Do you spit or swallow during a blowjob with your man?

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Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

I always swallow – and it is my pleasure. I almost every day give blowjob to my husband as a good morning kiss. I hold his organ in my hand, slide his foreskin up and down for a moment, wipe his crown with something and then take it in my mouth. If he finish in my mouth, I swallow with pleasure, and follow our inner for next climax through penetration. It is to help both of us to be close with each other and in committed deep and passionate relationships. Ultimately, this is our personal choice.

I understand that no, men do not JUST want it because it feels good, although, this is definitely a part of why men want oral so much too. It is not because they do not have to do anything themselves, and can just sit back and wait for the woman to do all the work.

Men are not always as good as women are at decoding and expressing their own feelings and needs. The basic reason why men love being given oral sex is because it gives them a feeling of power. It satisfies their manhood ego. Another reason is because a blow job can be one of the ultimate feminine acts of love towards a man. It is a healthy way for a man to access his dark masculine energy – his animalistic desire to dominate and feel powerful. Just as women have a desire deep down to be dominated by her most high value man.

The first reason men love blowjobs is submission with a mutual feeling of ecstatic attraction. The visual aspect of submission is also a factor. The act of giving a man a blow job is a feminine act, because a woman has to be in her feminine in order to actually give him truly good oral sex. It is a symbol of vulnerability, in order to give a man oral sex, a woman has to be open up and expose herself totally to him. If her heart is not in it, and she is doing it on autopilot, then obviously the blowjob will feel different to a guy.

Here the concept of vulnerability goes hand-in-hand with the idea of trust. Blowjob is a sign that you love and accept him as he is; most men perceive a blow job as the ultimate act of love and acceptance.

A blow job is a woman’s signal to her man that it is okay for him to relax and enjoy the world of pleasure and love - out-of-control pleasure. Ultimately it gives a man a sense of ultimate connection. The reality is that men and women are both very much driven by sex. Sex (and procreation) is behind much of our actions and decisions, and oral is one of the important things.

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

please a man would have a fit if you didn't swallow... truthfully i kind of like swallowing cum makes me feel sexy.

Just21 · Answer

Swallow always!

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Never done that. A man has never finished in my mouth.

ushagomez · Answer

Well I always remember what my parents taught me. Spitting is not very ladylike.

Apple1996 · Answer

I try to avoid getting it in my mouth. If it happens I swallow tho spitting is disgusting

drowsydaffodil · Answer

always swallow

sheikalana · Answer

Both.

Rosa135 · Answer

Swallow or Spit depends on my mood

JennaxxD · Answer

swallow

KatherineJ · Answer

Do you know how many times this has been asked?

RebeccaBI2000 · Answer

I always swallow. A lady never spits.

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