My ex got horny today, messaged me about it, does it show that he thinks of me whenever he's horny, because he's messaged me before too? read below?

[Anonymous]

he messaged me about it multiple times before too after our breakup, but we didn't do anything about it, and i usually ignored it. but today when he messaged me about it, i got thirsty reading it too, and we sexted a bit and he had to go for his Thanksgiving dinner in like five minutes and I told him I wanna moan. so we called and he moaned and made noises to make me hornier, and I moaned so much multiple times, he said "damn thats a bit inappropriate" and I moaned more, he just knows how to make me. and then he had to go so he left, but he didn't really tell me if he got a boner or if he liked my moans, and now I'm just overthinking...
what does his behaviour mean? I really love him truly and we spend time together a lot like we used to like watching youtube videos before bed, watching movies, showing memes, texting a lot, etc etc. except, he stopped giving me love (like kisses or telling an i love you etc etc) after our breakup

[Carolmille]

I do not think he’s in love with you. I think he loves having sex with you. Whereas you enjoy the sex too, you also crave the intimacy. I think you should weigh your options. If you are interested in a strictly sexual relationship and are indeed capable of separating your emotions from the experience, you can attempt to hookup with him. If otherwise you are an unrepentant romantic, cut him off and move on.

[Gagname]

@carolmille You’re great at assessing things and giving advice.

[Carolmille]

@Gagname Awww thanks.

[Gagname]

Yw @carolmille

[laura123iu]

if he's your ex, he's your ex for a reason, it seems like he's using you cause he's horny, dont fall for it, it doesn't mean he want you back, he could be doing this with other girls and you wouldn't know cause you are not together. focus on healing and letting go or find someone else who will truly love you and fulfill your sexual needs (there's a lot of dating apps). have a good thanksgving!

[whatsthereinname]

Messaging you whenever he's horny doesn't suggest his love for you but the fact that he still considers you a potential candidate to get his thirst and lust addressed to

While I don't know what has been the reason for your break up, i cannot comment much here, but the above sums up

[Asker]

it was because i used to get jealous and uncomfortable whenever he used to talk to women, basically have lied to him a few times, but I've apologised about it like last year and we broke up this year, he says i dont change, and how I'm just saying apologies but not meaning it or changing and i couldn't give him as much love back as much as he used to give me, because i was usually around people and family, it just wasn't possible, and its something i can't change, being jealous, and uncomfortable, i can't change it, i;ve never repeated mistakes I've done , and still am always so loyal to him, and what actually broke us off that thread was for a really silly reason. that shouldn't have affected us. I don't know anymore.

[whatsthereinname]

May I ask where are you from

[Asker]

Asia, and he's American

[Asker]

but he's American Asian and im just Asian

[whatsthereinname]

Care to message?

[Wise4myage]

Maybe, but I bet he was just super horny and wanted to get off. If it happens again, then just ask him.

Trust me, he was hard.

[ChillMatg]

He was horny. Missed being sexual with you. He probably came while on the phone. Sounds like you wanted it too.

[In_Trance]

no, not really