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  • Good question. When I was at Firestone, a girl there in the "typing pool", (yes, we had stenographers)
    that was '20 something" and I was 30, and we got acquainted through her doing my dictation. She indicated that she would like to fuck, but had a STRING tied around the end of a pencil erasure, on her desk, in a pencil holder, with the string indicating that she was not going to fuck until she decided to take the string 'off the peter" Those were her words, not mine.
    Fast forward, we played in my apartment, and got naked with one of her girlfriends, who was in the 'pool' also. We did not fuck, because I was a little chicken with the other girl in the other room.
    Finally... when we did fuck, she was VERY DRY, which I did not understand at all. Being a very excited guy with a hot girl, I pushed into her anyway, dry or not, and pumped until I came. At that point, we did not have Astroglide or any good lubricants that I knew of.

    After all this above, I thought she WOULD be wet, since I was very HARD, and basically forced my penis into her with her being dry. Never before, nor after did I have sex with a girl like that.
    Stupid me, I had the chance to 'make up' for my stupidity, when she was with me again, and I was just breaking up with a girl, and that screwed up the whole thing.
    I always found women/girls to be lubricated, enough to penetrate before and after, and don't know why that happened. I suppose it is very similar to a guy not being able to get a hard-on, which has happened to me more than I want to remember.

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  • It's the same reasons engines and gears need oil to lubricate them if you want them to survive for very long: you can only handle a certain amount of friction before things go from pleasurable to painful to causing real damage, and being wet provides the necessary lubrication to get that balance just right.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because if you don't you will burst into flames from the friction.

    Why am I supposed to get “wet” when arousal?
  • It’s your body getting you ready to be penetrated by your man

    • Really? That is the obvious reason that half the galaxy would know. The other half don't have sex,

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  • Because sexy time is freakin hot and it's not a big deal (actually normal) to sweat at least a little bit.

  • Did u skip biology classes?

  • That is what happens to most adult females and others simply assume that you follow the pattern.

  • Well, the function of getting "wet" is to create natural lubrication for insertion, which greatly helps with sex. So that's the functional reason for why you're supposed to get "wet" when you're aroused.

  • “Supposed to?” It’s an unconscious process similar to male arousal.

  • Yes, of course.

  • Getting wet is your vagina providing lubrication so that penetration by a penis can take place without causing too much friction and pain. When a woman is aroused, her glands in the vagina area secret a liquid that provides the lubrication... making her vagina ready for penetration.

  • So it isn’t unnecessarily painful when your vagina is penetrated.

  • It is your body's natural lubrication, so when you have sex it is easier and doesn't hurt.
    That goes back to when people had sex to make babies.

  • Because if you are not, sex will be very very painful to you. That moisture acts as a lubricant to allow his parts and your parts rub against each other without causing damage. If you are not getting wet, you should consult a physician.

  • It's your own form of lube so it'll be a lot easier for him to put his dick into you.

  • Because it equals being horniess

  • I think you need a sex education class.. A basic high school sex education class would tell you exactly why.

  • because biomechanically, that will help with procreation. it's like men are supposed to get hard. how is sex supposed to work if she's dry and he's soft?

  • So it slides in

  • Mother natures way.

  • The fuck am I supposed to know? I actually hope you're a dude since females are usually found clucking to other chicks!

  • That's is a very simple answer an them answer is for a Woman when someone make u horny that's the way God make y'all so it's a very good thing so us guy's know when where doing a good thing for tall just like a Man has Dick gets on hard or starts to stand up that lets a Womean know that she is doing good at it.
    So be proud of that an let it happen because it also will feel good.
    God Bless

  • Its just like how a man is aroused when we're hard

    ejaculation, is not arousal. it's orgasm

  • Because that’s what most females do when horny. Unless you’re cooter is broken then go see a obgyn

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