How do you/would you care for you significant other during her period?

[Lucy68]

[crmoore]

None of my relationships have been serious enough (or I wasn't old enough) to be in a position to. But I'd love to. I love the idea of taking care or my girl. I'm sure a lot of it will depend on what she individually wants or likes (like it's not a one-size-fits-all type of thing), but some things I'd imagine will generally apply is me going to get her hygiene products if she's running low, cooking her meals, cuddling under a blanket on the couch watching shows or movies. Maybe we could even do full body massages or something like that. All that being said, I'd obviously adapt to whatever she needs. All of this is just speculative.

[Cubus]

- compliment her
- make her feel safe and comfortable with me
- make her feel she can rely on me, that she is not alone
- make her feel period is something completely normal and she should not be ashamed of it. That it doesn't repulse me in any way.
- in overall - take care about her all the time - to show that you don't forget about it
- hug her
- make her a hot tea :)
- go shopping to buy her some food she is craving atm
- do some houseworks instead of her

[Cubus]

Also massage :) if she would like to

[Cubus]

Thank you for most helpful, girl!

[DizzyDesii]

I would prefer the guy leave me be. Call me or text. Maybe bring me by some Tylenol, a heating pad and bottles of water. Give me a forehead kiss and leave. I dont like to be around anyone, especially a dude when thats on. Come back in 7 days

[Cubus]

Your period is 7 days? Crap, that's quite long.

[DizzyDesii]

@Cubus yep. Some girls are lucky with 3-5 days. Mine is irregular in terms of coming on monthly but anytime its on, its always been 7 days

[Cubus]

If I may ask: how irregular it is?

[DizzyDesii]

@Cubus for the last 2 years, it Only came on like 2 months a year. But this year, it came on October-December. So im hopeful it’ll stay regular come next year. And yes i’ve been to the doc. All the do is insist you get on birth control and i still refuse to

[dustybiker]

You all make it sound like a huge deal.

[Bluemax]

I ask, "How can I help?"

[DonkeyDan]

I also to make my ex wife hot water bottles, rub her back and tread carefully lol, oh and then there was her constant need for sex on those days, it was terrible I tell ya 😂

[DonkeyDan]

*used to

[Deathly_Pheonix]

Usually buy her snacks or drinks and cuddle her when she wants, give her space when she wants. Just be there for her

[AviatorTom]

Like normal. Having a period is not a disease.

[Dragonpurple]

Been my experience she just wants to be left alone, unless she needs me to do stuff for her, get her things or make her more comfortable.

[RealMarek]

Lots of hugs, massages, do more of the cooking than usual, and if she wants to have sex to relieve her cramps then that too.

[HellGeist]

Just throw chocolate at her and tell her to fuck off until she feels better.

Lol.

[FunkyMonkee]

No different, really, except that I might change her tampons for her.

[exitseven]

Steer clear.

[XXblack88]

Lol that would be very wise.

[BarryLiverstone]

Every girl is dif so most importantly I would listen to her and learn what she needs

[Mark987]

I am always there for her regardless. I usually know when it is.. but I always bring her food... blankets.. magazines.. and make sure I just spend time with her

[boobliker]

she dose every time

[FreeOhSeven]

I dont have that responsibility (thank heavens)!

[legalboxers]

chocolate.. ice cream...

[Twalli]

It depends on what she wants

[CuriousMufuxka]

Rub her tummy for a few minutes and then play video games while she's in the bathroom.

[LegendaryIcon]

i don't. for men, there's no win win situation

[OddBeMe]

I tell her when she’s too loud. That’s nice right?