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Around how many times did you have to have sexxx before you got used to it?

SURVEY
1. Did you get the hang of it in that same day or did it take different days?
2. Was it easier the next time around with a different sexual partner or still complicated as if you were a virgin all over again?
3. Did it take long to start fcking like a pro?
PS, if you’ve only been with one person or are still a virgin, feel free to say so.
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MY ANSWER
When my virginity was taken, I couldnt do shit and it definitely took a few more weeks after that to get used to it. But then again, we only did it like one day a week because he had to keep pressuring me into it. The first session wasn't exactly by choice and i was surely groomed. I probably didn't open up much because i didn't want to do it in the first place but he proceeded anyways. The two different days sometime later, i was able to fully take the tip. It just hurt being stretched out. But that 4th time (some weeks later), I just randomly felt ready. The sexxx wasn't supposed to happen but it did and my hormones were raging. He had finally broken me and I suddenly wanted it and could take it almost fully and i’d say I took it quite well. I was a wild cat that day and from that day forth.

I wonder how much it differs for guys losing their virginity vs girls because with my other ex, he caught on much faster then I did when I was a virgin. When losing his, we found my hole much more easily (unlike my ex who humped my inner thigh, thinking he was inside of me) 🙈 But yea, with this ex, he felt we disappointed God because we didn't make it til marriage. He tried to blame me for being seductive but he was just as much of a tease. Anyways, the next day, he suddenly had the Wrath of a Titan and that guilt temporarily went out the window. I don't know where all the pent up energy came from but he was ready to fck like a pro that morning. And yes we went from 10am Saturday til 2am Sunday with minor 10-15 minute breaks inbetween some of the rounds.
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When i say getting the hang of it, im referring to, for example, how a girl could finally get used to that specific guys genitals. Like if you couldnt deep throat or take all his dick, how many times til you got used to that guy specifically? Like how long til you became a pro at riding him like you’re used to him? And was it easier taking the second sexual partner compared to the first. And for guys, like if your first couldn't handle your dick in sex/oral, how many tries?
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  • I had no trouble the first time. I was 16 and she was 15. She had had one previous boyfriend so wasn't a virgin. She was also on the pill.
    I was thrilled to death to finally see and touch a naked women. When I fingered her, I was surprised to find her all wet and gooey. All I knew was that women had a hole that a penis was supposed to go into, but I didn't know that pussies were juicy. That's how clueless I was.
    We did it in missionary position because I didn't imagine anything else. I didn't have the advantage of on-line porn back then.
    I easily found her hole. She was very wet. But I was so excited that I probably lasted a minute. LOL
    After that, we went steady for quite a few months and had LOTS of sex. I got much better with practice and even learned new positions. 🙃 🤣🤣🤣
    She even gave me my first blow job one night in my car.
    The first time I went down on her, I was crap. I didn't even know what a clitoris was. She had to instruct me.

    • Lmao i didn't know about the clit until i started masturbating at 21 😂 All the sex me and that first ex had and the clit was never a discussion. When he fingered me he penetrated the hole so thats all i knew

    • Yeah, the first time I went down on her I was licking her vaginal opening. She had to tell me what to do. LOL

    • Lol i didn't know what to tell him cause it was both of our first times but i suggested the alphabet

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Most Helpful Guy

  • 1. Did you get the hang of it in that same day or did it take different days?
    2. Was it easier the next time around with a different sexual partner or still complicated as if you were a virgin all over again?
    3. Did it take long to start fcking like a pro?
    PS, if you’ve only been with one person or are still a virgin, feel free to say so.

    1) Hell no.. took me a little while to figure it out
    2) Much easier.. as I knew what to do
    3) I don't find I am but I know what to do... to get her off
    PS: far from a virgin

    • Faaaaar

    • Ya why? is that an issue :P

Most Helpful Girls

  • 1. Did you get the hang of it in that same day or did it take different days?

    Same day, 3rd time was doing pretty good... it started in the evening though and we spent the night together and more the next day. Then almost every single day for the next almost year.

    2. Was it easier the next time around with a different sexual partner or still complicated as if you were a virgin all over again?

    Hard to let someone else be inside me, as I was still in love with the first guy, but the actual sex part was easier, my body remembered and caught on pretty fast.

    3. Did it take long to start fcking like a pro?

    Define Pro? lol, but yeah maybe a month with the first guy, to be what I'd consider a pro... possibly less since it was a daily thing for us.

    • Yea i just mean a pro for the partner you were used to. Not like the next new partner

    • Probably 3 weeks for first guy, little quicker for second guy.

    • Thanks for MHO

  • 1. Did you get the hang of it in that same day or did it take different days? It took a few times to find my flow.
    2. Was it easier the next time around with a different sexual partner or still complicated as if you were a virgin all over again? It was easier the next time, but still complicated with a different partner.
    3. I turned into a pro after a few times. Always tried new things.

    • Finally someone answers the survey 🤣

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  • Took about 3-4 times and felt confident about it. It was also her first time as well. At the start we would only have sex 1 time per session... makes me laugh now.
    i feel like I’m still learning and getting better... sex is much different now

    • Aww haha

  • I still don't have the hang of it.

    • Dang. The right one will get you there or just whenever you feel you’re truly ready

    • Re update: There's always room for improvement.

