Im a lesbian stuck in a man's body, why do you disagree?

Question

When I tell people I'm a female lesbian stuck in a man's body people jus laugh or don't take me serious, they jus say I'm a normal straight guy... But I really think I am a girl in a man's body.. I mean sure I take on the characteristics of acting and looking tough and brave because I'm suppose to be a man and I take on that gender role I'm suppose to be.. but deep in my personality I feel like I'm a girl.. why? Because I'm very soft weak and innocent.. not menacing or a dick at all.. I'm a very laid-back friendly kind of person who hates fights or confrontation, I'm like a flower... Very delicate and very faggot like... Except I don't show that side of me.. on the outside I try to look tough but inside I feel like a girl... I'm afraid of pretty much everything and I'm kind of a pathetic coward... And like a girl I'm very loving with a big heart. I feel like I'm a actual girl in the body of a boy/male/man,... The only thing that makes me a normal straight guy is that I like girls.. but I feel like I'm a girl who likes girls, but in a man's body.. a male lesbian...

horsegirl111 · Accepted Answer

So either your just a feminine man, which is perfectly ok! Or you fall somewhere in the trans type of category. If you feel like you should be a woman and want to be a woman, then you could be trans, which would make you lesbian, or you could be more along the lines of gender fluid or nonbinary, there are honestly so many diff labels out there. Or you could just say you like girls, no need to label anything, cause that could just stress you out more :)

SnakeBoop · Accepted Answer

so you're not lesbian. You're trans.  But nice troll.

snackthatsmilesback · Accepted Answer

Those qualities don't mean you can't be a man. They certainly don't make you a woman.

Just be yourself and stop trying to fit that gender role if that role doesn't fit you. It's okay to be a bitch and a man yknow. Those aren't mutually exclusive.

Curmudgeon · Accepted Answer

This was the story of a character from a novel from some years back:

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nah, all the Lesbians I know are intelligent….

Ms_Vanderquack · Answer

No, you are just a garden variety idiot.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Your view of how guys are meant to be is pretty twisted, I'm guessing your father tried to beat the wimp out of you at some point in your life. Guys don't all have to be gruff and tough, you can actually be a kind and caring and loving and still be a guy. And not all guys are dicks, it's not a prerequisite of being a man!