. But it was movie type cute stuff.
Anyway he told me he wanted friends but also flirted some. So I straight up asked him where we stood. He told me that it was too soon to know anything and he wasn’t sure (ok). But he kept touching me. Like my shoulder, my thigh, my hand, and even brushed against my boob twice. He wasn’t coming off like trying to have sex. Didn’t even try. But he asked me what gave me mixed signals. I told him the flirting and the touches. He said he didn’t mean to that he used his hands to talk and he has
a “ flirty personality “ without meaning to.
He also mentioned how pretty he thought I was a couple times.
I want to be more than friends but I’m not sure he wants to be. What do you think? How should I interpret this? Do you think he likes me more than a friend? What should I do? And should I hope for more?

[harvest]

Don't overanalyze us. We're simple. If he told you he's not sure about it, it means he's not sure.
This means he MIGHT want to date you in a future but not at the moment. And yes, we sometimes flirt with girls "automatically". Don't read into it.

[Asker]

Do you think the touching is a just friend move?

[harvest]

No, but also not yes... We touch what we find attractive. But you have to understand that for us, 80% of women on the street is attractive. You ladies are much more picky than us. Him touching you probably means that he finds you cute. But that doesn't mean he "likes you" in a way you would want him to.

[Gochogirl]

Before you try to figure out what HE wants, figure out what YOU want.

If you want a relationship, I can already tell you he does not. If someone isn't EXCITED at the idea of being ina relationship with you, don't even try to talk them into it.

If you want to just explore and have a fun time without commitment, tell yourself where your boundaries lie and then go have fun. Don't let him talk you into crossing your own line.

[Anonymous]

I think its up to what you desire from that relationship/friendship. Do you value him to not be with romantically with the idea that you may have longterm feelings? You also need to consider if he has a 'flirty' personality, it mag mean being in a relationship means accepting that and potentially seeing him interact the same with his other female friends.

[Asker]

I know. I honestly like him and want a relationship. I am going to be friends for a little longer and see if things progress. Because he has asked for time to figure things out. I respect that but if things don’t move in the next couple months tops than I think I will end things. Because once I like a guy mentally I can’t just be his friend I know and he told me he had a relationship end because of it

[Anonymous]

He isn't sure and there are guys who have that personality.
If you don't want to be with him, make sure he understands that.
If being friends while he is still flirty is uncomfortable, again, let him know and if he continues, just let go.

[Asker]

I want to be in a relationship but I like him so I don't know if I can be just friends when he is flirting and giving me false hope

[alleon]

What?

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Swordnen]

If you like him
Then have patience
When he understands that he like you back
He will propose you
Till that time have patience
Enjoy time with him understand him better
Give him a chance