What holds me back the most is that majority of guys who wants hook ups are selfish and do not care about pleasuring me (unless I would be able to cum in less than 5 minutes or so xD). Unfortunately I cannot just take what I want from a man, much of what I like about sex is what the man do to me. Almost all men on sites where I was seeking sex says they looove to pleasure the women, no one will admit that it is not their thing, so really have to meet and have sex to tell. So takes some time and need some luck to find someone who is fitting, and just have mediocre sex until then. Been there done that.
Besides I do need to relax to enjoy sex fully and I cannot do that with all men I meet from day one, though sometimes it is just amazing from the start. But more often it takes at least a handful of times to get it to be really awesome.
Several things and all of the things that you mentioned really.
But also that, sex is not guaranteed to be satisfactory with someone random.
Also, I prefer to know the person I sleep with, to care about them and they me. To trust each other and have a connection.
I'm not even comfortable kissing around either.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Nothing! I happily engage in a ton of sex with many men (mostly strangers for hookups). I think most girls I've talked to are scared or their reputation tho. Protection fixes most of the other worries (even tho it's less fun). I think if you are just able to not worry about your reputation or keep it more secretive from those it would bother you if they knew (family, friends, co-workers, etc.) You'd be able to comfortably have copious amounts of sex.
I had trouble finding a potential partner in general and that stopped me from hooking up
No connection.
It's morally unethical is the closest to my point of view. It is morally unethical and there are reasons for this which include all the other reasons mentioned in this poll.
Mostly being self conscious of my body, my fat tummy mostly.
I just can’t do it with someone I don’t feel an emotional connection with. I have only done it with long term boyfriends that I planned to have a future with. But of course things don’t always work out lol. I just can’t go around sleeping with tons of people, it would make me feel worse. It doesn’t even give me pleasure if I do it with random people or someone I don’t love. I am not a very open person and I take my body’s privacy very seriously.
I’m a very horny person but I’m super selective about who I sleep with. I have only slept with 4 people in total (2 friends with benefits, 2 boyfriend), it’s very difficult for me to be sexually attracted to someone but when I meet that person then bam it’s sex 24/7. I can be physically attracted to someone but not enough to sleep with them so yeah
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