Need some advice. What should mu next move be in regards to how to respond to this?
So I've been seeing this guy for 8 months. Known one another for a few years and we rekindled meeting up after a year of not speaking or seeing each other.
I sent him this message:
I feel like I only get to see you once a week.
This doesn't feel enough for what I want.
I know your busy, so am I. Part of me feels this is an excuse.
I want someone who wants to be around me, who feels excited to see me, there is more contact etc. I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
I dont want to smother you but I also feel like I need more yenno
At the end of the day, I dont just want to be a sex toy to you. Originally perhaps.
I feel I am constantly seeking out more from you, more then you wish to give. Your very reserved about yourself. You're not very open. You don't wish to show vulnerability and I don't know how to work with someone who is rigid. I feel I share things that I wouldn't with just anyone. I try and push some of my own boundries to show I am open. But I just feel sometimes I am met with resistance.
What or who are you resisting?
Is it just me?
Is it something I did? Or am I pushy?
I don't know. But I chose to be open with you, part of me wants to receive it back in return, part of me doesn't know what to do. I dont play guessing games
His response in image below...
I feel like this is a cop out reply tbh, and I part of me doesn't want to even give a response, considering the time and effort I've been putting into seeing him
Superb Opinion