Why do I see so many guys on GAG expecting women to be submissive?
Is this purely a romanticized notion for disillusioned men who turn to online forums to vent their frustration at romantic failures? This was my initial feeling, but I see so many. Variations on statements like “I will lead because I am a man”, “women need to submit to their men” are quite common online versus in reality.
In reality I see people just being people according to their individual strengths and capabilities, which is always a give and take from partners in a variety of ways. Are there situations where one partner is dominant? Yup. But I don’t see it as a rule. I’ve always been leaned on for a lot of the decision making in my relationships. I’ve even had some scenarios where I tried to get the partner more invested in partaking in the process. I am not dominant, I am just confident and secure in handling my life. I prefer people on a similar level to myself, without power differentials.
What is your take on it?
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