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Straight men: Anal sex or vaginal?

I like this app because us girls can ask things and get the absolute truth.. if we ask our boyfriends it can be hard to trust their answer isn't just them telling us what they think we want to hear. So, trythfully... what feels better... anal or regular sex? All men seem obsessed with anal, so I asked my ex once if anal feels better than regular sex. He said vaginally sex feels a lot better but men obsess over anal just because they don't get to do it as often, and also because its just a sexy turn on to know your putting it in a girls ass.. cause its more nasty & dirty (not litterally) but like kinky I mean. So the whole idea of it, mentally, is what makes men like it so much. But if we are speaking to how it FEELS only, then regular sex is way better. I've always wondered if this is true or was he just saying what he thought I woulda wanted to hear?
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  • Your boy is only half right.

    Oral and anal are things not every girl can do. Sure every girl will claim to "give the best blowjobs" and "take a bollard from behind" but it's not true.

    Not every girl can give anal as not every girl can relax her sphincter. Most will feel terrible pain or not even entertain the idea. So a girl who can do anal is a rarity - not the norm.

    Oral is similar in that there is an art to it and slobbering like a bulldog on a bone does not a good "blowey" make.

    Straight sex is something that more or less makes a relationship. Something like 80% of relationship breakdowns are down to one or both partners not being able to perform to the others sexual appetite.

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  • Here's how i view oral, vaginal, and anal; why I like them
    Oral: definitely the loosest hole, I mean probably the widest one on your body. Yet, it has a tongue in it. That's what makes it pleasurable. The tongue can do things to the penis that are unique to the mouth.
    Vaginal: tight, wet and warm. Better than the mouth because it's tighter and warmer, but about as wet. It also contracts at times which makes it better. It doesn't have a tongue, but it doesn't need one.
    Anal: tight. That's the only reason to like anal. It's the tightest hole. Even when you're inside it's still tight, because the sphincter muscle is designed to squeeze tightly at all times.

    • Awesome explanations, thank you!!!

Most Helpful Girl

  • You can’t say all men are obsessed with anal, there are a lot of men out there who aren’t into anal sex and genuinely hate it! my men is one of those men. We tried anal once but he is someone who prefers vaginal sex a least with me I've given him opportunity to do anal again but he ends up always vaginally ducking me

    • Wow... see i didn't know this, I was wondering if there are any men who dont love anal. Interesting!

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  • Definitely vaginal. I never have and will never do anal. The thought is just totally disgusting.

  • It's not that one necessarily feels better than the other. Oksy anal is feels pretty good when the women isn't all up tight about it and she gets into it..

    But when a woman does anal, it just increases the sexy tenfold. As most women don't do it. Just because a guy wants to have anal don't get twisted we love vaginal but give the opportunity, since ansl is much harder to come by we will always choose anal.

  • Vaginal sex is better.
    Dames have not wanted my whole dick in the ass and besides, it's a sphincter, people need it for yeeting poop.

  • Vaginal is better for me, I do think it feels better. I do like anal too. I like what you said about it being more kinky , we tried it because we felt like being adventurous, so that was part of the turn on. We mix anal in for a change, but the preference is vaginal

  • Anal has a tightness that is outstanding. It pulls the skin back as you enter giving extra sensation to the act. But that often means the guy has a fantastic orgasm, but the experience is over too fast. For that reason, I much prefer vaginal to be able to enjoy the session longer, and to be able to last to give her the best pleasure.

  • My wife loves anal. It’s so sexy when an older woman (69 yo) wants her younger husband (31 yo) to give her hard, fast, and intense anal. We do vaginal as well. Every time we have sex, we end it with me cumming inside her.

  • Vaginal any day. I prefer the front door

  • Both feel good, but i prefer vaginal.

