Girls, Would you tell your friends if you were hooking up with a guy for the first time and he lost his hardon?

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ushagomez Master
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That’s for us to know …. and for u to worry about ….
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- Asker
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  How could we not worry
- ushagomez
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  I’m teasing. I would never betray in that way.

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loves2learn Master
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I might tell a good friend. Not yo be mean but to ask for help or advice.
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- Asker
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  Since we go to college together I’m worried she told our classmates
- loves2learn
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  I mean it’s possible. Has this happened to you before? Do you think it was performance anxiety?
- Asker
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  No it’s never happened before, this was our first time hooking up and she said she’s likes it rough and wanted me to slap her in the face, I did it kinda likely but then she kept saying do it harder, it was weird at first but I did it, then she smacked my butt hard and squeezed my nuts
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- loves2learn
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  Well that’s understandable geez. I sucked my husband’s nuts too hard once and he lost his hard on too.
- Asker
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  Ouch! I bet that hurt, but I’m worried she will tell her friends that I couldn’t get it up
- loves2learn
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  Yes it did. Sounds like what she did hurt too. If it comes back to you you could just tell them she squeezed your nuts hard and it hurt.
- Asker
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  And you think the girls would understand? I know going soft isn’t the best look the first time you hook up with someone
- loves2learn
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  I know I would. That girl sounds kinda psycho. I don’t blame you for losing it.
- Asker
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  Because she likes it rough? I’m not very sexually experienced but I thought that was kinda common for girls
- loves2learn
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  There is a difference between rough and sadistic. I like it hard and fast. I do not like to be slapped and I would never squeeze my man’s nuts.
- Asker
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  I didn’t mind when she slapped me in the butt, although it did kinda catch me off guard, she said she likes the feeling she gets when she has a guys balls in her hand
- loves2learn
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  That sounds really sadistic. I mean that is the most tender part of a guy’s body. Gotta be gentle.
- Asker
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  Hah it is, but I always thought the penis tip was the most sensitive!
- loves2learn
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  Both are sensitive but grabbing a guy by the balls is gonna take him down.
- Asker
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  That was the first time anything like that has happened to me. Do u think that’s taking it too far even for liking rough sex?
- loves2learn
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  Yes. She took it tooooo far.
- Asker
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  When you said you’d tell your friends he lost his Hardon, what would you have told them in a situation like this?
- loves2learn
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  She sounds opposite of me so I have no idea. I have no idea why sadistic girls do the things they do.
- Asker
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  I’m just worried she’ll tell her friends I couldn’t handle it and got soft
- loves2learn
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  If she does that would be an exaggeration. I don’t think most guys could “handle” having their balls squeezed.
- Asker
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  She did it hurt a handjob which was feeling amazing and as soon as she squeezed I fell to the bed in pain
- loves2learn
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  That really sucks. I’m sorry.
- Asker
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  She’s a really tiny girl but pretty feisty, that’s why it’s kinda embarrassing I couldn’t handle her
- loves2learn
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  Doesn’t matter how tiny she is. Squeezing your nuts is game over.
- Asker
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  Hah yeah learned that the hard way, that’s the first time I’ve ever been touched there before
- Asker
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  We’ve been texting and she apologized saying she might’ve done it too hard
- loves2learn
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  That’s good. Will you give her another chance? 😬
- Asker
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  I think so, I’m not opposed to being rough with her but it’s hard to know what’s too hard. She wanted me to slap her hard in the face
- loves2learn
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  If I were you I would suggest going there gradually. Like maybe start with some doggy and spanking her ass, no ball squeezing. And as you get to know each other the other stuff will come. Starting all out with the rough is a bit much.
- Asker
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  Why doggy? I like spanking her ass! I want her to play with my junk though
- loves2learn
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  Easier to spank her ass. If she’s gonna play she needs to be gentle lol
- Asker
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  I thought the ass slapping was kinda hot. What do u think she meant by she’s like the feeling of having a guys balls in her hand
- loves2learn
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  That’s cool. I think she likes the power dynamic. Like the control she has when she’s got you by your balls.
