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Why are 30 and 30+ guys acting like they are teenagers?

All they want is to have sex and nothing else. Did they forgot to grow up past 15?
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  • Not all but the manchilds in their 30s act like teenagers, behave immature to attract minors or teenage girls. They are groomers and pedos. Stay away from them

    • Agreed I know a guy who is 30+ and has started acting really childish and lusting over young women trying extremely hard to fit in—he looks ridiculous

    • @TwinkleLily5 Are you just pissed off at him because he's not lusting after you?

    • Honestly guys your age act a lot more mature then guys age 29 and 30 .

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  • Because men aren't mature. They're mentally toddlers

    • you're just making yourself look stupid

    • well to be fair, you guys aren't very useful to us for anything else other than sex

    • @bean2k21 get a bigger vocabulary. You sound like a toddler😆🤣. See what I mean? What adult goes around saying ," stupid stupid stupid". Proved my point thank you

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  • Sex is the prime directive for our DNA. Sex is success, or as close as a sexually reproducing species comes to an approximation of objective success. Those who have sex the most are mathematically more likely to have progeny, and their DNA will be part of the next generation.

    This isn't just a new fad come along in the the 20s, this is the origin of our species, and the biological imperative for ALL sexually reproducing organisms. So much of what we think of as our own original thoughts and ideas are in fact not original at all, they are just results of the genetic drive our sexually reproducing DNA.

    These predictable thoughts and behaviors include your apparent revulsion as a female of your species at the wanton frivolity and immaturity of the males of your species, whom you desire to be convenient for your innate drives as a woman, to nest and "settle down", to have a dependable and responsible male committed to nurturing and supporting you as you gestate and produce progeny of your combined DNA. Of COURSE you are going to be bothered by it and wish that all men, or at least more men, were your definition of ideal, as a member of your species that requires a 9 month gestation period, and as a food source for the first 6-8 months, is usually the primary caretaker. Females are biologically disposed to the long game.

    Males on the other hand, have the same basic drives to propagate their DNA, but they have more options on how to do so. They can play the "quality over quantity" long game of carefully selecting a mate and dedicating their time, energy, and other resources to a single outcome. But they also have the option of "quantity over quality", of attempting to inseminate at every possible opportunity, irrespective of the long-term prospects.

    Now this is all from a biologically scientific perspective. Most humans don't think about it on this level, they just go about their business without introspection. For generation after generation, females bemoan the cheating and philandering, males continue to go "long" or "short", and of course there's plenty of cultural and religious taboos and guidance influencing decisions as well. An example being priests and nuns who go celibate and bear no offspring. The result of that being the next generation doesn't have that priest/nun DNA, and "survival of the horniest" continues.
    Another example, the now-extinct Shaker religion (whose beliefs included the lifelong practice of abstinence).

    Compare to Catholicism, which forbade birth control
    Compare to Catholicism, which forbade birth control
    https://www.youtube.com/embed/icmRCixQrx8

    The behaviors which are successful (more children), will continue to be more prevalent. This is the basic premise of evolution. So, it seems being "like teenagers" as you describe, is the most successful behavior for DNA to propagate. It certainly accounts for a goodly number of accidental pregnancies, "cuckoo's eggs", and heaps of single moms. Of course, it also takes two to tango.

    Whoops, maybe she tripped?
    Whoops, maybe she tripped?

  • it all comes down to our personalities.

    mens bodies may get older but our minds seem to lock into an age like 21 and dont move on from that. where as women from a young age try and act more mature than they are (looking after baby dolls etc) and they then mature too fast, thinking they are 30 and respectable when they are only 25 and need to be enjoying themselves.

  • Unfortunately, some people never mature past their high school years. There are guys who aren't like that out there, but they may be harder to find.

    I have noticed that casual sex seems to be becoming increasingly common these days as well, which may have something to do with it.

  • Not all do, but some do. Those that never really got to sexually experiment when they are young, now realized they are aging and want to go nuts.

    Some did, and just want to keep doing it.

    Some got divorced and now got stupid again.

    Sorry you've had such a pour experience with them, but I can relate.

    • This is probably the best answer. If you never get the time to mature in an area of life, you're not going to mature in that area of life.

    • @uwotm8e Yup and it isn't like you can figure it out easy on your own, you can kind of fake it but its easy to see through.

  • Some women have a hard time trying to figure out why men sometimes seem to always think about sex, sex, sex, instead of building a relationship. Probably because they always run into men trying to mate. While the other men, not looking to mate at that time are only focus on following after their purpose. And women might ask, "are men always thinking about sex"? The answer...

    No. You have a hard time reading men. We have a language different from women. It's called Manese. You women? Womanese. That's gender foreign language. Kinda like what Chinese is to English.

    And there's many things to decode here in man's language but let me at least decode one, the primal evolutionary built-in minds of the sex drive of men.

    Just so you know, men in their primal evolutionary built-in minds will always think about reproduction. They are more physical. This is why you see men always do physical stuff. Therefore, they are always thinking about the best physical partner possible for them. Not that they want children or anything. But subconsciously, it's deeply rooted in us to have sex, like we are wired to go to the restroom to take care of our private business there. Don't have to tell you what we do in the restroom. So with that said...