  • I don't know how many times I've had sex but I'm still trying to get the hang of it it's different every time and that's the way it should be
    There's no way that I want some sort of routine but I do know what you mean I think for me I just opened up more and got a little bit more kinky and kinky each time I love when you can just be super intense and just let it all go I just feel every second of it until whenever and then just let it slide and fly

    • I see

  • not too many 2 or 3 maybe

    • Same day? Same partner?

    • no 2 or 3 times having sex

    • Same. First time was OK even, it didn't hurt so much. 2nd time it all worked but maybe I was lucky with my (ex) husband.

  • It took me quite a while to get the hang of it quite a couple times.
    It definitely got easier with a different sexual partner. For me when i lost my virginity, it was with my first boyfriend and we have sex quite frequent. So by the time we actually broke up, I would say I was pretty good at it so quite easy the next time.
    I would say maybe it took me like at least a month before I would say im "pro"

    • Damn it took me like 6 months 🤣 but i didn't give him sex daily nor weekly so that made sense

  • Uhm when I understood the question right, after my 3rd -4th time I understood the assignment and of course it's different with every new partner and it takes a little while agian, but not long.
    But I will say number 1 and 2 where nothing compared, to the last man and experience.
    I feel like I really learned what sex is with him and not just fucking, you know.
    So for my future I only wish to have healthy sex and not just some fucks.

    • Lmao not “understood the assignment” 🤣 And yes fck fcks! Lol

    • What is the correct term then?😂😂 i gave my best lol

    • It just tripped me out lol

  • By the third time i was able to start being able to take it, lol.
    By maybe the 5th time i was able to enjoy everything.
    It got easier with the same partner.
    & I'm still no freaky pro 😅
    I've only been sexual with 3 people

  • I really don't remember, and I'm still not sure if I'm "that good" at it. There are always new things to learn. That's part of the fun.

    • I dont mean in a bragging way. Im saying got the hang of it to where you werent nervous or hurt or as clumsy like a virgin typically is

    • I don't remember ever being clumsy. Maybe because I was older and had some experience with porn.

  • this subject is N/A to me kinda.

    • I see

  • First time, it took several months but we were only doing it once a week. After 3 or 4 months we spent the first night together and that was a blast, and it became more frequent. She would come over to my place all the time and just want to get down.

    That is when I realized I was used to it and good at it.

    • Yea we were doing it like once a week or month lmao

    • We wanted more, but she was living with her mother to help take care of her through some medical issues and found it hard to make excuses to go out. After her mother got better, she started just coming to my place all the time. There were times we had just finished not even 30 minutes had passed and she was back for more.

    • Hahah i wouldn't even give 30 mins. 10 mins tops 🤣

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  • My first time was a one off with a stranger. It was awkward and confusing. She got on top of me and then I got on top. I did not cum.
    After that it was with a girl I has been dating for a few weeks. She had been married before and was older than me. She was really okay with my inexperience and after a couple of tries I was able to cum and she asked me if I was sure that I had such a lack of experience. She may have been pulling my leg.

    • You dont even really need sex to agin experience. Just do online research and be a good listener. So maybe she meant it

  • About a year.

  • Once, literally took me once

    • Wow did it hurt at all your first time

    • No not really, at that point I was already comfortable with my body and sexuality

    • I get being comfortable with the body but what does being comfortable with your sexuality have to do with anything

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  • I think I still don't have the hang of it.

    • It’ll come/cum

  • I'd say about three or four the first two times I never really orgasms because I was really nervous and like awkward but the first time I busted a nut from fucking oh man it was on after that now I'm just old

    • Haha love how h said it was on after that

  • I've only had sex with two people. First time around was clumsy as hell. The second person went way better. It definitly helps to have a partner that you're "compatible" with. Now I'm just waiting for the next time around

    • Lol im just naturally clumsy 😂 i remember searching around the room like Velma for my glasses and he was like fck them glasses 🤣

  • Didn't take long. LOL Maybe once?

    • Ahh nice

  • Virgin still :)

    • Thats good in my opinion

    • Why do you think so, girl?

    • Its good if you're waiting for someone special. Dont just give in to just anyone

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  • Well first time that girl gave me a bj and we had anal, second girl I dated we had sex but she wouldn´t let me near her pussy because of a bad experience with another guy in the past. It was the third girl I dated that she taught my how to eat a pussy etc. I guess at around 16 I could fuck decently, not great but good enough I think, at around 18 I entered my sex craze moment of my life when I stopped dating.

    • So what the second girl was anal too?

    • No we had sex normally she just didn´t want me to touch, finger or eat her pussy. She wanted like direct penetration, don´t know how she was getting wet enough though

    • Oh no im like that. I mean i love being fingered but i dont need to be fingered or touched to get wet. Im mentally stimulated by stuff. So yes i’d prefer to just be pounded too. Thats why i get impatient during sex

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  • The first time for me was actually okay she was not a virgin and a bit little older than me. I ate her out first so she was wet and ready as she stroke me off to get hard and when I penetrate into her she took it in easily. She mostly took control riding me and telling how fast or hard to go. Making me go in different positions. After my first time she showed or train me how to eat pussy better and get better pounding a girl. Me and her was together for 6 months and after her every girl I usually have sex with I feel like a pro either if she is a virgin or not. I have made every girl cum either from eating them out or banging that pussy good.

    • Daaaaaamn

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