My wife and I have experienced ffm before. She wants now to experience mmf?

[Anonymous]

This could damage our marriage. That's why I think I should discourage her. How should I explain this to her?

[Anonymous]

I've had MFM with a very close friend and his now wife (never had a FMF though). I won't deny that it was a lot of fun for all of us, but if I was in his shoes, I doubt I would be able to handle that situation. When another dick steps in, it's hard to be rational, you get too emotional over any little thing your partner does to the other person and the chances of ruining your relationship are stupidly high.

Since you're already in a messy situation and probably nothing you can say will change her mind, I advise you to talk as much as possible with her, don't do things with the other guy that you wouldn't do with your own partner, no kissing, use condoms unless everybody gets tested before, don't feel intimidated if the other guy is bigger and lastly and most important don't allow your wife to have contact with him without you, I've seen a lot of drama happening because of that.

[Asker]

How does it feel for you to fuck your friend's wife?

[Opinion Owner]

Amazing at first, and awful afterwards.

[Asker]

Why afterwards is it awful?

[Opinion Owner]

Too much drama, you start to question yourself lots of things, the concept of love, etc. it's kind of empty to know that you were used as a toy for somebody else's pleasure. Of course I'm saying this as a single man, If I was in a relationship at the time the experience would have been way different, I have no doubts that both friends enjoyed the play.

[Guardian45]

EXCELLENT insight!

[Leonharted]

Odd that you expected her to be ok with you bringing another woman into the bedroom, but expect her not understand that it's not ok for her to bring another man into the bedroom.

In my opinion, you should never bring another person into a sexual situation, as all it will do is potentially complicate things. And for what? A couple of minutes of something being new and hot? But you guys opened that door, and now you get to live with the consequences.

[erandal]

I have had two MFM experiences. The first was with a boyfriend and of his friends. My boyfriend got extremely jealous after he saw me having a good time with his friend and it did ruin our relationship, he just couldn't handle it. The second was with two male friends, but without any romantic attachment, this worked out much better, had a great time and we are still all friends now, although with no further sexual contact as I am now married. My advice is to do it, but with somebody that you don't know too well such as a close family friend.

I have also had FMF with my husband on three occassions. This was on my request and although he did not want to have sex with the other girl initially it was something I wanted so he agreed. The other girl is a close friend and the experience did not cause any issues between us.

[Guardian45]

Kudos to you

[SnakeBoop]

and not doing it but being happy to have done the ffm could damage your marriage too.

[Kelly6]

He doesn’t know that lol

[SecretsofKB]

How could this damage your marriage compared the the FFM experience? What's different?

[Asker]

We experienced it with my wife's very old close friend. She was a person we really trusted. I think mmf can be risky.

[anon1903]

Do it with one of your Bros. If she's fine with you licking her friend, so should you be!

[PsychedelicZebra]

You have to explain to her that's it 's easier for a girl to be with another girl than for a guy to be with another guy. Like chicks always make out at the club. Guys don't do that shit. Stick to your guns bro I don't want your marriage to fail because you had to get cucked.

[Jitternation]

Tell her that you are not interested. Just because you experienced FFM doesn’t mean you have to put up with MMF. You are not a sex robot and your consent is more important than a fantasy.

[OlderAndWiser]

Tell her that you are a hypocrite and you can't handle her fucking another guy even though you fucked another girl. I'm sure she'll understand.

[RobT312]

Unless you are both onboard it won’t be much fun. You need to be on the same page. But seeing you have already tried an MFF, I would think an MMF Wouldn’t be much of an issue. What would be the problem with this threesome? I have to say, I just tried an MMFwith my girlfriend over the last month and it was a ton of fun. It actually brought us closer.

[matchrestore]

It's only fair- you had it your way she can have it her way.

[Sirenboobzilla]

How did you feel experiencing ffm?

[Asker]

We experienced it with my wife's very old close friend.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Ok. But how did it make you feel?

[Sirenboobzilla]

Did you feel that it would hurt the relationship doing ffm?

[Asker]

We all really had fun. My wife and I were quite happy. I didn't think it would do any hurt as I trusted the other woman so much.

[InventorofWarp]

How the fuck would this damage your marriage?
You sound like a really insecure prick tbh.
I gotta be real, if my (non-existent) woman ever agreed to a mmf threesome, first off, I'd marry that chick right away but second, there's be just as big a likelihood of me falling for him as there would be for her falling for him. In fact, I'd argue moreso since I'll likely have had WAY less sexual experience than anyone else involved in the whole thing.

[Warmshadow]

Seems hypocritical to me. You took advantage of two females but you can’t reciprocate?

[Aurora1010]

Haha you should return the favor now. I know, all threesomes seem like a bad idea and nasty to me too, but you tried your fantasy and fair is fair.

[Jitternation]

Nah. Why are you assuming she “gave him” ffm and was not the one that wanted it? Most women are bi and the majority would prefer a ffm threesome over mmf. That’s why most of em watch lesbian porn, would rather kiss girls than guys etc. Our sexualities work differently he does not have to put up with it.

[Warmshadow]

@Jitternation I would prefer another man, not another woman actually.

[Jitternation]

@Warmshadow you’re in the minority and older. Most women this generation want another woman.

[Dargil]

Let her know of she presses the point, you will file for divorce.

[AviatorTom]

I'm assuming the FFM idea was yours, and I'm sure you enjoyed it. So fair is fair... time to let her enjoy her MMF idea. If both of you are honest and open about it, it shouldn't damage your marriage.

[sheikalana]

Why is mmf so dangerous but ffm isn't?

[anon1903]

Wow, man. Threesome with an extra female is a good experience, mmf and she's destroying your marriage? You're so sexist.

[exitseven]

you already had your fun, now it is her turn.

[anon1903]

Exact-fucking-ly

[Staximus]

I wouldn't do it. Bad idea, she might go out looking for stray dicks after that, especially if you're hung like a hamster. Threesomes with other dudes is borderline gayness, anyways.

[bgreek]

Don't tell her no, but"Hell NO"
And that is that, stand your ground like a real man

[dustybiker]

No. That would be called divorce.

[bgreek]

@dustybiker No, it's called making a tough call But, if the guy says No And the woman continues to insist Than it's called divorce

[dustybiker]

Healthy marriage is compromise. The world doesn’t spin around you. One day you might figure that out.

[anon1903]

Yes, real man who's a sexist, hypocritical douche.

[jasco]

Honestly FFM could also damage your marriage but she did it anyway

[Twalli]

ffm had just as much chance of damaging your marriage. If you suggested ffm then you're kind of honor bound to accept mmf.

[bamesjond0069]

No it doesn't. And why would you be honor bound to do it with a man? Makes no sense. It only makes sense if you are completely clueless about women and life in general.

[Twalli]

@bamesjond0069 Why doesn't ffm have as much of a chance at damaging a marriage?

[bamesjond0069]

Because men and women view sex differently. Surprise. If you're with a group of men and each of them had sex with a girl and now one of them is married to her. You damn well know they all going to laugh about how they been there first. While a group of women talking about a man, they won't feel that way because its the relationship they were all after. It interferes with mens primary attraction but not womens. Short of the man being mostly gay and desiring sex with a man more than his wife he's giving up sexual fidelity which deep down is a primary expectation of men out of a relationship. The woman is also giving it up but that is not a primary expectation. Women typically would rather share a great man than settle for a shitty one. Where men typically prefer a lesser woman that is theirs alone. The motivations are entirely different and thats why its not even comparable.

[bamesjond0069]

Dont do it. Mmf will definitely damage your marriage. Just do ffm again if y'all want to have more 3somes.