    Us heterosexual men are mentally stimulated by the physical appearance of the opposite sex, and therefore, want physical touch, smell, to taste, to see, hear, to feel, all the physical sensations of an opposite sex. Sure, we want to know if our mate meet certain character standards, but in the primal evolutionary built-in minds, we can't help but to be drawn to the physical appearance of the sexual appeal.

    Don't hate the bee for it's stinger.

    It's just the evolution of men.

    Now what separates us from other animals and sets us above the food chain, is the ability to reason with logic, not just with instinct. So look for someone who is on their purpose, not just on their penis. And you won't have that problem.

  • What do you have to offer besides sex? Do you like playing pool, water skiing, hiking? If you have no activities in common outside of sex, what else can you expect.

  • Man children

    • Grown and talented women need to stop messing with man children. I see it too much

    • so what should a man be doing at 30?

    • I’m not referring to all men, just some men. They’re usually childish in a sense they have a bad temper, don’t even help paying any type of bills around the house but still has the nerve to complain, etc type of bs

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  • They should be having sex at 15, but there's nothing wrong with sex at 30 .

    • Shouldn't*

  • Bugger, I’ve got to act like an adult, no one told me that, I assumed I could just piss around all the time.

    have I also go to take life seriously?

    this could be concerning, acting like an adult and taking stuff seriously.

    i wonder if I can have a refund.

  • Hey hey hey... that’s not all true.
    im 30 and feel I’m much more mature than I was even 5 years ago.

  • Personally I still behave like I'm in my 20's. I may be in my 50's but I would love to go to Ibiza again and spent the night in a club to the latest dance music.

    • That is awesome to read ! I encourage you to do it ! I bet all the people there would find it cool too

  • women are a utility. they don't serve really any other function other than to have sex with.

  • Oh, quite advanced then …

  • I like your question . But I would add and they suck at it when they do get it.

  • I WANT TO BE CLEAR THAT I DON'T MEAN ANY OFFENSE BY ANY OF THAT AND I'M SURE THAT WHEN YOU GET TO THE BOTTOM YOU'LL PROBABLY AGREE WITH ME!

    Because being an adult is also about learning to accept that other people might have different ways of having fun or blowing off steam...
    Personally I think honest polyamorus dynamic in a relationship is a very successful one should have the understanding that physical pleasure from another has nothing to do with the connection between a couple that's shared by their hearts minds & soul's!
    This also means an equal freedom for you as a woman and allows your partner to have space and better mental health as well as stops you both from suffocating each other and getting to the point of wanting to strangle each other...

    My advice is grow up, stop being insecure or in fear of anything...
    I don't even allow jealousy to be part of my vocabulary, in fact I'm so secure that I guarantee I flip could watch another man fuck my partner right in front of me & it wouldn't bother me (bigger or smaller) as I watched it fill her... In fact I would already be rock hard telling her to come slide that creamy pussy down on my cock and ride it...

    This is only an example but we need to raise men who understand how to treat women with respect instead of slut shaming or allowing our teens to grow up to be jealous of each other about sex at all..

    Raise them to be confident, secure, respectful, and not full of insecurities about sexually encounters or abilities to satisfy...


    This is how you teach your teens how to actually fuckin be an adult and help make the future better for your daughters who won't have to put up wit jealous guys who might beat em or worse...
    So that they can get a future with less slut shaming and more props on their digits when they increase along with her experience and skills on makin a dick she start 2 love star to throb, get sensitive, till it Spasms uncontrollably into orgasmic pleasure...

    Grow TF UP AND LOSE YOUR INSECURITIES BEFORE THEY CONTINUE TO SLOW DOWN OR STOP YOUR PURSUITS OF HAPPINESS...
    LOVE IS NOT THE EQUAL OF SEX!
    OR VICE VERSA
    LOVE IS LOYALTY TO HEART AND MIND NOT THE NERVES IN A MAN'S DICK OR A WOMAN'S VAGINA...
    AND INTAMASY IS SO MANY MORE THINGS THAT SEX ALL OF THOSE THINGS ARE STILL YOURS ALONE TO THAT MAN!
    CAUSE THEY ARE THE ONES THAT REALLY MATTER!

  • I'm 29 and still extremely horny. I usually have sex or masturbate everyday. It is part of being a guy. ... but we all are different.

  • Great 🍿 question! 👏 Some of the opinions in just three hours are priceless.

  • You might be looking in the wrong places. Delete tinder and get match. com or Christianmingle

  • Why's it bad when we do it but I powering when women do it?
    Sorry you girls slept around so much in your teens and early twenties that it lost all meaning to you, but most of us guys were being ignored and alone back then, now we have money, charm, perceived power, criminal records,, all the things that young dumb girls want, we are the guys they dated instead of us now so might as well get what we missed out on.

    Not our fault y'all got old and want to act old, don't want to fuck? OK go find some religious guy waiting for marriage or something.

    • it sounds like... YOU are the one who was ignored in HS and by this reply, you are still being ignored as a grown man. Rightfully so, you have some things to work through.

    • Yeah I was, lots of us guys are ignored, about 80% of us are ignored, so can't blame a guy for hooking up no strings attached. Sex first, serious relationship later, if that somehow offends you maybe you need to reevaluate the expectations you force on men.

  • Oh my god YES! I agree I am 28 and all guys age 29 and 30 seem to be stuck in highschool. My ex-husband he had recently turn 30 but he acts like a 15 year old. I mean seriously. Why can't 30 year olds act their age. I mean childhood is over. My ex still makes his mommy clean his apartment.

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