Guys, would you let other women take your bisexual girlfriend home sometimes?

[Anonymous]

I'm bisexual and I have been with my first boyfriend my whole adult life. I lost my virginity to a girl and got together with my boyfriend shortly after that so I haven't touched a woman in nearly 10 years.

I have no interest in other men, and I am super in love with my boyfriend but I'm really craving an experience with a girl and I want to be a little bit wild while I'm still young. I'm always seen as the good girl and the family girl and I've worked hard to get close with his family and I always do what's expected of me and I want to have some more adventurous experiences.

I would want to explore it just me and a girl at first but I would be willing to try a threesome with him at some point, although I don't even think he's into threesomes. I still think it would benefit him in the long run though because I struggle with my libido due to my depression and ADHD and I think that this would fire it up A LOT.

I think it would be hot to come home after and tell him all about my adventure and what she did that I liked. We went to his friend's party in the summer and I think he knows how I feel because he was joking about how his one friend, who is also a bi girl, seemed to have a crush on me and probably wanted me.

My boyfriend isn't the jealous type and he actually seems to get excited by other people finding me attractive because he knows I'd never cheat. He seemed to be encouraging it but she was sloppy drunk and these friends were younger than us so it was a messy college house kind of situation and I wasn't comfortable.

I also just felt like, even if she did want me, she couldn't really consent that drunk so there was no point. And she was like 19 and I was 25 so that's just not my thing.

But I have been approached several times by gorgeous girls, closer to my age or older, at the club and I wanted to ask but I'm nervous about how he'll react. How should I even start that conversation? Every time it happens I feel too guilty to even give them my number. :(

[MrOracle]

I've dated bi girls, and I'm fine if they play with other girls - I just insist on being the only man in her life.

[Asker]

Yeah, that's exactly what I'd want.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I let my girlfriend do whatever she wants

[Asker]

That is very chill of you haha. Of course, I would tell him before and after every encounter and get tested/take proper safety measures. I just want to touch some boobies that aren't my own :(

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah that's my only requirement that she tells me everything she does I actually enjoy hearing about it

[LegendaryIcon]

BIASED MHO

[Asker]

@LegendaryIcon Lol stay mad.

[slatyb]

I would. Would it be ok if I went home with other girls too?

[Dargil]

Its not a matter of "let". You approve (who would?) or you don't. If I didn't approve (100% likely) I would show her the door.

[AviatorTom]

Does your boyfriend know you're bi? If he does, then let him know you'd like to be with another woman, and that you have no desire for another man... he's the only guy for you.

[Asker]

yeah he knows that's how i feel.

[BrosephBrostar]

No. Just because you're getting with someone of the opposite sex of your dedicated partner, that doesn't make it not infidelity.

[Asker]

I don't want to sneak around though, he'd know every detail.

[BrosephBrostar]

Infidelity is not the same as cheating. If I want to imply what you were saying, I would've said cheating. However, you, and him apparently, seem to be under the impression that there's no loss of exclusivity or it's somehow lesser when it's with a woman than a man.

[Kabluie]

Yes, non-mono relationships are good.

[Makeushiver]

I love bisexual women. I was introduced to the joy of getting pegged by one and it's a rush getting fucked by an attractivewoman

[Asker]

Aw I'm happy for you!

[Jamie05rhs]

No. Because she could get an STD.

[Staximus]

Girls aren't usually creeped out by girls unless it's outright harassment. Just tell them you think they are hot and see how they respond

[Wise4myage]

No, I wouldn't date a bi sexual girl.

[crmoore]

No, I wouldn't.

[boobliker]

if she want's to go how can you stop them?

[LegendaryIcon]

Why does being bi automatically mean polygamy?

[Asker]

It definitely doesn't it's just me. I never dated anyone else but him my whole life. I didn't expect to just date one person at 17 and never date anyone else but that's what happened. I just want to live my youth while I have it.

[LegendaryIcon]

i think you're delusional if thats what you believe

[Asker]

Or you are just judgmental lol

[LegendaryIcon]

Not at all

[whosnumber1]

so I have absolutely no problem with my wife hooking up with other women. I kinda wish she did. she has a total pass from me to do so. I just want to know all about it. if we were dating I would have no problem with it. in fact I would encourage it!

[najekim]

Wife has a blank check when it comes to girl-girl time. All I need to know is with who, where she's going to be and to call me when she's on the way home.

[emperor90]

I would not mind

[Hardworkingguy]

That would be kind of weird.. would a woman let her heterosexual boyfriend spend the night with other women specially if she's attractive?

[abc--123]

I sure would

[Anonymous]

i been with the love of my life over 4 years and my significant other knows im ok with it if they want to be with a woman just no men

[Anonymous]

No, but if she wanted to form a throuple with another woman and we were all married. That would be good.

[Anonymous]

You owe it to him to let him know what makes you happy so he can decide for himself what he can live with. If I were him I may get jealous if you are spending more time with girls than with me. The offer of occasional threesomes may be enough to make it a amicable situation for everyone. Would you be jealous? For example would you be jealous if one of your girlfriends blew your boyfriend and swallowed his cum while you ate her? Would you be okay if he chose the girl?