Guys, is it okay if your girlfriend hides her belly during sex?

[Anonymous]

I am currently on a weight loss journey and know I’ll have loose skin. I’m trying to reduce the severity by having an intense body care routine. My first priority is getting a breast lift (no implants), but I know it’ll take awhile to save to get a tummy tuck. If I have sex one day, I’ll likely wear a corset, lingerie or a shirt to hide my upper body. I can’t trust a guy to see me completely topless because I know it’ll be a turn off no matter how much he likes me. It is best to wear something to cover myself to save me embarrassment and preventing him from being turned off.

Updates:

[dustybiker]

My friend in taekwondo lost half her weight before joining class. We have supported her through each surgery she’s had to remove excess skin. She’s an incredible fighter, it’s no easy recovery.
She also has an amazing husband, who she met during the process. I don’t think she could have done it without him.
I would tell an SO. You are either accepted fully by someone you love or they aren’t the person meant for you. It’s a way of finding someone really great. Just be honest. As difficult as that is. It paid off for my friend. They are adorable together.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you have some body image psychological issues, have you spoken with a counselor?

[Anonymous]

A corset is a huge turn on for me. So, I’d have no issue with a girl wearing one during sex. I’ll even buy her a variety of ones I like if she’ll wear them.

[joeldalton]

No, it isn't ok. You’re more concerned about your insecurities than you are about fucking. I’m there to fuck.

[Anonymous]

Some guys have a belly fetish, so they really won't care if you have lose skin or not. I wouldn't worry too much about it really

[matts_back]

I don't want to date a woman that has lost weight and has loose skin period. If she is chubby that is fine, but loose skin is awful.

[andy530]

I personally hate this