No one can sexually please her?

Me n my girlfriend have a bad sex life. She complains that I can’t sexually please her. She’s told me certain things I have to do and I’ve tried. Yet she still complains. So I asked her what’s her best sexual experience. She told me that no man has ever sexually pleased her, because most men don’t know what to do in the bedroom. I’m wondering if she’s telling the truth or if she’s just messing with me.
No one can sexually please her?
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  • she can be telling the truth. Either you and who ever has tried hasn't done what she expects or likes or maybe you dont last long enough. It is also possible no matter what you do she won't like it as she may be to tense so she can't enjoy it , or maybe she has never really cum. Then again maybe she wants a horse dick , or maybe she wants a few dicks, and just maybe she don't want dick at all as she may want a woman and hasn't come to grips with it. Then again im thinking she just needs someone with experience to knock the bottom out it for her. So best of luck with that one. How is she otherwise. Picky person,. high maintenance. always right , you wrong, or normal and pleasant otherwise. if she is that way about everything in life then its her, if she isn't and this one thing she isn't happy either she is right or she is just needs a hard pounding by a horse if ya know what i am saying here. either way i guess if its good for you well you know what they say , fuck it.

  • I doubt she’s lying. It’s telling that “no man has pleased her.” My highest orgasms inducing move is going down on her. It’s an art to be sure. Knowing when to suck on it, lick it or give her a rest.

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  • Ask her to touch herself right in front of you so you can see what she likes. Then when you try to re-enact whatever she did, ask her to give exact directions and to guide you step by step. If she can’t/won’t do that then it just means she doesn’t know what she likes

    • You are spot on. girlfriend's I have had, did just THAT, and we masturbated together. No mistaking what I like, or what she likes, and I have talked to other girls, (in college) that said they did the same with their boyfriend (s) How else does she know/you know what the other one likes or wants?🤷‍♂️

    • @Bricealan exactly! Sex is like learning a whole different language or body language. No one really speak the same language when it comes to sex so u gotta actually show and guide ur partner physically. I’m glad you and your girl were able to learn each other’s preferences, that means you have a bomb ass sex life

    • Thanks. We did, but guess, what? She kicked me to the curb because I was not ready to get married. She went on to other men, at her job at Goodrich, and later came back to me, (6 months later) and basically said, in so many words that she was not happy in those relationships for the reasons we just discussed. She later married, and divorced, and said her husband was 'terrible'. I have regretted my decision to not marry to this day for the reasons you might understand.

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  • You have to ask her what does work for her and if she is willing to guide you. If she does than then she wants to make a go of it, if she won't then I think she is a lost cause.

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  • Sounds like she personally doesn’t know what she likes herself, so she blames it on the men that she’s with that they could never please her. How can a man please you, when you can’t even explain to him what pleases you?

  • Can't say whether she's lying or not. I can say that it's on her to be able to communicate to you what it is that she likes. If she doesn't know, then that isn't your fault.

  • i think she's telling the truth... but i think she's probably not really communicating her needs to you or any past partners for that matter. It takes two to tango, and your clearly trying to improve. is she trying to improve?

  • If she can't communicate what she wants / likes, then she probably doesn't know herself.

  • She’s being real. I think communication isn’t happening that good that’s why. You guys should have it more fun and romantic while she gets specific about it for you to understand what she really likes/dislikes

  • Orgasm is mostly psychological. It is very convenient for women who don’t know what they want/like or have other worries up there to blame everything on me. You could eat her out for 10 hours directly pleasuring the clit and she wouldn’t cum because she’s not psychologically there.

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  • Have you tried giving her oral?

  • Sounds like she needs to be the one to improve the situation as well

  • She's challenging you to try harder.

  • to tell the hard truth you should try to please her fast otherwise she will find someone to do it or she already has

  • First ask her is she really into you? Is she mentally stable these days? Anything going on with her or between you two which she hasn't spoken to you yet. It looks like she isn't enjoying your company overall and just acting to be happy and there for you.

    Some people can't stay longer with a single person... They are over them very soon.

  • I think that she’s telling the truth this is the case with a lot of women. I didn’t know how to cum during sex and that used to get me really frustrated but what helped me was learning how to touch myself while he’s on top

  • It might be time for you to move on.

  • Most older men do, however younger men may not know and their for ladies this is why you help out, don't just expect a man to know everything about what pleases you and expect him to be able to do it

  • Ask her to show you what she likes and try that, like a sex lesson for one if it shy ness use dim light

  • She might not know how to tell a man how to sexually please her, which leads to her never finding a man to do what she wants becuase she can't tell anyone

  • Probably true. Have you tried tying her up and beating her with a belt yet? Difficult girls to please generally like this kind of stuff and most men won't do it. So if she's like that it makes perfect sense.

  • May be she is right, only you and she knows, I am well experienced and now all the techniques with 9x5 inches cock, I did not receive any complaint from any girl about my sexual performance

  • It sounds like she is just bad at sex

  • Send her over here,
    Il make her cum til her eyes role in the back of her head.


    most guys dont know what they are doing.
    only a select few of us do

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