What do men mean when they say you are very sensual? What does that really mean to them?

[Aerissa_Jade]

I have been told I am very sensual. What does that mean in man speak?

I know some definitions refer to it explicitly in regards to sexual terms, which makes sense to be sexually sensual but it isn't always that.

I can run my fingers up and down his arm and gently play with his hair at the base of his head.

I move my fingers gently down his back, even with a shirt on and it will make him shiver and tremble.

I can do this while we are both fully clothed, nothing sexual going on. I enjoy touching him gently in this way, giving him attention. Often I do not even realizing that I'm doing this, such as if we are in a movie or watching TV on a couch cuddling.

I have found it odd that some guys like me playing with their hair so much, if I try to turn it sexual they move my hand back up. They want me to keep playing with their hair instead.

I have often wondered if they mean it in regards to how I move, how I walk, how I talk and things like that. Is this just another term for being very feminine? Rather than tom boyish.

Women have told me this too, saying I'm a very sensual person... even when I never touch anyone. Some sort of Aura I give off I guess. As I have no idea how I can be sensual without actually touching anyone at times.

What does it mean to you.

[t-8900]

Sensual is a romantic and nurturing physical feature, usually through touch. And making out in a romantic setting. KNOWING that romantic setting too. I had a week long sensual escapade. We basically both ran away from home, we sent the whole week in her car, we touched, locked hands, made up, talking 24/7, watched the sun rises and sun sets. We fed each other our dinners. Honestly it was INTENSE but it had no sexual activity beyond the making out and touching and rubbing all over each other. I didn't want it to go beyond that but I deeply needed that physical contact. she let me rest my head in her lap and look up into her eyes are she caressed my hair. We werent even in a relationship and reconnected after not speaking for a long time. She told me she had been crushing on me for years and I didn't know but I secretly liked her too. That was the most physical contact I had ever had up to that point. It was really something else... but it wasn't meant to last.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think you described it pretty well yourself. I don't really have anything to add to that.

But yeah, I'm totally not surprised that a guy would want you to continue playing with his hair. It feels REALLY good!

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Gwenhwyfar]

You’re good at sex

[Aerissa_Jade]

Must come naturally, can't see how anyone can really mess that up.

[Satyromaniac]

Some people have it naturally like you, some have to be taught, people like me teach themselves to be sensual to be better lovers to their SO

[Gwenhwyfar]

Some people are better than others. in my opinion.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Sex does come naturally to me, but I don’t like to brag

[Satyromaniac]

I totally agree with you @GwenHwyfar some have to learn that skill, I brag about it coz I made the effort to learn it. And @Aerissa_Jade you don't know how lucky you are that it comes naturally to you

[Gwenhwyfar]

Thanks for MHO 😊

[ohshee]

To me it means every touch every kiss everything slows down and all your senses are at there peak you become one. two energies fuse together and becomes so beautiful and intense with very deep passion and desire in everything you do

[TadCurious]

Aerissa even though you say nothing sexual is going on when you do these things (and I believe you when you say that from your point of view), from his point of view and reaction it can be a huge turn on. That kind of casual touching can be very powerful and cause very pleasurable sensations including an erection.

[Cloud-9]

Its a great compliment!

Not many women know how to be this way.

Congradulations!

[exitseven]

Sensual means that you can get a guy aroused by just your words or actions.

[libraboy]

It means you really feel hot to them. You're passionate and responsive towards them

[loveslongnails]

A sensual person is someone who seeks and enjoys gratification of all the senses. This usually spills over into sexual gratification as well, but it doesn't have to be one in the same. In my experience, the sensual women I've met were also very sexual, but the reverse wasn't true. I prefer both a sensual and sexual woman.

[TallAnon]

Not a word I've ever described anyone with, but I suppose it's comfy?

[nawtee_me]

Someone or something that is sensual shows or suggests a great liking for physical pleasures, especially sexual pleasures.
Something that is sensual gives pleasure to your physical senses rather than to your mind.
It could be that whomever said that you are a sensual woman feels pleasure from seeing you or maybe even just the thought of you...

[Guardian45]

Sensual: attractive or gratifying physically, especially sexually.

Intimacy is a feeling of being close, and emotionally connected and supported to share a whole range of thoughts, feelings and experiences.

While a person can be sensual it is meaningless without intimacy.

[andy530]

in my opinion it means you are connected to your sexual side very well and access it and pay attention to how that side of you influences and affects others as well as yourself

[Razor8]

You pretty much explain what it means ^ haha.

[Jhonrembo]

I have the feeling that everything you do to them stimulates them greatly. Maybe you're just a very stimulating girl😂😂😂

[NYlatefun]

To me it means sexy, someone that has graceful attitudes but a bit sexually charged.

[jimmy2]

You explained dear

[krin_m]

For me, it is part of my sexuality. Although I can see where it also can be very pleasant but non-sexual.

[Yellovv]

Means you are so good about that..

[Zlantur2]

I consider sensual the part that makes the mood and before sexy time. And yes we love having you playing with our hair, it feels nice