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Why do white men have a shameless fetish for east Asians?

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  • I'm not sure which part of your question is more racists here.

    That all of us "white men" have a thing for Asian women, or that anybody who likes Asian women have a "shameless fetish" for them.

    You just shat on not just two races but two genders, and all at the same time. That's talent.

    For the record, I'm white. Also for the record, I don't have a "shameless fetish" towards Asian women, or any particular race of woman for that matter. I have found many women from different races and backgrounds to be attractive, just as I find some not so attractive. What I find attractive or not has never had any correlation towards someone's skin tone or racial traits.

    If your argument is based on the fact many porn sites have an 'Asian' category (only far fetched reason why I can think of why you brought this up) well, that doesn't make sense either... Because there's also categories for Ebony (Black/African Women), Red Head and Blonde (White) and so on. And porn sites are viewed by more than just us "white men."

    Look, do some guys have a preference or 'fetish' for Asian women? Sure. But generalising all white men as having this "shameless fetish" is pretty damn ignorant.

    So where exactly is this coming from? Is it because you got turned down by a guy or two because you're not Asian, or because a guy or two you know were caught by you, watching Asian porn?

    Either way, I can sense the bitterness within your words. I can accept you being a bit pissed off over personal experiences with a guy here and there who's possibly jerked you around or rejected you, but you're not going to win any friends by shitting on all White Guys or implying liking Asian Women is wrong.

    • It's not called a preference if someone is prejudiced.

    • Who's prejudice? An example for context? How is it not a preference. Am I being prejudice for not finding other guys attractive and not wanting a relationship with one? Or better yet, I must be prejudice against trans women since I don't have interest in being with one. That implies there's some unwritten rule that I "should" give guys or trans women a chance, otherwise I'm prejudice. No, this is who I am. This is my life. These are the things my brain tells me I like and I don't when it comes to relationships and intimacy. It is MY choice, not theirs and not yours. You can't guilt someone into being in a relationship with you or someone else. A girl may not want to have a relationship with me because I'm too tall, or my hair is red, etc. Should I guilt them into being with me? How long would that relationship last and would it even be a good relationship? Probably not. If some girl wants to be with someone else and not me because of some physical trait I have or don't have, so be it. They're not worth my time and I'd move on. But I'm not going to pull the race card over it.

  • I would say there's a lot of truth in that statement, just by observing pop culture. However, to play Devil's advocate for a second, Asker sounds salty asf 🤣 I mean damn, so what if they don't find you attractive? Move on to the next one. I mean really? How hard can that be? That's an insecurity on your part that you need to fix, and you're just projecting on Asian women.

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  • A lot of Asian women see white men as richer so they look to them as providers. I think this can make white men feel more powerful which of course they enjoy. Or maybe they just have similar more traditional values generally - but that could just be a stereotype since myself and all of my white female friends have similar values - never slept around, are married long term etc.

  • Not cool to shame people for finding other races and cultures attractive

    • People do it to me for liking white men so..

    • And how does it make you feel when they do that to you?

    • @sirenboobzilla my thoughts exactly. It always baffles me that people don’t think “oh wait, I don’t like that so I’d never do it to others.” Instead of “Hey, let’s spread more hate because that’s best for me, screw everyone else.” It’s a real sad society sometimes with a lack of decency and maturity.

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  • Why would they be ashamed of it? You don't choose what you're attracted to.

  • If a Caucasian man dates a Causasian woman, is tha a shameless fetish for white women?

    • No because they are the same type.

    • Does every Caucasian man who dates an oriental woman have an Asian fetish?

  • Lol, a lot don't but okay

    • Many do.

    • and? so what? why should they be "shamed" or be ashamed of something like a preference that affects nobody else?

    • It affects others.

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  • They don’t

    it’s made up shit by a racist

  • People have preferences. Boiling things down to racial stereotypes is just ain racist

  • They don't. It is obvious from your question coupled with your comments to people here that you are ridiculously racist!

  • Well considering Im with one now , and have done little else ( although not completely true ) for the last 20 years - Yes , although " shameless fetish " is not the wording Id use , massive attraction for sure. Its just vastly different..

    • It's shameless that you have this fetish.

    • Its not a fetish , I prefer Asian women and have so for a long time , not a fetish at all , a clear choice.

  • Erm, we don't.

  • What's wrong, did you lose your glasses?

    • Why do white men have a shameless fetish for east Asians?

  • Are we talking about all or some?

  • I don't.

  • Well, East Asian women usually take care of their bodies, aren't as prone to anti-white male leftism, manage their money well and many actually seem to like white guys. Makes sense to me that white guys would like that.

  • Probably because more Asian women have good morals, are family oriented, etc. I like Hispanic women the most because of my experiences with them. Sure some White women are still okay, but way too many of them have liberal morals (they are promiscuous, dishonest, support criminals, support recreational drug use, drink heavy, are selfish and greedy, etc.) Again not all, but a lot of White women are that way, especially in liberal California where I grew up.

  • It's not shameless. It's just an attraction.

  • I've been wondering this for so long.

  • So I take it Japan solved their baby problem by cloning only their most attractive women then? Kudos on talking to every white male on earth by the way, thats dedication.

  • Has it ever occurred to you that it's perhaps only something you see through your racist tinted glasses?

  • why should they feel shame for their sexual preference? would you like being shamed for whatever it is you particularly like in a sexual way?

  • You should not be restricted to your own race, for marriage or liking someone. You love you who you love. I get hell for dating outside if my race, butI just move on

  • I do have a thing for Asian women for many reasons. For all my reasons majority of them are like this in my opinion. Most are shorter then me, have long sexy black hair, slim petite bodies, parents raised them well, appreciate their man, don't play immature mind games, take care of their man automatically, extremely loyal, put a lot of effort into a relationship, very supportive, have a cute face, and like anime.

    This is from my experience knowing many Asian women in my life and been in relationships with them. 2 out of the country and 2 in USA. These reasons mixed in with many other traits and qualities they had were why I dated them. I'll admit their looks alone are what draw me to them the most, then going further of course depends on their unique personalities.

    I've also dated white girls, a Puerto Rican half Hawaiian, and many others. They also had similar qualities. But I'm drawn to Asian women the most by default, I can't help it lol 😊

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