When you pick partners based more on how they look, how popular they are, or how big their wallet is, rather than on their character, this is likely to result. I'm not saying that you did this (though if you are honest with yourself, you probably did), but statistically, this is going to be the case. Men who are attractive to the majority of women are going to be men who are in the top 10% of all men - and these men know they have a huge amount of options, so they don't feel any need to make any effort or do anything but please themselves. They can be selfish because most women will let them, and if one woman becomes a hassle to him because he's selfish, he can replace her easily and quickly.
It's kind of like buying a Ferrari and then expecting Honda reliability and Honda-sized repair/maintenance bills - and then being shocked that you have to spend $30,000-50,000 a year to maintain your prancing horse, even if you barely drive it. Those top guys come with some costs.
I'm not saying that you need to date the bottom 10% of guys either - it's not a choice of one extreme or the other. But if you look in the 50-70% range, you might be surprised at what a different experience that can be.0 1 0 0
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Communication with a steady partner is your best bet.
You can't expect someone to know your do's and don't's. Keep evolving your sex life and together make it what you want it to be.
You will need the right partner for it.
Men are notorious for fucking until they cum and going to sleep.
But there are also men who do the whole show.
Get in the mood
A load of foreplay
Good wel paced sex
Making sure you orgasm even if he already did.
And also very important,
Aftercare.
No turning around and sleeping.
Making sure you feel good and relaxed
Nice and comfortable
Sweet words and soft kisses.
Cuddles
And afterwards he can sleep or do whatever0 0 0 0
Most Helpful Girl
Find someone who’s really good at going down on you
1 1 0 1Hate putting my mouth near a pussy, it makes me want to throw up.
@lambrini What would you tell a guy? The same thing?
I meant to reply to @gwenhwyfar
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0 17Open up and talk to your partner. Talk about the things that turn you on and what you like doing and having done to you. If there is something your partner does that you don’t like let them know. Communication is the key to a great relationship and great sex
1 0 0 0If you don’t know yet, figure out why it hasn’t been great and fix it!
0 0 0 0My best tip for you is to find a guy that will slowly softly tease you and seduce you very slow and sensual so you feel it to your inner core but he won't take you over that line until he builds you up and fills you up and Build You Up and then gives it to you it makes you feel it deep it's a marathon and most guys like to only be selfish and do it for themselves I want to do it for the girl and for her I want her to come as many times as possible that's what turns me on and that's what makes me come hard
0 0 0 0Define your idea of "great sex". And since you already had sex many times, what can I tip you on about?
Quite a hard question to answer to.0 0 0 0Keep practicing...
0 0 0 0Overploughing the soil, constantly turning it over, can result in the leaching out of its minerals and result in erosion and infertility. Stop ploughing for a while, let it lie fallow for a bit, so that it can rest and recover.
0 2 0 0Moan. Even talk dirty at certain times. It’s the mindset that really gets things going. Surprise him with a new thong and bra. If you’re having a home date, dress provocatively.
Fuck in public or blow him.0 0 0 0How would we know what great sex entails if we've never had it
0 0 0 0Find a more mature man that wants to pleasure his partner and not just looking for a place to dump some cum!
0 0 0 0Come try me out! Lol.
0 0 0 0What the hell do you do so well
It’s all about her pleasure over mine 😌
I always had great sex. I think i need to know which sex it not great?
0 0 0 0find a better man :D
0 0 0 0Stop hooking up and find a man willing to be sexually compatible, or woman if that's your thing
0 0 0 0work on your own sex game and help your parnter improve theirs
0 0 0 0Do you know what, for you, would constitute great sex? Can you give yourself mind-blowing orgasms?
0 0 0 0More foreplay
0 0 0 0hello there, do I know you? where you are from? You sound a lot like someone I knew?
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