Girls stop cheating on your Man if he fails to please you in bed?

[Finchie40]

Girls you don’t realize how much your words and and moods can affect your man , This mainly goes out to Married women and Girl’s that are in long term relationships. You girls need to stop yourselves from your selfish actions. Just because your man fails to please you in bed a couple times doesn’t mean he doesn’t Love you it actually means He is in Love with you , A guy that is in love with his girl wants to please his girl and wants her to be satisfied and happy and wants her coming back for more , if he fails to please her he is devastated inside and embarrassed and trust me he isn’t happy about it. The problem that occurs is a lot of guys today are suffering from ED or stress , Are penises are wired to our brains , I recently went to my doctor cuz I was having trouble maintaining an erection and the girl I been sleeping with got completely pissed off at me and said you don’t find me attractive , which is not the case at all , I wouldn’t be trying to fuck you if I wasn’t attracted to you , She didn’t believe me which made it worse, I panicked and made an appointment with my doctor to find out what is wrong to find out stress has been playing a huge factor on my dick , I just lost my mom not long ago and I been sad and depressed , so girls if your man is having troubles don’t automatically assume he doesn’t love you , support him and find out what is wrong , My doctor gave me viagra and said for me to take it as needed until I feel I don’t need it anymore , Viagra is the best pill ever for a man , and girls it only works when your man is turned on it doesn’t just make his dick hard for the hell of it , he has to be aroused and turned on for it to work , so don’t be turned off cuz your man uses viagra , He will rock your world like he did when you first met , All viagra does his help his blood flow better to his penis when he is turned on , if you don’t believe me Google it , So stop cheating on your man and thinking some other guy is your answer

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Welp, that's kinda one point to make i suppose. How about the guys who don't please their partner, but don't care because they are just self absorbed and think him finishing means that she must have got off too?

I'm not abiding cheating at all, but please don't make it seem like all men are the same as your situation and then try to make an empassioned plea for women to stop being the bad ones when there could be a multitude of reasons bad sex is happening.

What you should instead be asking for his better communication between partners to express their desires and what is and isn't being met. It should be open and honest. Both parties should be willing to be receptive to feedback about how the other perceives them in bed and work together to explore new ways for the spark to come back.

[Finchie40]

My apologies and yes not all girls are cheaters , I was just being silly there but yes if your guy is never pleasing you then yes that’s a whole different problem and sounds serious to me that there is really some underlying issues occurring for that to happen , so I am speaking of A guy that actually loves and cares about his girl , Me, Myself can’t just sleep with any girl to get off , just the way I am , for me to have sex with a girl I have to feel chemistry and connection and for it to mean something , My intentions are to please her cuz I want her coming back for more and if I fail to do so I feel like a pile of shit , the few times I failed took a toll on myself as to why am I m failing all of a sudden , So my instant reaction was to communicate with her and tell her that it’s not her it’s me and I am seeking help to find out what the fuck is wrong with me , to find out from my doctor that I am dealing with stress and my nervous system is out of wack , so that plays a huge factor on my penis , since our penises are wired to our brains , He also ran blood work on me to find out that I am good with my health so he said it’s definitely caused by stress and recommended i seek counseling but for the time being take viagra , and he explained to me what viagra actually does , cuz I was skeptical at first about taking it thinking I don’t want a pill to make me hard , to find out it doesn’t make a guy hard unless he is turned on all viagra does is help with the blood flow when he gets in the mood it doesn’t just make a guy hard for the hell of it , so I tried it and he was correct , I took a pill and nothing happened until I was turned on the second I was turned on and in the mood my penis became a battle ship lol I was able to please her and rock her world, so I recommend viagra to any guy that is having trouble down there and to explain to her on how viagra actually works , cuz most people assume it just makes a guy get hard which is not the case at all

[Anonymous]

Lol I love how to girls are offended cause he is generalizing. One girl even insulted all men from the west. Probably too much porn.

[Finchie40]

Too much social media lol

[Anonymous]

Sounds like what I went through with my now ex wife, they obviously don’t realize what stress does to a guy , I even had my testosterone checked and really didn’t need pills, I had no problem masturbating it was just her on how she treated me, she started cheating on me so that was the end of that

[Juxtapose]

Thanks for being real man, you'll hopefully find a woman who isn't a shortsighted fool.

[desidoll]

Men do the same to us. Cheaters are losers regardless of their gender. Speaking about ED, it is frustrating for us to handle, provided if you are slow at getting yourself erected. I know this could be a huge generalisation but I do notice that men from the west take longer time to get hard. They need at least bj to get aroused.

[Finchie40]

The cheating part was just me being silly , I know not all girls and guys are cheaters , let alone I have witnessed and experienced so many cheaters in my lifetime but that’s a whole different story But yes ED is a common thing , considering it can be caused by so many things , Why I panicked and made a doctor’s appointment to find out hat my issue is caused from o in out stress and my nervous system is all out of wack from all the shit I been dealing with in life , not realizing how much of a toll it is taking on my penis which added more stress to me , My doctor ran blood work on me and said everything came back good so my issue is definitely stress related , He gave me viagra which I was skeptical about and he explained to me that all viagra does his help with my blood flow when You get in the mood, Most people including myself thought viagra was just this miracle pill that makes a dick hard for the hell of it , and that isn’t the case at all , for viagra to work a guy has got to be turned on and in the mood for it to work , when our brain sends signals to our penis all it does is help with the blood flow , I have tried it and Holy shit It was amazing lol I have heard a lot of girls say I don’t want to be with a man that has to take viagra , which I can see where she is coming from but to be honest she shouldn’t be against it what so ever cuz it doesn’t work like that at lol A girl should be giving her man viagra when she is in the mood lol I am dead serious She won’t have to worry about not being pleased lol

[Summer03]

LMAO! My boyfriend has a huge penis than my foot and he can't even get it full erection! Such loser... I may think about cheat on him on new year eve if I could!

[Finchie40]

Well cheating on him is not going to help the situation, , why he can’t get fully erect just sounds like he has something going on down there that he should go get checked by a doctor to find out what is causing his blood flow from stopping him from getting a full erection , there can be a lot of reasons as to why it isn’t , Could be his diet, stress, if he smokes or drinks alcohol etc. If you care about him tell him to go get checked out , if he doesn’t care then tell him you don’t care about me then cuz you see that as a problem , then you can cheat on him and end that relationship lol

[sheikalana]

I'd prefer to end things rather than cheating.

[HelenJacob]

If he can't, I'll cheat on him.

[Finchie40]

If he fails one time you will cheat? Or a shit ton of times lol

[HelenJacob]

All day :)

[Finchie40]

LOL that is so wrong

[Anonymous]

If you can't please a woman in bed, you don't deserve her in the first place.

[Anonymous]

As soon as a girl is unhappy for any reason she will cheat, be careful who you are dating.

[Anonymous]

You should tell this to the girl who is cheating on you. What we do or don't do is none of your business.