Being a girl makes me sad! Why did God design us in such an unfair way? How do I stop feeling like this?

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Being a girl makes me sad it feels like God hates us! My first boyfriend was so abusive he taught me that I am constantly at the mercy of men. Whenever I'm alone with a man the only thing keeping me safe is the fact that he doesn't want to hurt me.

And you never know if a guy is going to hurt you because they're so mean! They get turned on when sex hurts us and makes us cry and they always pressure us into sex, I couldn't imagine wanting to have sex while he's crying. My ex would just climb on top of me if I said no, I'm surprised he bothered asking. They always get to enjoy being dominant and doing what they want and we just have to submit to it and feel it. We can't use sex to hurt or dominate or degrade them. They never have to do anything gross.

They always come to us for emotional support but we don't get it from them! Sex is always nice for them but I've had to endure so much painful and dehumanizing sex from men that I loved and trusted and respected. We have to live with pain they'll never experience like birth, periods, and anal. We're weak and we're designed to be penetrated and we get pregnant so a man can do what he wants to me with no worries and I have to experience what he does and live with all the aftermath.

Does God hate women? He could've made things more fair! How about give the weaker sex the penetrating organ? How about neither of us are way weaker? How about sex doesn't involve domination and penetration?
Being a girl makes me sad! Why did God design us in such an unfair way? How do I stop feeling like this?
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