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How to ask the guy I date to sit in his face without being awkward or uncomfortable?

I've been thinking about doing this for a long long time because it's my biggest kink and even tho I feel very comfortable with him, I'm too shy to bring up this conversation or to ask him when we're together... I'm scared to freak him out or I don't know because he's very shy and I can't think of a way to ask him without being awkward for both or even more uncomfortable for me, since I'm not used to talk about my desires in person when we're dating. I'm pretty sure he would want it, but he definitely wouldn't ask me in the middle of sex for being a little shy too. I see a lot of men wanting to know how to ask this to their girlfriend but I never see a girl asking how to do it with her boy. Should I say something right away or send some discreet hint or something? Guys, what do you recommend for me to do/tell him and girls who have already done, how did you asked to your man or did?. Please help me !!!
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  • I hate to break it to you... but there is no 'classy' way to ask to sit on a guys face. If you're comfortable enough to sit on a dude's face. You should be comfortable to have a conversation about it first. If you do anything other than... pretty much straight-up ask him IN THOSE WORDS... you're going to end up looking silly. I get second-hand embarrassed just thinking about it. Don't try and say this anyway except straight. Don't hint; don't beat around the bush; Don't try and orchestrate some situation where you're trying to get HIM to ask you to sit on his face. Just be straight-up and honest about what you'd like to do in the bedroom! Have the conversation with your clothes on. Like adults. Seriously, you are never ready to do anything in the bedroom you're not comfortable talking about with your partner--with your clothes on.

    There is no reason to assume he wouldn't be into it. Personally, it's not 'my thing', but if I was with someone who had it as a specific fetish, I would be up for it and would likely enjoy it. I think most guys are going to fall into this boat. But then again, some guys are super into this and maybe you'll luck out. In the world of fetishes... this is not a 'hard ask'. He's not going to be shocked or anything. But just have a clothes-on talk. Ask him what sorts of things he's into as well. THAT's how you end up with good sex as an adult. 🙂

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  • first question is does he ever perform oral sex on you and do you ever give him blow jobs? if the answer is yes then it makes it a lot easier.

    if you both to shy to talk about sex then i guess chatting about it will probably be a no.

    if however you do have oral sex, you could always start in the 69 position, you on top, and after a while you could start to lean back more and more, whilst at the same time letting him know that you are enjoying it more and more, start making more pleasurable noises, most guys need to know that what they are doing is right and they will generally indulge more. once you are leaning back, in a sexy breathless voice tell him "oh baby this is turning me on so much i just want to sit on your face". that way your in the moment and you didn't really have to say much. but once you are on his face, you need to really up the moaning and noise to let him know that you are enjoying it and get him more stimulated.

    other option is, once you are both drunk and you have lost your inhibitions, ask him what is the one thing that you would like me to do tonight? as the conversation moves on you could say i would love it if you would let me sit on your face, i would cum so hard and it would fulfill my fantasies, and see what his reaction is.

    however if the answer to the first question is No and he does not perform oral sex, then i would suggest that you start by giving him a blow job and then get him to return the favor

    i think that you'll find that most guys enjoy performing oral and you won't have much problems. i know that if a partner asked me i would be right in there, i think that its hot.

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  • If he gives you head regularly, changing the order of the addends shouldn't change the final result. Meaning, if he is partial about muff-diving, I don't think he'd mind the muff diving onto him.

  • Why talk about it, just do it, while your doing foreplay, just lay him down maintaining eye contact and straddle his head, start with your ass away from him. Just do it, he isn't going to mind and it saves an awkward and most likely unnecessary conversation.

  • Just tell him your desires. He'll be more than happy to try and fulfill them.

  • Are you currently having sex? Just ask him.

  • Just tell him. While being very amorous, say "Babe, you make me so hot. I want to sit and your face and have you lick me."

    Most guys will find that exiting and help you climb onboard. Enjoy!

  • If you are having sex with him, this is the sort of thing that would be good for you to be able to discuss.

  • Next time you're with him ask him if he's ever had a girl do that to him.. If he says he has, ask if he wants you to. If he says no, ask him if he'd like to try it.

  • Consider watching porn together that includes what you want and ask him if you can try it. If you're not already shaved it can be more pleasant for the guy if you are. Kneel and hover over his mouth so he can eat you and breathe rather than putting all our weight on his face.

  • I second what @cowboy6666 said ask him about his feelings of oral sex in general and work your way from there

  • How do you even know he’s into oral sex?

  • You don't ASK - you TAKE !!! You get naked in front of him, push him down on the bed, tell him to do whatever you say, and then sit on his face and give him instructions. If he doesn't like that, you got the wrong guy.

  • Just bring up the idea of doing the 69.

  • It's best to ask straight out. It shouldn't feel weird since you two are already in a sexual relationship

  • Ask in indirect way first, like has any girl sat on his face?
    Did he like that experience. etc.
    If he responds positively then ask him :p

    • I just did it and it worked! Ask him indirectly were waaay better than just say right away and wasn't awkward at all. Thanks for you help. ❤️

    • Glad to help you, Is it MHO for you then :)

  • im tired of seeing these

  • take control, push him down on the bed and start kissing him all over and be sure to end in a way where you are giving him head in a 69 position. with you on top when he starts to eat you then you are all set for raising up and face sitting. If he doesn't start to eat you when in the 69 position then slap his dick and tell him this is a two way street... lol He should get the message and after a few times you start talking to him about it and let him know what you like about it... If he wants to please you he will talk to you about it and let you know what he likes as well...

  • Just do it. Push him on his back, straddle his chest and then move up.

  • Just be straight up and ask. A lot of us would be so excited to receive that request

    • She’s not a guy

  • Why don't you start sucking his cock get him really into it then turn it in to a 69 if he don't like it he will probably just try to fuck you keep working at it if your sucking his cock he should be eatting your pussy

  • Very interesting question. As difficult to ask as where do I find woman like you? What does your v****& look like smell taste like? You've to get started somewhere. Let's say can we please talk about what's taboo and what's not without judging each other?

    • Or what sexual act is taboo for you?

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