Single girls here who are are horny, do you still want to find a meaningful relationship?

There is a lot of educational sex talk here and there seems to be quite a few single women in their 20’s mid-late who are horny and want to discharge their passion. This is healthy and natural. Nothing to be ashamed about or that anyone should shame them for.

But with all that sex desire and drive, is there the need or desire to want to be loved and cherished too? Any desire to find a guy who will treat you right, have deep meaningful conversations with, and make love to you, be your SO, possibly marry, etc?
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  • I would love to someday have a loving and meaningful relationship with my special someone. I would love to someday get married and start my life with not only my other half of my heart but my best friend. To be with someone who I can be goofy with and go on adventures with and just make wonderful memories with. I would love to be with someone who i can have a beautiful family with. Be with someone who I can stargaze at night and make love underneath the stars. I want to be with someone that no matter what happens we'll be able to get through it. I want to marry my best friend, my other half, my knight in shining armour.

    • This is a wonderful answer. I love to hear a woman who has it as a goal to find happiness through true love. Women crave love but are scared now days because it’s risky to go there and then be abused or neglected, or just used for sex as an object. Sex is a worthy and wonderful act but if you as a person aren’t valued, it isn’t good at all. Love and sex are amazing and should be done all the time. But sex without love is destructive to feelings and self worth.

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  • I’m not really horny, but I do miss the intimacy I had with my ex.
    I miss the feeling of being loved and treated right, not just about sex. I still want a relationship that is meaningful and committed.
    I could easily go out and hookup, but what’s the fun in that if I have no emotional connection to them? It’s boring and I don’t get pleasure from screwing random dudes I don’t love or know.

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  • I am fortunate to have found my "one" and very much look forward to our future (marriage, family, etc)

  • I think it is best to get married first, and then have sex. there are many ways to get married. sometimes depending on the situation all you need to do is get a small wedding with friends and family and a white dress and like a nice dinner or lunch. sometimes, all you need to do is get a Legal Certificate. sometimes all you can do is say your vows to each other.

    of course a beautiful and glamorous wedding is every girl's dream, but sometimes a Legal Certificate and a Vow between Lovers is enough, at least it means there's commitment, love and responsibility.

    I wouldn't like to sleep around with more than one man in this life.

  • Perhaps, but I'm also okay if I never find anyone. I won't settle for the wrong person.

    • That’s completely reasonable. How do you see as the best way to meet and vet the right person

    • So far the best luck I have, has been with being setup by friends who know both of us and think we'll get along great. Online dating or meeting people seems to be the worst. Meeting people in person is decent too, get to know and talk to them a bit.

    • I wish you the very best in that endeavor and honest/worthy search. Every girl deserves happiness but I agree it must be the right person from the get-go as the wrong person is sure to cause pain and misery.

  • i do but i enjoy short term things until then

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  • "... discharge their passion". Yes, "discharging" is something I can definitely relate to ;P

    • Like a tea kettle letting off steam and ready to explode 😝

    • Yes! Exactly. ;P

  • A lot of girls want both

  • Well, yeah - I don't know about marrying, but overall, yes.
    I don't do hook-ups or ONSs.

    I haven't had sex for 11 months because I wasn't ready for a relationship.