- Asker
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  But if she likes that why would she want me to choke her?
- loves2learn
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  She likes the power dynamic of you both being dominant at the same time.
- Asker
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  Hah I guess, I could really hurt her by choking her! That’s serious
- loves2learn
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  Sounds like she gets off on the risk. But yeah I don’t usually recommend things like that until a trusting relationship is built.
- Asker
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  I did it very lightly since I’ve never done anything like that before, she was playing with my penis at the time which was super hard, then she squeezed my balls and I let go and went down
- loves2learn
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  I think you and her need to have some ground rules before next time.
- Asker
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  Do you think it’s risky to slap her hard?
- loves2learn
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  I’d make 100% sure that is what she wants first
- Asker
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  Well yeah she asked me to slap her and I did it super gently and she kept saying harder
- loves2learn
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  I think you and her should talk before your next sexual encounter and get on the same page first.
- Asker
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  Good idea I told her to be lighter than next time she touches my junk
- loves2learn
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  Good plan. You got this. Next time will be better.
- Asker
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  Thanks!
- loves2learn
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  Anytime! Feel free to follow me and pm me if you like. I’m happy to help when I can. :)
- Asker
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  Thank you! We’re gonna meet up tonight, I told her I’d be willing to be rough with her but wanted to take it slow. She said she won’t grab me as hard this time but will do it in a playful way
- loves2learn
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  Awesome! Sounds like a good plan. Have fun!
- Asker
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  She just joked that she still wants to be a little rough with me, should I be scared?
- loves2learn
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  I dunno watch your balls I guess lol
- Asker
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  She said she wants to nibble on my penis too
- loves2learn
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  Damn she needs to be gentle
- Asker
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  That sounds worse than a grab doesn’t it? Especially if it’s around the tiip
- loves2learn
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  Could be worse if she isn’t careful
- Asker
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  She said I could squeeze her boobs
- loves2learn
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  Squeezing your nuts and biting your dick are worse
- Asker
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  I can grab pretty hard, for a small girl her boobs are big
- loves2learn
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  Squeezing nuts will still take you down lol
- Asker
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  I just learned that the hard way, she told me to squeeze her boobs, and I started doing it kinda lightly, then she kept saying harder and harder, and I increased pressure, then she grabbed my nuts and squeezed and I went down so fast and she couldn’t stop laughing
- loves2learn
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  Well shit. I take it your second try didn’t go so well?
- Asker
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  The thing is I was squeezing her boobs really hard and she liked it but it didn’t seem to hurt her that much but as soon as she squeezed my nuts it hurt so bad and I collapsed. I really thought boob squeezes hurt girls
- loves2learn
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  Not at all the same as nut squeezes
- Asker
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  Do girls like boob squeezes? Doesn’t it hurt? She seems to like it when I went harder and didn’t seem to be bothered by it at all. I was squeezing her pretty hard but as soon as she grabbed me I collapsed
- loves2learn
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  Boobs can take a lot more than nuts. You could do a titty twister
- Asker
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  But do girls like when you grab their boobs that hurt? I wasn’t squeezing the nipple. Lol yeah I learned the hard way, she said she only did a playful squeeze
- loves2learn
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  I don’t really like them grabbed hard
- Asker
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  But girls like light squeezes right? And for them to be played witj
- Asker
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  She also said it’s more fun to grab jocks like that
- Asker
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  We hung out again and it went a lot better, I went down on her and she loved ig

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Anonymous
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Yes, probably.
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- Asker
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  What would you tell them? She apparently likes it rough and wanted me to slap her in the face, and then she squeezed my nuts which made me go soft
- dustybiker
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  @asker Sounds like you need to have an adult conversation on what you both like and don’t like.
- Asker
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  @dustybiker im not opposed to trying the rough sex, I’m pretty sexually inexperienced it was just new to me. I was a little cautious slapping her but she kept telling me to do it harder: and she was not gentle when she squeezed me