Nature has designed sex – penetrative sex most pleasant and enjoyable, but nature has not designed or made condoms – it is men’s invention. I have never enjoyed sex with condom, I on pill from the day one of my penetrative sexual activity. I had started them just few days before our marriage after discussions with my husband and on advice of my family doctor. We had searched many things on net together – about first time sex and sex with and without protection. I think pill is the only option to enjoy sex most naturally and for ultimate pleasure of intimacy, if you are planning for a child in future and tubectomy if you do not plan for a child in future. Withdrawal kills the mood at climax – the most enjoyable moments. Being traditional Indian, any sexual activity outside marriage is strictly prohibited in our culture and society. Our marriage is strictly monogamous – and so we need not to fear for STD’s usually. So we did not have to think about protection from STD’s with condom all the time. It is really most enjoyable, especially when he is slowly moving in and out. His foreskin helps him to last longer and deep pleasure for me. And the moment he is about to reach climax – about to finish, he push it in me deep with full pressure and shower of his cum make me orgasm multiple. He never pulls out after finishing soon, and occasionally we go for second round without pulling him out. It is super smooth because of natural lubricant he has injected in me and we last much longer enjoying each other.
Every woman has her individual priority; Condom obstructs me from getting the actual skin to skin romance, and exchange of bonding hormones. My husband too never liked idea of using condoms. As he slid in, he can feel my wetness and I feel him superman of my dreams, which I am sure no one can feel using condom. Sex is always far better without it.
Some of my friends (girls) during were enjoying sex almost regularly – using condom when we were studying in university and two of them were keeping them in their purse for this purpose. When I talk to them in kitty party about sex with condom and without condom, they said without any hesitation – sex without condom is thousand time better than with it. They said, without a condom there is more natural friction as condoms are lubricated, so without a condom and not using lube there is a much better feeling. All of them said the sensation of his skin sliding as he penetrates them is far better than the sensations of the ribbed or dotted condoms. Husband of one girl had condom-less sex far lesser times, only when they were planning to have a baby, and it worked twice within a month too. But all of them prefer to use it to avoid consequences.
I appreciate that you responded to me. I wasn't sure though if you was aiming to turn me or anyone else on whilst writing this as it was a little too detailed. But the bottom line is your circumstances are completely different than mine. Had I had no issue with the pill I would take it. But my body doesn't seem to like artificial things and that includes the replacement sugar in zero sugar drinks, fake hair, false eyelashes and the pill. The moment they enter my body, it starts to play up because it knows its not right. So I try to maintain my natural health. Unfortunately I don't like condomns either because I find the friction causes me to dry up. But it's the best form of protection without hormones. If he really can't get off with them on I'm happy for him to pleasure him self and cum but not In me or anywhere near my vaginal opening too. Glad you found what works for you
I dont like being cummed on. I prefer being cummed in but i won't let a guy do that unless he's intending on parenthood. I do like fireworks, so i just tell him to pic a target (thats not me) and aim 🙈🤣 So I've never been cummed in either. I dont care for condoms and we did the pullout method. I dont believe in birth control and i also dont fear pregnancy, so im not bothered. But i also dont have sex unless im in love and in a longterm relationship. Everyones different ig
Do you and a guy have to be married before you have kids with him
@Klami preferably. Not a requirement but preferred. I dont want to intentionally have kids with a guy that im not looking to marry. But i also only date to marry and i only have sex with whoever im in love with
You should insist a guy wears a condom if you don't trust him, but I actually turn down sex with a condom. I've tried just about every kind you can think of, and I could never feel anything.
Even the "best," one at the time I tried it, was called Trojan ecstasy, I believe. The tag line was "Feels like there's nothing there." They were right about that. It legitimately felt like I was humping the air. So yeah, I'd rather just use my hand or even not do anything at all than work my partner raw only to be frustrated anyways.
It's something I'll never get but there are times when guys as you say go at it for so long you end up feeling so numb and it's really about allowing them to just finish. And I can say that has happened many times.
To give you an idea of what it's like, put on some latex gloves and notice how much sensation you lose. Like, if you were to try and feel a fuzzy caterpillar. You can feel it MUCH better without gloves on, right? It's like that for men.
It's like that for me when a guy is so happy he's getting it raw and jack hammers me into numbness. Women like to grind men like to pound.
