When having sex what do women like guys to do to them? Is it better to build sexual tension? Do women get turned on from having their toes sucked?

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So maybe toe sucking isn’t every woman’s thing but I seen it done a few times in porn videos so I don’t really know for sure.

Maybe many more of them secretly want it but feel too afraid to ask.

Anyways, I’ve already explained my foot fetish before so if I was to open up to most women would they be like “yeah sure whatever you want”?

Cuz the way I see it if they been taking care of their feet they got nothing to feel subconscious about.

Anyways I just personally like the idea of not shoving my dick in right away.

It feels pleasurable to sustain erections for long periods of time.

In most of the videos I’ve watched before the guy puts the dick in the vagina, he’s usually having a girl suck his dick or he’s busy eating out her vagina.

But personally I feel as though I’d prefer to make a girl wet first and then have a blowjob later as a reward.

However I really want to last long enough to make her orgasm.

So when it comes to women is there a certain order and sequence in which they like guys to do things?

I understand many women will enjoy giving a guy blowjobs, but cunningulus seems to be the thing that always makes their pussies really wet.

And I’ve also noticed that sucking on their breasts seems to often do the trick as well.

But how do they feel about getting their toes sucked?

Is it pleasurable in any way to them?

I’ve heard that feet do have nerve endings, so perhaps maybe licking along the soles isn’t a bad idea?

Obviously pussy has the most nerve endings but the point is if a guy starts at the foot he can slowly work his way up and build anticipation to help turn the girl on even more.

Markm3212 · Accepted Answer

my personal experience is that most women do not like it. also its not my particular kink so does not do anything for me.

however, i did have a long term girlfriend in the past who did like it and asked me to suck on her toes, naturally i did oblige as it was something that she enjoyed and i believe that enjoyment is for both and even if its not my thing as long as it doesn't hit a hard limit i will oblige and i hope that the same is reciprocated.

i do wonder if maybe someone in her past had this particular kink/fetish and maybe she came to enjoy it, i dont know.

what i do know is, if you mention the word kink or fetish, most women get turned off. i find that the best way is to slowly introduce it to them, also i was once told that sex for a woman starts a long time before the action (e. g. in the morning) and is a feeling that builds during the day, where as us guys, we are visual and can get stimulated by sight and quickly.

so in your case i would recommend, maybe starting with, giving your SO a foot massage when they have had a hard day and been on their feet a lot, that will then make them appreciate the massage and maybe start to get them to feel like they like that feeling and associate it with love and care. then the more she enjoys the massages the more you can introduce it into the bedroom and what you like. hopefully, by this point it will hit pleasure receptors in her brain from the enjoyment of the massages and she will be more accommodating. i used this type of tactic for my particular kink.

slatyb · Accepted Answer

Wrong question. The important question is “What does the woman I’m with like?” If she doesn’t tell you, ask her.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have a thing I've always loved immensely which is tickling or softly lightly caressing feet soles for a long time. I get relaxed. Its not arousing.

My boobs fondled softly, held, and nipples being sucked for a long time turns me on.

I dont want any oral sex giving or getting.

AustColombiangirl · Accepted Answer

Tie me down and use me

Leonharted · Answer

Depends on the chick.

Joshua0213 · Answer

No girl I've ever dated like toes haha

When having sex what do women like guys to do to them? Is it better to build sexual tension? Do women get turned on from having their toes sucked?

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