If you masturbate to the thought of someone else without them ever knowing, have you violated their consent?

You're just thinking of them and decide to masturbate to them. however they never know you are doing it nor do you ever tell them.

is their consent violated in this scenario?
Definitely yes
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yes
Vote B
sorta
Vote C
no
Vote D
definitely not
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+1 y
Just want to stress that they also do NOT have a pic of them in this scenario
+1 y
I'm just exploring what 'consent' really means to most people. i may ask some follow up questions to this one later
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  • No. But you're a good person if you do 💕

    • mmm mmm ;)

    • @harleigh90 CNC….

    • @Chrismaster69 Shhh 😏


  • Nah 😎

    If you masturbate to the thought of someone else without them ever knowing, have you violated their consent?
    • hehe ;)

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  • If its to a picture or something they didn't give consent to, yea its wrong and creepy, but if they happen to pop into your head while masturbating its not wrong at all

    • no picture

    • yea no, thats not violating, it happens to everyone, just don't tell them cause that would b very weird lol

    • @JohnK123 lmao you are too funny. Clothing and poses aren't asking for it. So fuck off and go watch porn cause those women are putting themselves out there with that intention, women who like to look nice for their social media to keep update in peoples lives or get likes aren't intending to have some creep jerking it to them

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  • Just came here because of the video, and to say I love that movie and those two bungholes! 🤣

    But to answer your question, I wouldn't say so, as you're not physically having sex with them.

  • Our thoughts are our own, they cannot be controlled by others. Hell I can't even control my own sometimes.

    • If we was accountable for our thoughts I'd be in prison for life cos there's thousands of thought crimes I've done in my head, including kill my own mum. Hahahah. Thinking about something and actually doing it are two different things

  • No. You can't police people's thoughts. Your mind will explore the possibilities for everything at some point in life. They'll never know anyway if it's just the though of them.

  • Thinking isn’t a crime

    • No one’s saying its a crime

  • Sooner or later some one will cry rape based on that.

    • Omg that’s so true. Lmao thanks for that

    • "wishful thinking" on her part?

    • Thanks to the snowflake world we live in. Shake. my damn head

  • Nope. Just the same as they don't own you rent for taking up space in your mind.

  • If someone did that while thinking of me, I wouldn't know how I'll feel.

  • Let’s face it for some people, this is Beastiality, necrophilia, cartoons, smells etc.

    i would like be arrested with some of my wanks.

    Thinking about someone who has been dead 30 years, tied up, and then some dark stuff lol.

    There is a Blue Anon confused reading this question and wondering if he needs to ask his mum for consent first before he masturbates.

    • 🤣🤣🤣

    • If you masturbate to the thought of someone else without them ever knowing, have you violated their consent?

  • This philosoraptor would like to know, do I have anyone's consent to tell them all the sexual things I do think about them or would like to do while thinking about them? No? Didn't think so... Now that I can't tell them without the risk of being super awkward, how exactly would extracting the consent work? Am I going to need a license to think about anyone at all because of some mental copyright, because they didn't give me permission? After all, non-sexual mental content would suddenly be in questipn too. Daydreaming could be illegal. Quick, stop thinking about that pink elefant bouncing up and down on top of a spinning umbrella!

    That sort of consent not really a workable idea even if someone was crazy enough to consider it.

  • One of the highest forms of flattery, and I don’t need to know about it.

    • always better a secret in my opinion ;)

    • 100%

    • @loves2learn haha no one will ever know

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  • Nope, assuming you don’t tell them you did it obviously.

  • Of course not, but it would be weird to ask someone for permission to do it lol. I've had lots of guys tell me they masturbate over my pics and i dont mind :)

    • @melissaboop which pics? how revealing were they? what if the guy is not hot? ok so if its ok for a guy to masturbate thinking about you why do so many girls have such an issue about guys looking at their boobs or ass or crotch when they are dressed?

    • @rebeliouse some clothed pics like the one in my profile, some were topless or nude. Personally i dont mind guys looking at my boobs or ass or whatver.

    • You know it happens a lot. And you choose to enjoy the attention and compliments. Very wise of you and you will be happier accepting what is normal.

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  • Can you imagine how grossed out all those girls in junior high would be?

  • I don't think so, but I still think it's somewhat... unsavory?
    I had an ex-girlfriend tell me she still "touched" herself to the memories of our intimate life, and my reaction an uncomfortable "Oh, okay.".
    I also thought it was disrespectful to her current partner as well.
    I certainly hope she stopped doing that - I certainly did my best to erase her for my mind.

  • its called telepathic rape.
    and no, its not okay without their consent, what if some random pervert just masturbates to the thought of your mother and she doesn't even know him.

    • Maybe if she picks up on his thoughts she will enjoy them and have her own orgasm!

    • me and my ex have done this to each other but we do tell each other about it later, it was because we loved each other. if some other guy was to masturbate to my pictures, I'd not like it. so either they just dont tell me then. because thinking isn't a crime, but its just disgusting if someone does that if i dont even know em or something also no. i dont think so, unless they love being telepathically raped.

    • That's such a stupid concept. I don't care what others think of my mother or me as long as they don't harm us.

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  • Dude, please. Don't make the most dumb among us think about such a thing...

  • just in case...

    ALL and ANY of you have my consent to think anything you want about me, and... to do whatever while doing so

    I won't feel violated... lol

  • Oh this question is a bit 1984esque lol
    No absolutely not, the consideration of such a thing as violating someone's consent by thinking about them is actually a pretty dangerous line of thinking, and suggesting that people can't even have free will inside their own head.

  • No, you haven’t. It’s a fantasy.

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