Condoms are fine with me.
1. Good at preventing pregnancy
2. Good at preventing HIV infection
3. Proper fitting condom doesn’t rip or cut down feeling
4. They come in novelty forms flavored, colored, glow in the dark, ribbed
5. You don’t need a prescription for them
6. They cost very little and you can buy them anywhere
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I've never had sex so I also never had this problem. I've heard guys saying that sex without condoms doesn't feel right. Then when the girl gets pregnant they complain.
Or when they get an STD.
Sex with a condom is extremely unsatisfying for me. Fortunately, at my age, my partners are post-menopausal and pregnancy is not a concern. Also, we have both been tested for STD's and we are both clean, so we have no reason to use condoms.
Is there a reason why you don't want to use hormonal contraceptives or an IUD?
I think it’s a choice with your partner. I prefer no condom. We are monogamous so I don’t wear a condom, otherwise I would. In my situation my girlfriend wants to be on the pill. If she preferred I wear condoms instead I’d do that
I don't use contraception any more, not because I don't want but it really messes with my body
That’s fair. Then condoms it is!
I just bought more a few days ago. Vasectomy coming in April or May when my new insurance kicks in, won't miss buying and wearing condoms...
Of course it's going to be condom and it's going to stay on. And longer do we know each other I would hope that could get an IUD or do you I LOL orally U ID and the thing about not wearing one and coming over you it wouldn't be coming over you and you coming all over you and then I would lay back down on you depending on what position we were in and I'm smeared all over your body with my body I would have to say it would be pretty Messi but then I could always give you a bubble bath too
Definitely no condoms. My guy just pulls out since I'm not a fan of birth control
Look I like condoms, I ain't having some chick who could be lying about birth control riuning my life for 18 years cause she got knocked up and is pro life, so I do where them just for my sake, but all those comments you made fun, "to tight, don't feel the same" they are true to, it can feel like a rubber band around the base that is borderline to uncomfortable to be worth it some times and we do loose a lot of the feeling and fun with them on.
I'm obviously not telling you to trust the guys who think they great pull out game but just a little compassion would be nice, condoms aren't fun or convenient, hell sometimes they just fall off to, don't know how when they are so tight but they do.
Yeah no if you're a guy use the condom for your own sake if nothing else. Because unfortunately for you real pussy can kill you one day.
I used IUD, it works and isn't too annoying.
I prefer not putting artificial things in me
im not a fan but if she wants me to wear them then so be it
There is no doubt that going raw feels the best but with today's technology they have made condoms super thin and they also come in several sizes. No real excuse to not wear one for both safe sex and birth control
One at a time:
1) Not hard to buy them,
2) Don't want to use them, I personally don't like to use them.
3) Sometimes difficult to keep them on,
4) Simply bullshit saying they are too 'tight"
(My penis is 2 inches thick, and a standard condom is fine) Too tight my ass! Who is that asshole trying to bullshit?
5) No, it doesn't feel the same: a girlfriend said she preferred 'skin on skin'
6) Ask can't you go on the pill: No you should not have to go on the pill.- Take some responsibility for your penis!
7) Or have someone tell you some crap like they won't cum inside you.
(I would not if I said I would not)
8) I don't want to shoot my wad on her either!
I think your asking the wrong questions. If a guy won't respect your wishes and wrap it up why are you having sex with him?
He used it, until he needed to cum them he had to diy
@lilyanony1 I PREFER taking Girl's ass SO NO CONDOM :)
Because they don't like wearing them, they seem to think it feels better without it raw sex 🤨😆
Women really don't understand that the level of pleasure a man gets during sex when using and not using a condom is night and day. It's like you may as well be giving us a vasectomy.
Because they SUCK
Do you like to have children and possibly stds?
Of course not. If a girl doesn’t want to be on BC than we can figure it out, but pretty much every girl Imve dated has been and preferred to go bare. I wouldn’t go so far as to say sex with a rubber is a waste of time, but it’s definitely a completely different experience
I think most guys are like that because they aren’t the ones that have to deal with either the mess, or pregnancy. Personally, I waited until the right guy came along, and then I didn’t just “let” him finish inside me, but wanted him to.
I always keep them around
The reality is why people don't like to use condoms because it feels better that's that's really what it comes down to. If sex with a condom felt good or better everyone would do it
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