  • People will say anal is tighter but that's also only true because we do it less often. If were going by what is tighter is what feels best, then simply whichever the girl does less of. Although it is also true that anal has a "texture" to it that somehow feels more like fucking. But thats probably because I only ever use my precum as lube, which is limited in volume - real lube in copious amounts would likely make things slippery enough to override that texture.

    But neither can compare to a blow job if she knows what she's doing. The whole thing with a blow job is the girl has complete control of the tightness around ever single inch of the dick.

    • Oh, I meant to say, tightness isn't everything, though. Like dick size it's important that tightness falls in a certian range, but apart from that it means very little. The thing that is most important to guys is that the girl responds as we want her to when we do the things we want to do to her. Anal is odd in that butts are obviously sexy to look at and the orifice shape is a little simpler to understand. When a guy puts it in a girl's butt he wants it to feel as good to her butt as it does to his dick. And the reason guys want this is because that is, in fact, what's going on with the male, butthole. We've all pooped and so we all know there are sex nerves back there, for men. We aren't sure if that's the case for women but that's where porn comes in. We watch a porn that shows a girl taking it in the ass and responding exactly as we imagine women would and that's enough to catalyze our interests - note porn isn't the source of our interests, just an amplifier. It may not occur to us until much later that the woman in the porn was acting, being an actress and all.. So, all that said, men tend to go for the reaction they want and anal seems easier to understand at first. Vaginal sex takes some getting used to before we can fully buy that it affects a girl as she indicates (tightness can speed this up). But with anal we can have preconceived notions. If you kind of let everything happen and respond naturally chances are over time you and the guy you are with are going to merge your preferences and both liking things somewhere in the middle.

    • I thought you were all into anal. Maybe I’m thinking of someone else.

    • I absolutely am. But I suppose as I discovered far fewer women are into it than I hoped I had to gain some perspective on why that might be if I ever wanted to convince a girl to try. That hasn't worked out, either, but at least it was an excuse to think of girls thinking of butt sex.

  • I like both, and anal sex is a little special, feels different and it's a bit taboo, but I wouldn't replace vaginal sex with anal sex regularly. Hard to say which is better, it's like a blowhob is great but it's not better than vaginal sex, just a different sensation. Variety is the spice of life.

  • I've tried anal once for all of a minute before my partner threw in the towel. Didn't even get to thrusting yet. That said, based on that experience I dont understand all the hype. Would it feel good had we tried a little longer? Maybe

    Overall, I think it's the forbidden fruit aspect. I think the idea of it is why men like it more than the feeling itself

  • Vaginal definitely. Never had a desire for anal, although if the woman wants it, I'll do it... for her... doesn't do much for me that a Fleshlight would do.

  • Anal is nasty to me. I have no desire for it.

  • front door.
    back door to mix it up once in a while or upon request.

  • No matter what I would like vaginal sex from behind I'm not into anal up the bum

  • 😈 Anal! 🎂

  • When I fuuck a chic in the Azz it's really because it's the ULTIMATE in conquering her.

    It's one of those taboos that most women don't really want to do, but if she lets you fuuck her in the Azz, you know she thinks of you as being too hot to resist.

    Sometimes I do it just to be a prick. If I see her as below a 7 (out of 10) in looks or she has small T! ts, I know she'll be insecure enough to let me do whatever the fuuck I want. And once you destroy her Azz, she'll let you do ANYTHING ELSE you want.

  • i prefer pussy. it may sometimes feel a bit less tight which i think is cause many girls are never told how to properly have sex. like you're supposed to use the muscles you have down there and not just lie flat and spread eagle like some dead starfish.

    though having said that, i emotionally very much prefer having my dick in her vagina and also i kind of think that the necessary preparation for anal (douching so i don't litterally get shit on my dick) is kind of too much of a hassle.

  • First, I've never had anal. The ass of a girl is always sexy, not sticking my dick where things are only supposed to exit. And more sexy than that is seeing me go in and out, in and out of her.

    Vaginal.

  • Vaginal.

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