Is it really true that when a guy really loves a girl & has feelings for her, sex won't be the first thing on his mind?
I was just asking because I'm a bit confused. Don't basically all guys eventually want to have sex with a girl they have feelings for? because usually from what I've noticed, guys get feelings for girls they're attracted to at least, and obviously guys will always think about having sex with a girl they're attracted to.
So does the phrase suggest that guys are able to be happy in a relationship with a girl when they love her, even when there's no sex? or does it just mean that they do want sex with the girl they love, but are able to wait for the sex & be happy without wanting to rush to it?
out of the guys I've spoken to & been involved with, I've been able to tell which ones cared about me & actually had feelings for me, & I've been able to tell which ones only wanted sex. out of the ones that seemed to care about me, I noticed that they were all sweet to me & enjoyed having normal conversations with me, BUT they would always end up wanting sex with me or they wanted some sort of sexual favour from me. I used to talk to a guy that I was really compatible with & we had really good conversations & laughed together & everything, & sometimes he would help me with my homework back in high school, but then after helping me, he would always tell me I owed him something in return, & it was always me having to send him nudes or something as a way to say thanks or pay him for the help he gave me.
So does that mean they didn't really love or care about me? does that mean they were possibly only just being nice to me just to get something sexual from me at the end? or is it normal for guys to do this? are guys supposed to be happy to help you without asking for a sexual favour in return when they actually love you?
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