Can you write some reason why you would consider saying no to another person for sex?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

One of the most important things that ever happened to me was when a girl she started flirting with me and I was being a smart-ass and I was just flirting back joking with her and she started to touch me and she was verbally gross is all the only word I can think of and she would touch me little bit more the Lord I would say hey please don't do that you know and in that moment I got to learn exactly what a girl goes through when a guy touches her and she doesn't want to be touched and I started to get pissed off because she would not let up that has happened to me three times in my life and all three times my stomach just went into big knots two times I left and the one time the girl left that's because we are in my house but that's one reason because I didn't want to be touched I'm not interested I'm not just going to go fuck somebody because they want me to I have to like the person I mean really like the person that's one reason another reason is because I know it's not going to work another reason has been because they were married I'm sure there's a couple more but those were the most important reasons anyway

[MrOracle]

• I wasn't single/available.
• They weren't single (I don't get involved with people already in a relationship, period).
• I didn't find them attractive.
• I believed they were in love/infatuated with me and I didn't feel the same.
• I had reason to believe they were crazy/psycho/stalkers.
• I had reason to believe they might have an STD, or were trying to get pregnant.
• For whatever reason, I just didn't want to have sex (perhaps no privacy available?).
• They were an ex of a close friend, and I hadn't talked to the friend about it first (aka Bro Code).
• They were drunk/high and unable to consent.

Those are the things that come to me off the top of my head. They aren't in any particular order.

[purplepoppy]

Close relative.
Poor hygiene.
Too old/young.
Small dick.
Too fat or ugly.
Poor reputation.

[Eswarroalvass]

How big do you like the dick to be?

[katiesmuff]

Stink, body odor
they are ugly
they have a rep for having STDs
no connection between us

[PrettyPriya]

I can list lots. What is the context of the situation?

[Aerissa_Jade]

If he is grossing me out, giving seriously bad vibes.

[DizzyDesii]

If im not in love with them

[OlderAndWiser]

1. No to any male.
2. No to any person who is married, engaged, or in a serious relationship.
3. No to any person who is not my significant other.

[SnakeBoop]

"no" is a complete sentence.

[ChrisMaster69]

There are loads.

the basic one is you don’t need a reason, it’s about consent and either person saying no should be respected every time.

for me big one is not having an emotional connection with the other person

if either of us are not single

if I don’t feel like it.

if I don’t like them for whatever reason

etc

[Flower7]

Because I don’t like him.

[RobT312]

Yes. If there isn’t a connection then I’d say no. Either physical or mental connection

[MrCommodore]

If I don't find her attractive or don't see her as potentially girlfriend material. I don't do random hookups for sex only.

[summiter]

I would cause I am married. But when I was single there werenot too many reasons cause sex sure was better then jerking off.

[integrale77]

My girlfriend would chop my dick off

[Harleigh90]

You don't need a reason. No is no. You don't need to explain yourself

[ChrisMaster69]

@harleigh90 exactly

[EmmaMary]

None whatsoever...No means quite simply NO.

[IAMNathanael]

Because I'm not married. And If I had a wife I stay faithful to my wife.

[RedStiletto88]

I’ve done a number of sex related things for money but not sex itself as that is a much more intimate act meant with someone I love.

[DonkeyDan]

Can think of a load of reasons
Not attracted to her
No connection with her
Wrong personality for my liking
She's a skank
Too far out of my accepted age group
Looks like a cheap hoe
Etc etc

[slatyb]

Paternity.
STDs.
The person might not leave when it’s over.

A high-priced escort explained why highly attractive men used her services since they could have any of thousands of women. “They don’t pay me to show up. They pay me to leave.”

[aintnocandle]

1) I’m not attracted to them

[HighValue]

If I am not in a long term relationship with her then I certainly wouldn't have sex with her.

[jayyohh]

Some would say no if they knew they were involved with someone else on any level, no chemistry, no attraction.

But you can say no just because it's no. Consent is sexy 🥵