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Would you immediately end things with someone you dont feel sexually compatible with or would you compromise?

Im asking you about what you yourself feel regarding your own situations. But as for me, being naughty in public is pretty big for me. And im not just talking PDA lol. But one of these guys is being whimpy. He’s too afraid to say flirty things in public. He made such a big deal about of a guy overhearing him say “I want to fcking destroy you rn.” 🤣 I mean that was a bit much and more scary then sexy lmao but i admit, had he said anything else sexual, i wouldve preferred he not be so scared about it. I told him that when the time comes, he’s gotta get on my level of being publicly naughty or get left behind. He got sad 😬
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Would you immediately end things with someone you dont feel sexually compatible with or would you compromise?
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  • Damn you dizzy . you make me smile
    I look at it like this there's a time and a place for everything
    In a lot of ways I'm very quiet I don't like to bring attention to myself and I don't like people around me that bring attention to me.
    But when in a relationship and something of this nature happens I not only take it on but I enhance it I take it even further.
    So the reason why I'm smiling is because I think you're the same way and I think that is absolutely crazy great but I would think after a few times that seems to be bailed out of jail because we're trying to outdo each other we're out in the middle of the street fucking we'd have to put a no contact clause if we were to go to the 7-Eleven or something LOL or at least we have to finish our Slurpees before we do anything LOL what the hell you got only so much time on this planet you got it do what you got to do LOL

    • 😂😂😂😂 i love icees haha

Most Helpful Guy

  • I have ended things pretty quick a couple times before because we just didn’t work once me and this chick were in the middle of knocking boots and she was throwing off the rhythm completely and I asked her if she could dance she said she took dance for years and I told her girl you ain’t got no rhythm and flipped her over and finished and we were finished another time we didn’t even really start yet cause she turned it into a wrestling match trying to play in a no play zone and I wasn’t having it. Needless to say we weren’t a good match

    • This is the funniest shit ever!! I definitely meed a dude with rhythm

    • Lol. Wrestling is fun, though.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I would respect that someone doesn't feel the same level of (we'll say) enthusiasm when it comes to being public. I mean, it's a huge thing to ask of a person to step out of their comfort zone. Kissing in public is okay. Saying sexual things in public--I'd actually rather not. It IS intimate, after all, and so, I totally get that someone would rather keep that sort of talk in the bedroom. So, I think it's a little self-centered to leave someone just because they're not as open as you are.

    • Yea this is one thing i dont mind being self centered about because i love it so much. And trust, it goes way beyone kissing and talking dirty in public. I like an audience

  • I'd be willing to compromise. I know there are things people have reservations about and I'm not gonna force them to do it. Nor am I just gonna brush em off because they don't want to.

    • I ended things with him last night anyways but for other reasons. Damn im gonna miss that HP accent

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • sounds like you are too picky. so if a great guy comes along who is sweet, kind, has a good job, attractive, and wants to marry you, you'll just let him go because he won't grab your ass in public?

    • Tempted

  • need to experiment to try things. and after a while yeah will end it

  • Would grieve it a try and see if it improved. If not I’d admit we are not compatible

  • If there is no spark between a couple in any area then is there any point in carrying on? I think not and for me if the magic of sex was missing then I would end it fairly quickly.

  • if i'm allowed to comment, i would compromise as much as i could but if ultimately you're not compatible it can't work out in the long run, so maybe a short fun relationship

  • Depends on what the point of contention is.

  • Honey I don't compromise 😂 jk in some stuff I do, but not with sexual incompatibility

    • Yea im starting to see why people dont

    • Maybe he is that type of dude, that is more comfortable and dirty in private or he will be more open publicly, when he gets more comfortable with you

    • I broke it off with him lol. For other reasons but this was slick part of it

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  • I never ever compromise being genuine nor being my true self...

  • I don't believe in sexual compatibility. In fact, I'm a staunch advocate of waiting until marriage, so this wouldn't even be a thing.

    • I believe in waiting til marriage too. I just dont anymore. But even if i married them, we’d teach eachother. But if things still failed months after, i’d end it

  • No, I wouldn't. I would try to ease into it first, but if I have tried to the point it doesn't yield results, I would have to consider ending it. Sex is an important part in a relationship, and it would be unfortunate to have that missing with an SO. I would be patient and wait for as long as I can, but I wouldn't outright drop them if it didn't work early on.

    I feel these guys may be uncomfortable and pressured with your sexual kinks.

    • only one has a problem with it. The rest are game 😂

    • Well, are you taking into account how he feels about it or are you focused on whether he can do what you hope he can?

    • I heard him out. If i choose to become something with him down the line, im sure i can convince him.

  • Yes, I would. Sexual compatibility is important. Is he equally inhibited in private? That would be the real deal-breaker for me.

    • He claimed he wasn't but yea i ended stuff

    • The people who won't do this or that think they are perfectly normal and the people who enjoy them are weird. Really it's the other way around. Almost every woman I've ever dated was a bit kinky.

  • Yes I’ve done that before.

  • That honestly depends

  • I used to be like him once upon a time. But then my girl got me so turned on that I dont think I can refrain from grabbing those ass cheeks and slapping them and licking her from neck to ear right in front of a crowd of people. In other words she helped me discover my inner freak and he's not going back in the bottle.

    • Exactly, im tryna sit tight cause i think i can be pretty convincing

    • sometimes a good guy just needs a nudge and you'll help him discover his inner freak :D

  • Being naughty in public for me is fingering a girl at the movies or receiving a handjob at the movies I don't know how safe to engage in oral sex in the car unless it's in a public area that is private where no one can see also we got to be sexually compatible with each other for me and the girl to work things out.

    • I like to be seen

    • @dizzydesii I worry about the Po Po LMAO

  • I would give it a few tries. After that if we're still incompatible I would have to ends things.

    • I agree

  • I'm polyamorous. I can look for those qualities elsewhere. But yes, I'd be less excited to see this partner.

  • I would end it.

    • Understandable. Its a big thing

    • really, I did this once and it was really no fun.

  • I would try to make things work, it's team work, but if there is no team, there's no need to bother

  • I would at least make an effort to make it work before calling it quits.

    And if I try and we both make the effort to be compatible but it still doesn't work out when then I know I at least tried to make it work and it just wasn't meant to work out.

    I can live with that.

    • Yea hats sounds better

    • Mhmm.

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