I really want to start having sex in college but I’m just not a very social guy? How can I improve my chances? Are there safe ways I can ask for sex?
I feel much less irritated and stressed out by people than I did before.
But at the same time though, I am still introverted. I have always preferred spending most of my time alone which obviously is very self limiting in terms of my likelihood of getting sex.
But of all the guys I know that have ever gotten sex before they’ve either been in a relationship or are very social or otherwise tall and athletic.
As much as some people believe, it isn’t ever as simple as just looking decent and being a good person as my mom and dad always taught me.
I’m both of those things and it hasn’t gotten me anywhere.
And I can’t try and force myself into changing. I can’t make myself like other things that I have no interest in, just so I can hopefully become more desirable. Those said things being socialization and sports
It’s called being fake, it won’t ever work, and women can smell the desperation from a mile away. I’ve tried it before and all it did was make me really insecure about myself.
I feel most comfortable just being myself instead of trying to pretend to be somebody that I am not.
Certain things will never interest me and I can’t make myself like something just to improve my chances of sex.
So what I need are more realistic solutions, if there are any.
If I have to completely change myself as a person, it is just not realistic. But if there’s smaller things I can do that go a long way, I am all ears.
Another huge problem is also just the idea of asking in general.
As an autistic man who doesn’t understand social etiquette and behaviors, it just isn’t a question I feel comfortable asking.
Not because I’m afraid of rejection, but because I’m afraid of retribution
Girls can always report me to campus police for harrassment if just my mere asking a question were to make them uncomfortable. Or they could tarnish my reputation with everybody.
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