I took an 18 year old girls virginity and I’m 21 years old. is that really bad?

I felt bad afterwards. She was bleeding and all. She literally had on hello kitty underwear and is a high school senior. Ugh. I’m a college senior.
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  • Hold on, I need context. There's something missing, for example, did you make the move and she closed her eyes sometimes or did she cry at some point after or say that it hurt?

    Why did you have sex with her if you feel bad about it. Did you pressure her to do it?

    • Nope we agreed

    • Then you have nothing to fear? 👀 If she bled, did she say anything after the deed was done?

    • Nope, I just felt bad because she is still in high school

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  • So you both are technically adults. As long as she consented the whole time, then you're good. Some girls bleed during their first time. Maybe ask her how she feels next time.

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  • You clarified she consented, so with her being 18, legally you’re fine. That said, I think you have 2 problems.

    First, she’s in high school. She has the same maturity level as someone in grades 9-11. Don’t be surprised if her entire social circle and potentially grade level finds out she got laid doing a college guy and that college guy was you. In terms of consequence, that’s your issue. You’re now involved with a kid, even if she’s legal.

    Your second problem is you’re clearly riddled with guilt. You know what you did was shady at best. Your best course of action would really be to move on and stick with girls on your level (college, more independent).

  • Certainly not bad if she consented. Unless you were really rough.

  • Bleeding? Hello Kitty underwear? It sounds more like a fantasy to me, but if it is true, I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.

  • It's too late to ask if it's really bad. You can't unfuck her.

  • It sounds like you are not emotionally ready for sex tbh.
    That and zero compassion

  • dude she's in high school. just because she's 18, her mind is still a kid, she hangs out with kids. im disgusted rn. but honestly there's no point dwelling on it, learn and go for someone ur age.

  • As long as it was consensual and you were gentle no it is not bad. Did you use a condom?

  • 18 is a adult so don't feel bad about it

  • Its fine. That's just how it goes.

  • Almost the exact opposite of me. An 18 year old girl took my virginity when I was 24. she already had a 2 year old daughter.

  • I guess it's a little sketchy but she's 18. That is the legal age. You're fine there. As long as you both consented you're fine there as well.

  • Oh well generally it’s not a bad thing but if you’re feeling about it in particular maybe you felt pressured into it by society. Just let her know you’re sorry if it wasn’t comfortable to her or something.

  • If she wanted to have sex there's no problem

  • You don't have any problem don't worry :)

  • I've taken barely legal girls virginity and im in my 30s so no its fine.

  • That all depends on your situations. I was 20 and she was 18 and we were both in college; we had been dating casually for over 2 years. It progressed gradually and we both wanted it. Was that bad?

    • Age was a different situation then. Legal age was 21 and to get married without parental permission guys had to be 21 and girls had to be 18.

  • Was she tight?

  • The simple fact that you are asking this question shows that you have some severe guilt about your actions. That leads me to believe that you did this without being sure that you had her consent to do so. Otherwise, this thought would never cross your mind… You really need to do some introspection on just what kind of person you truly are.

  • Possibly. If you are having regrets then you more than likely.