Will my boyfriend mind if I don't show him my breasts?

[Anonymous]

So I absolutely hate my breasts. I dislike every single thing about them, and sometimes I'm scared they are far from 'average,' but I'd rather not list everything I hate about my boobs on here. I'm very anxious to show them to my boyfriend due to my insecurities, so I straight up don't show them to him. But I feel like I'm robbing him from some sort of 'experience' by keeping my boobs hidden from him. The worst part is that when we eventually decide to 'do it,' I still refuse to let him see them, and I feel like he's going to want to see them during the deed

Do guys mind if their girlfriend won't show him her breasts? And is there anything I can do to get over my insecurities bit by bit?

[MotorcycleMan]

Very few of us are built in the socially accepted version of "perfect". It's ok. It's all about learning to be OK with who you are. We are often our own worst critics. While you may feel that he will be turned off because you are not perfect, he may feel turned on simply by the fact that you are willing to share with him. Let him know you are self conscious. Maybe you can keep your bra on, but really he needs to accept you for who you are (and so do you). Hopefully it won't get in the way of enjoying a loving time together.

[Ineverquit]

yes i would say you can do something to get past it. Send me picture and tell me what you see and ill tell you what i see, bet your just being to hard on your self so i can just tell you , your fine. your enough your perfect. god made us and he don't make mistakes. so allow your self to enjoy your relationship and trust your man and he will take care of your insecurities as he will assure you that you are as amazing as he I'm sure tells you that you are. bet he likes you way you are, have a great day and trust me he thinks you hung the moon and stars. did you

[Rob70]

Tell him how you feel. Then when the time comes instead of being totally naked wear either a sexy bra or a light weight cami type shirt or something like that. He will be just as excited by that.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, I would feel VERY bothered by a woman who kept her boobs hidden from me. I means that she doesn't trust me enough to accept her as she is and that perhaps I will laugh at her or recoil in horror when I see her boobs. What an insult to me! Why don't you start wearing sheer bras in his presence when you are fooling around and he can see them gradually.

Just what in the hell is so wrong with your boobs, anyway? Inverted nipples? Small boobs? Huge areolas?

[Sirenboobzilla]

I used to be insecure about mine. Growing up my 'friends' would pick on me saying they were too big and boys wouldn't like them. So I had my issues. Wasn't until I let my first boyfriend at 14 see and touch them that I figured out that those 'friends' were full of shit.

Personally, if you feel that strongly you should talk to him. Let him know how you feel about them. He's very likely to understand and assure you that he will not think there's anything wrong with them. And you should take his word for it. If he likes you for you, then every inch of your body would be seen as precious.

Sometimes you just gotta rip that bandaid off too and jump in the deep end.

[jshm2]

Ack, you're being a boob yourself.

Not saying you need to let them puppies swing free. But things are not as bad as your body dysmorphia is making you seem it is.

Get yourself some therapy and move on.

[TadCurious]

He'll be really disappointed because I can almost guarantee you that he won't judge your breasts the way you do. There's a huge range of normal variation with breasts and they're sexy and attractive with all different sizes and shapes. So I would encourage you to try to work on becoming more accepting about your own breasts because there's no one way that they have to look to be perfectly fine.

[Albino010]

He is the perfect person for you to become more secure with your breasts, explain to him your situation and open up to him little by little until you feel completely comfortable.

[Dargil]

Yes, he will. He wants to see all of you.

[exitseven]

He will probably wonder about it after a while. He likes you and will like your breasts.

[Massageman]

I would think he would be more turned off by avoiding the subject than letting him see, touch, and suck for himself.

[amartna]

I see where you're coming from but I'll echo what the other guys are saying: tits are tits, and unless he's a jackass he'll like seeing them for what they are.

[genericname85]

yes, he absolutely will. even if you hate them. because that means you're not really going to be intimate. would you like it if he would just not show you a part of his body, cause he just doesn't like it, even if that's like your favourite part to see?

[Titanic1912]

Come on honey! Every guy is anxious to see his girlfriend’s boobs. That’s one part of your body that guys like to see and it’s the best part of the body that can keep his penis hard.

[Iron_Man]

Let’s put it this way if you’re having sex with another man of course he’s gonna wanna see every ounce of you

[ewok737]

I don't think he will mind, only one way to find out try it.
Try a wardrobe malfunction and see what his reaction is, go from there.

[bootea]

Sorry but you should work on self love
2. True man will appreciate other aspects of you and your body dont worry 😉

[Jamie05rhs]

So don't show them to him. No big deal.

Bodily insecurity is completely understandable; it affects a lot of people. This is just something that is going to take time. Maybe in a year or two you can show your boobs to him. Who knows? I would encourage you to just keep an open mind about it. But there's no rush!

[Wise4myage]

I would mind.

[joeldalton]

yes, he will mind. It would be a deal-breaker for me.

[jasco]

He likes your boobs fam so don't worry about them.

[Twalli]

Guys like boobs, he'll like your boobs. Heck I bet the majority of guys on here would love to see them.